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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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i think i might have something wrong with my lungs. i get out of breath WAY too easy. i don't think i have athsma, cuz i've never had an attack, and i don't smoke, but my parents do. i'm getting bad grades in p.e. because i can't run. i COULD run...if i could breathe, because it doesn't tire my legs at all...but anyway, how can i tell if there's something wrong with me, or what do i do?

I have the same problem i went to the doctors then i hadda go to a heart doctor and there was nuttin wrong wid my heart then i went ot a lung doctor and they are still trna figure out waz wrong wid me i hadda take all these weird tests and now i gutta go go back to the lung doctor for the 3rd time and then go to the heart doctor should b fun!!! but wat i would do iz tell your parents bout it then go to the doctors and stuff like dat well sry i made it kinda personal but hope my advice helps!!! if u need n e thing juss drop 1 in my inbox k!!


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im going to warped tour tomorow and last year wen i went the bands were signing sutographs and stuff like that and i was wondering if anyone has alreadi went and knos if good charlotte wil or will not be signing autographs

I dunno but your really lucky to be going it should be kick ass and stuff but tell me how it goes and sry i couldnt help ya but most likely GC will be signin cuz they love the fans and we love them to lol well juss tell me how it goes k!!!



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whenever i talk with my friends and stuff and they gossip about "ooh so and so got to this base"... im always kind of the one who is wondering... "what does that mean"... like im not SLOW in that department i just wanna know what each base means (no im not talking about baseball)... im not super young, ive heard just different explanations of the bases and i wanna know THE ULTIMATE BASE LINGO. if you catch my draft ;O)... thanks for whoever gives advice!
-signed, catchmeup

1st- Kissing/making out
2nd- Feeling/touchey touchey
3rd- Oral: like a bj, fingering stuff like dat
Home- SCREWIN
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umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx

well i mean if a small chest runs in your family then maybe your dun but if not then maybe u juss have to wait till like freshman year or sumtin for u to sprout u kno cuz my sista dint really get n e thing till freshman year then boom now she iz like a big c so dont worry bout it!!! if u need n e thing juss drop 1 in my inbox k hunni!!!


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Hey, well all girls know you should only have your period like every 28 days or something, well ive had my period since i was 11 and now im 14, well its usually pretty on schedule other than maybe a few days, and i have a long period sometimes but no big problems, well inthe past 6 weeks, and now 7 i have had my period 3 times. the first time it was just a little and last about 4 days. then the second time was 2 weeks after and i got the worst cramps like ever, and i usually dont get cramps and it lasted about 5 days and was a regular flow. well then 3 weeks later i have started again and im on still and its lasted about 8 days now, and the first 6 were ALL HEAVY like really really bad, and then i thought it was over and then when i woke up... nope and so now its back and its just a little but what should i do? should i go to the doctor? or what? thanx bunches!

I think u shoudld make an appointment with your doctor so u can figure out wat iz going on with your cycle!!! Hope i helped if u need anything drop 1 in the inbox k!!!


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ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help

well he should respect u and your feelings about having sex if your not ready and comfortable then he cant make u i mean juss sit down and talk to him be like im not read to have sex with u becuz i dont feel comfortable enough and i hope u respect and understand how i feel about this and i dont appreciate u presurin me into doin it juss let me have sum time and when im ready we can but till then u r gunna have to wait!!! and dont let him make u feel sry cuz u wont have sex wid him juss try to see past that i mean im sure u could do otha things besides have sex till your ready to! well hpe i helped if u need n e thing else juss drop 1 in my inbox k hunni!!!



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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do?

juss dont give up on them so fast i mean juss becuz there iz 1 thing that u dont like duznt mean u cant find a thousand things u love about him i mean juss give them a chance get to kno them better b4 u decide their not for u i mean if your lookin for thast special "one" u gutta get to kno the guyz and not juss think about that 1 thing u hate bout them cuz trust me u can find thigns that u love bout him besides that 1 thing u hate and juss try n make it work!!! hope i helped if u need n e thing u can juss drop 1 in my inbox k hun!!!


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This was to guy but I guess girls could answer too.lol.But what do you guys think of girls making the first move?I mean i've kinda been seein this guy and we've only been dating for like two weeks but we haven't done really anything accept hold hands and like kiss.And no tongue in those kisses either!Well I'm 14 and I guess I wanna make a move on doin more since he's to shy too..Cuz he is kinda shy.So what should i do?Go for it?Or wait till he does...Plz help. THanks!

I would say go in for the kill lol!!!! i mean when me n my bf started goin out we really dint do much but then i made the first move cuz he was to shy and then he gut the whole IDEA and now we do stuff all the time pluss we have been togetha for almost 10 months but yea!! i mean im 13 goin on 14!!! so i kno what iz like cuz i went through it 2 but juss go for it and then he will most likely get the idea and he will follow along and afta that he will start making a lotta moves on u juss make sure your comfortable with stuff b4 he does n e thing k hunni!!! Hope i helped if u have any otha questions u can drop 1 in my inbox k!!!



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there is tis kid who likes me and i like him to and i asked him out and he said yea but i have to wait cause he has other girls waiting for him w/e but i dont no what to do wait or go help

dont wait juss be like ok if u wanna go out wid me your chance iz now cuz i aint waitin so if u want this to work out now iz the time not until u gutta do wid all these otha girls or w/e iight!!!
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okay my boyfriend is turning 16 on the 15th of september... i know him very well but i have NO clue what to get him for his birthday!! i was going to get him a present or 2 and then put a bow around myself as another gift (stupid i know but his friend thought it would be a good idea) i've never gone shopping for a guy! does anyone suggestions on what to get him??

awwwwww my 14th birthday iz on the 15th too make sure u tell him i sed happy birthday lol well n e wayz i feel the same way bout my bf when it comes to gettin him stuff um......... some ideas would be like if he iz into different bands u could get him a band shirt, a stuffed animal sounds cheesey but he will love it, cologne, a hat stuff like that maybe a cd that he has been wantin!! i really think the idea of puttin a bow around yourself iz a adorable idea i would do it i mean he will love it!!! i mean it duznt sound stupid to me thaz actually a very good idea and im gunna keep it in mind lol!!! well hope i helped if u have n e otha questions drop 1 in ym inbox k!!


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ok first im 12 a little young but just hear me out this kid sayd he likes me and i love him to but he says he will go out wit me but other girls like him 2 so what should i do should i go on or wait for him to finally go out wit me PLEASE HELP

Im not to sure wat u mean but if u like him and he likes u then go for it and maek all thoughs otha girls jelous!! lol hope i helped drop 1 in my inbox if u need n e thing else



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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

u shuldnt care wat ppl say juss dont take n e thing to heart and try n ignore them all with their rude comments who cares wat they think if use love each otha thaz all that matters!!!
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(

He iz juss usin u so dont give into his lil plan ok u r to good for him if the only reason he will go out wid u iz if u have sex wid him your virginity iz a very special thing and u dont wanna juss lose it to sum stupid guy u wanna be in a relationship first and feel comfortable about it not presured into it u kno wat im sayin hun but like i sed he iz prolly juss usin u so take my advice and dont do it he iz juss sum stupid guy lookin for a piece of ass u kno and iz really not worth losin sumthin liek your virginity ova him im sure u could do a lot betta then sum a-hole so juss do wat u think iz the best thing but im sure u could meet sum 1 a lot betta then him and be in a relationship b4 u go and have sex!!! Hope i Helped and if u dont take my advice juss be safe n if u have n emore questions drop 1 in my inbox


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doesnt neone have any fun sites to go on wen ur bored??

You can go to www.ebaumsworld.com which iz a really funny site and they have a lot of kool stuff!!! Hope i helped


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ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!

signed, scared n wants to stop!

Well he should like u for who u r not becuz u smoke weed smokin weed iz so bad u are prolly a very intelligent girl who by smokin weed iz killin her brain cells i mean maybe like if u were olda n did it once in a while it would be ok but u really shouldnt be doin that at your age becuz im 13 gunna be 14 and my one of my bf's friends duz and i talked to him bout it but he juss dint listen but im tellin u if u stop and then he dont like u n e more then he iz not good enough for u he should like u for who u r not wat u smoke u kno wat im sayin hun so juss do wat u feel iz the right thing to do!!! Hope my advice helpes u out if u have n e more questions juss drop 1 in my inbox k!!

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i really like this guy but he is 2 years younger than me. my friends think its not right and i get really hurt. should i be wrong to like him or should i ignore my friends? im very short so im just a tiny tiny bit taller than him. hes the sweetest guy in the world though. please help me thank you i rate :)

It duznt matter age iz juss sum a numba and it dont mean jack cuz my bf iz a lil ova a year younger then me and we have been doin fine togetha n if u really like him u wont care wat your friends or n e 1 else thinks k hunni so tell hikm how u feel and find out how he feels im sue it will work out between use!!! Good Luck
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ok..my BF and I have been together for 10 months TODAY! and like in these 10 months hes told me he loved me 2 times...and the first time he told me was on the fone and i go..are u sure...and he was like yeah..and i go oh..and he goes ur not gonna say nothin back? and i go i dont think u know what ur talkin bout..cuz we had only been goin out for 2 months then! and then like when it got to us bein together for 7 months..he told me again..i was sitting by him and we were cuddling..and like he jus looked at me..and said..my name and said i love you..and i juss smiled..and he said it again..both times i never replied..cuz i was scared..im scared to say if i love him or not..how do i know? and how do i know this is the forreal way he feels? Well i want him to tell me it again..cuz i wanna tell him i do too..

How do u kno?!?!?!? u juss do!!!! and if u really do love him say it back to him and if he duznt say it n e time soon juss b like i love you one day on the phone see i have a bf of almost 10 months and we truly do love each otha and i was straight up and was like do u truly love me and he was like yea i love you so thaz wat u have to do!!! hope i helped if u have n e moe questions juss drop 1 int he inbox


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me and my boyfriend give each other oral every now and then. well he recently mentioned something about me shaving my pubic hair. he said it would be sexy and easier to perform oral on me. i dont know if i should, it would grow in thicker and darker and id have to shave it all the time. i wouldnt mind it tho probably... what do you think ?

do u want but if u do shave it u might not wanna shave the whole thing maybe only the top or suntin iz your body your decision so do wat u wanna!! have n e more questions drop 1 in my inbox


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can you get an orgasm from a guy fingering you? or just sex?

Yes....................
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?

you can be any age as long as u are comfortable doing it and not bein presured into it. I mean im 13 and i wanna have sex wid my bf of alomost 10 months but i think im waitin till im 100% sure im ready 2 meaning like when im 15 or 16 but iz your choice so do wat u wanna juss be safe!! hope i helped if u have n emore questions drop 1 in the inbox k hun!


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