Hey! I'm Andrea.. my cousin has a column here, DarkChocolate794.
I've been giving advice here for a long long time. I've been through more than you'll know. I've managed to stay normal thanks to Jesus.
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i'm 5'6 and 17 a male.DO you guys have any suggestions on how to grow taller? exercises? food? and what age do guys stop growing? (link)
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guys stop growing at about 18, but it depends when you started puberty. there is no way to get taller. no food or exersizes will make you taller. getting surgically streched is the only way and its extremely painfull and it takes a year to heal. if you go to google and type in something about how to get taller you might get something but its most likely a waste of cash.
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Im a guy,17,and i'm only 5'6.So do you guys have any idea what age guys stop growing?And what do I take to help my growing? calcium? protien? what type of food should I eat and what exercises should I do? (link)
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I dont believe there is any way to get taller. there is plastic surgery where you can get streched but it is extremely painfull, and it takes a year to heal. dont think you wanna do that. if you go to google and type in something about how to get taller, pills that make you taller, and things like that you might get something but I doubt it would work. big waste of money in my opinion.
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I'm 15 and I'm completley new to makeup. Shocking, right? I don't really need it all that much but I kind of wanted to step up my look a little bit. Can somebody help me with colors to choose or something?
Hair color: Light Brown
Eye Color: Green Blue (hazel)
Skin Color: Light with a few freckles
I'd appreciate it so much :) (link)
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i dont think the freckles matter because they wouldnt make a diference, but myjellybean.com has a great makeup generator. then there are some places like sephora and makeup racks at malls where they will do your makeup and tell you some nice things you can buy.
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The question is simple but the answer might be abit more complex! "Is life fair"? And please no answers lile "it's as fair as you make it"!! (link)
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For the nonreligions, no life is not fair.some people get more than others and on the outside things grass is greener on their side.
For the religions, like me, life is fair. bad things happen to good people but in the end bad people get what they deserve. to all the good people they get what they deserve. that doesnt mean some people dont get more than others, but theres a reason behind everything. maybe they were always kind or they tried really hard a something.
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Okay so last night i stayed at my boyfriends house.. I didn't sleep in the same room as him.. i was in his sisters room.. anyways..
We was watching a movie in the lounge and we started kissing and then we was touching each other like.. had our hands down each others trousers and underwear etc.. He got an erection.. and then he layed on top of me, still fully clothed and we kissed some more..
I am worrying that i could be pregnant even though we were fully clothed.. Because i no you can get pregnant through clothes etc..
But what is the possibility of me getting pregnant through his jeans and boxers AND my combats and thong? Like.. is this likely?
I dont know whether he came or not or anything.. and i didnt notice or feel anything wet\sticky on my combats.. But when i went to the toilet i noticed a tiny, tiny little stain, mark type thing kinda just above my private area but i dont think it went through.. infact it may of been something i spilt on there?
What do you think?
Also..
When i came home today i noticed my urine is a really dark colour and very warm to pass.. and i have been discharging a bit aswell.. My period isnt due for another week at MINIMUM.. and i am not or never have been sexually active
Any suggestions? i just really need to stop worrying or have some kind of reassurence or to know the truth about if this is possible because otherwise it might delay my period and i'll think the worst!
Sorry its long!
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sperm dies on an airy surface within 5 minutes. i have no clue about the dark pee, but it could just be food you ate. discarging alot could be just that ur period is soon. bottom line is there is no reason to worry there is NO CHANCE you are pregnant
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ok so i went out with this guy for like 2 days. then he broke up with me and my best friend told me to go ask him out for her. i really regret asking him cuz theyve been going out for 2 months now. i still really like him and he said that if him and my bff broke up he would probably go out with me again. but my best friend said that if i ever go out with him again she would hate me. im afraid that if i go out with him again that he'll break up with me again and break my heart in pieces. i dont know if i should go out with him again.
please help!!
thanks in advance. =) (link)
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About your friend, shes not that great friend. You asked out your ex for HER because you are a good friend. So now if he wants you again and they break up and you get with him, she shouldnt be pissed, because they wouldnt be together in the first place without you. it musthave been torture to hand over a guy you like to your friend. now about the guy. you shouldnt really go out with him anyway. he goes out with your bff after breaking up with you, then MIGHT want you again. you need to rethink how great you ex was, and how nice your bff is.
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my bestfriend lets call her kate she's like so kool.but i don't think i trust her because she's starting to talk to my crush alot and flirting with him and not even knowing she's flirting! and i've talked to her about it and she says that she'll try to back off but she hasn't i told her she could talk to him but just not flirt with him and she's done this to me before and i've dealt with it. she's told me she's liked the same guy i like after i tell her i like him!!!!! it kind of gets mad...no it really gets me mad!! and she acts like good bestfriend and all, but in this case i hate her!!!! pease help me out with this problem.... (link)
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Don't hate her. She's not in love with your boyfriend or anything, so neither one of you has claim on him. If its just because you said you liked him she started liking him just to piss you off, then you need to talk to her. She might have liked him before you. you dont have much of a right to tell her who to flirt with if you two arent together. if she doesnt no shes flirting you cant blame her either. You need to talk to her, if you dont you would have no reason to be mad
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hi my boobs are too small for my age and i want to know if there is anything i can use to enlarge them. oh and another thing...can you please tell me a home recipe for getting rid of acne...i've used many creams and they never work...for example proactiv never worked and many other creams like that. thnx. (link)
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your boobs arent to small for your age because theres no ideal size for your age, and big isnt always perfect contrary to what all america thinks. there is no way to make your boobs bigger. if you want to stuff and wear bras way to big for you, buy sillicon pads, get plastic surgery, and take pills-your choice. but I seriously wouldnt bother cuz its a waste of time.
acne is another thing. toothpaste works. anything with sicalic (sp?) acid works. visine eye drops reduce redness. all I no is if you wash your face before you go to bed, and after you get home from school your face will have less oil, causing less pimples. there is though, this burts bees blemish stick thats all natural and it works for me.
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hi i just want to know the easiest way to remove hair from in between your legs. the nair cream never works and waxing is too painful. and do you know if there is a permenant hair removal cream? thnx. (link)
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cream, nope. srry. the only way to permanently remove hair that i no of is to get this treatment where they shock your hair follicle and it hurts a little but not too much. it doesnt work on light blone hair but if its pubic hair or darker hair it will work fine
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i like a girl and she cant make out good how can i help her out with out herting her feelings? (link)
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DONT TELL HER!! it will bug her alot and she might not tell you but it will annoy her inside alot. just kinda pull away if she doesnt learn. and it might be helpfull if in the heat of an argument you bring it up as an insult and she'll get it. then when you make up you can tell her you were serious about how bad she was, but you can laugh it off so it wont be as bad. hope i helpd in a not to decietfull way
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I really like the Virgin Mary tattoos. I think they look really good. Problem is, I'm a Christian and as you know, the Virgin Mary, is a Cathelect (sp) thing.
Do you think it would be wronge for me to get one even though I'm a Christian?
P.S;; I'm 26 and have other tattoos. So please, don't lecture me about them or anything.
Thanks. =] (link)
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you shouldn't. its an ultamit contradiction. I cant fully answer this question without bringing this up but the whole "dont make marks on the body" reffers to cutters and tattos, so making one of anything reffering to the Christian religion would be..dumb. Catholic is a Christian religion, so it wouldnt be wrong for that reason. I would suggest getting one in henna tho, because those are temporary
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hi i'm an 8th grader and my chest size is 30. are my breasts too small? (link)
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I have no clue what you mean by ur chest size is 30. Im guessing its 30 inches around. But cup size would be helpfull. the answer is no though, despite the fact i have no clue how big or small your boobs are. you were created with that size and they will grow, and if they dont, who cares? whats meant to be will happen. theres no ideal size to compare big or small breasts with anyways you no, ppl come in all different shapes and sizes theres no ideal.
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Well... I am 12/F weigh about 90 pounds and my bra size is 34B. I am about... "4'10 I was wondering a couple things....
1) Am I overweight for my height?
2) Is there any way I can get taller?
3) Are my boobs too big for my size?
Thanks in advance =) (link)
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1. your very skinny. your bmi is fine but if u were to lose a pound your gonna be UNDERWEIGHT, so i would gain 5 pounds to be comfortable.
2.there is no way to get taller without getting surgically streched, and after that surgery your have to heal for a YEAR. not fun, and your parents wouldnt let you do it anyway.
3.no your boobs arent to big for your size.
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Is there any possible way to get your period sooner? (link)
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Fortunately, there is no way to get your period sooner.
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Well, I am Indian, aka BROWN(I am not from India though, so I speak good english). So I love to wear tennis shoes. As a result, my feet are WHITE~!! Can anyone give me a safe way to tan my feet so that they match my skin color? I've tried tanning... (link)
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i would start wearing flip flops alot. if you deside to wear flip flops alot, i would use a face powder or bronzer that matches your skin color and put it on my feet. after a while of doing this your feet should go back to normal. you can try spray on tan and put it on your feet. go around in bare feet in your house too. i heard mehndi, yea you no that paste for the henna, can be used when tanning but im not sure how it would end up.
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I am 13/f going into the 8th grade. I wear a 34A. I weigh around 95 pounds, and im 5'3. I am very very skinny. Not anorexic skinny, but stil verrry skinny. I'm uncumfortable with it, so i was wondering if you had any tips on how to put some more meat on your bones. I don't want to get fat, just not be this skinny. Any ideas? (link)
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wow. your underweight, and im not just saying that. your bmi is under 18.5. you have to gain minimum 10 pounds to be normal. okay since its summer vacation, for the next 2 weeks, don't exersize. eat 3 meals a day and eat between meals. if you have a meal with meat, half of it should be meat, or some kind of protein like peanuts. stay away from celery, cuz it has negative calories, so it burns more calories to eat it than are in the food, so you loose weight. salads with fat free dresssings are a bad idea. maybe your stomach is weak or small. the thing is, the more food you can put down the more your stomach will stretch and it will be easier to eat more, so you wont be underweight again. after your 10 pounds heavier, you can eat the food you wanna but eat more of it. basically eat more exersize less. fats and proteins are your friends
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You already answered my question,will I have the SAME chest size as my mom? And you said you didn't really know for sure becuase you don't know much about my family. Well, my mom is only and A like I said, but my fathers side, everybody says I'm most like my two aunts who are both in there 30s, and are thin, in good shape. So do you think I will end up having a chest like them? (link)
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nobody can be sure whether you will have the same chest size as anyone in your family because your only 13 and your still growing. i think your gonna grow more than your mom cuz your not that tall and your on the skinny side. if everyone in your family is around the same height and weight as you then its a different story, your barely gonna grow from there. if your aunts have to keep in good shape, like without exercize they would be pudgy your still gonna grow. its hard to tell now because, as i said, many factors affect boob size. exersize, being fat, giving birth, and if you ask your mom what size she was when she was your age, if she was flatter than you, and had her period around the same age as you, your gonna grow. an example of this. me. my mom was super skinny when she was my age so she was flatter than me, but got her period at the same age. she grew boobs in her late teens. me, im not skinny but im not fat, and my chest is gonna be on the larger side. my aunts were skinny kids too, grew in their later teens, so i no imma be on the bigger side. get it?
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I am a 13 year old female, I am about 5'2 5'3,and I weigh around 95 pounds. I wear a 34A size bra. I guess thats kind of normal...but my mom is only like a 38A or something, but I know for SURE shes an A becuase she told me. Will i grow up to have small boobs like hers? (link)
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Doubt it. most people dont end up having the same size chests as their mothers, because of their fathers side. plus gaining weight and giving birth and stuff affects your breast size, but I cant really give you a straight answer because I dont no much about your family. by the time your done having children is really the only time you can get comfortable with a chest size because from here untill then we're growing.
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i know this is a kinda weird question, but i dont like getting sick, well hey.. no one does. ecspecially in the summer, i dont wanna get sick! so does anyone have any tips on not getting sick? and staying healthy. (link)
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eat fully cooked food. meat with no red juices or pink meat. warm up the milk to your cereal. steemed vegetables r always good, and washing your fruit and salads is good too. dont share drinks directly with people. for example if someone has some starbucks coffe with the lid they sip on and u want some,take off the lid and sip from the cup. take out the straw and flip it over if your sharing a soda or something. wash your hands before you eat, or carry around hand sanitizer if you cant. sneeze and cough on your elbow. remeber to drink things with antioxidants and vitamin c. i do all of this and ive never had a sick day in my life
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Well, I am stuck in the middle of all my friends. I am not unique in any way. Even my boobs are in the middle, and my butt is like flat. I'm not super skinny, but i'm not fat either. I'm like stuck in the middle. I can't wear bikinis, but I can pull off a tankini. It's so weird, and I even act slightly... loopy to try to get attention, and my nose is super big. Do you know how I can get some extra attention?
Like I wanna be... noticed for once. (link)
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not many people are in the middle so you should be lucky to be you.you probaby stand out enough because most people arent like you. getting attention can be tiring and even annoying. geting physically attractive to get attention is just naturally the instinctive way to go, but the absolute wrong way to go. you cant do much about your nose without plastic surgery but you can wear flattering clothes that people will like for a while. acting stupid gets false attention to. being one of hyper spazzy funny dumb people will get attention but people will lose respect for you so they will never take you seriously. im guessing your somewhere in your teen years like tons of other people using this site like me and its important to be cool with your friends and stand out, but if they no you to be the dumb girl, instead of the nice middle girl they really shouldnt be your friends, but most of the time your friends no more about you than you think and can already see right through you. they already no who you are and they like you. the right people will like you for who you are and you do want the right friends dont you? just be yourself in hot clothing. flaunt your tankini, cuz skinny people would look dumb in them. be the person you are to yourself, not you to your friends.
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