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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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well i have this friends and she is 13 like me and shes had sex already and might even get married already because her parents dont give a crap about her im really worried about her and i dont want this guy to be with her..wut should i tlel her
Tell her exactly what you just told us. You're worried about her and that you don't want her to be with this guy. If he's a terrible guy then she shouldn't be with him. Tell her also that 13 is a BIT young to be getting married. The sex thing... it seems as though girls have been losing their virginity younger and younger these days. Tell her that you care alot about her and don't want to see her get hurt. If she doesn't want to listen to you then that's her problem. You were being the good friend. Hope this helped.
..::..emily..::..
ok i heard that if you gave someone a bj and you swollowed then it stays in your stomach and never goes away...do you knwo if thats true?
it's like a liquid.... so if you swallow a liquid it normally comes out the other end. It's not true. But i did hear that cum has 4000 calories and therefore it makes you fat. But what you heard, it's not true. it's like swallowing really thick and salty water... hope this helped!
..::..emily..::..
Hey i've ben straightening my hair for about 2 years and i just feel like blowdryin it straight wut is the best way to blow dry it straight and make it not look so puffy? THANK YOU!!! * i rate *
there is this really good blow dryer that you should get: Plimatic 2000 super turbo. it's the best freakin blow dryer in the world! it gets really hot to make your hair really straight. when you blow dry your hair do it in little pieces with a nylon bristle brush... at least i think they're nylon. but those ones that arent plasic! you know what i'm talking about! lol use a round one not a straight one. also use a little bit of mousse and leave in conditioner and john frieda's frizz ease hair serum. it works really great! hope this helped!
is the national sales tax percentage rate 5%
nope it's 6%
hey peeple! i need some help BADLY! my boyfriend just broke up with me last tuesday and we have been going out for 4 months and he hurt me really really bad... he sayd he doesnt wana go out with me agen and he hurts me feelings alot... i stil kinda like him, i dont miss him, i miss the person i thot he was. he hurt me so bad, and now im actually KINDA starting to get over him, i like this guy and he likes me and we are going to go out and i think this is a really good choice because this boy is WAY WAY WAYYYY nicer then my old boyfriend was...except now i have a bad reputation for going out with this guy because he has slept with a few thousand girls and every1 thinks im a slut so b4 i had friends and then i just had my boyfriend and now it feels like i have no1... but maybe if i go out wityh this guy then things will get better, i dont really need aton of advice but im just having problems in my life ...
thanks Xox0XoX0!~
sweetie, you sound JUST like me when my ex broke up with me. it was pretty much the same situation. He treated me like complete shit (sorry for language) and he cheated with any chick and every chick he could get his hands on. He cheated on me with a 17 year old chick (We were both 14) and from what i hear, he got her pregnant. My reputation got so messed up because of going out with that guy. He embarassed me so bad, i'd be sitting in the hallways crying my eyes out because of what i'd hear about him and he'd just walk right past me and not give a damn. He told everyone that we had sex (which we didn't) he told everyone i gave him head (which i didn't) he told everyone all these things that never happened and now i have a reputation of being the slut of my school. Don't listen to what other people say. You know it's not true so that's all that matters. And i DO think that if you start going out with this guy things will brighten up for you. That's what happened with me. I found a new boyfriend and i couldn't be happier. I hope you get over this asshole (sorry again for language) because you don't deserve to be treated like that. No one does. Hope this helped! Good luck hun! if you need anything just drop one in my box.
..::..emily..::..
is it ok to go out with a perosn that is younger than you?
Well it is okay... but it depends on YOUR age and the other person's age. Say if you're 16 and you're dating a 12 year old... that's a little creepy. If you're 18 and dating a 14 year old still a little creepy. If you're 18 and dating a 16/17 year old it's fine, a year or 2 years difference is the normal age difference in people dating and married.
heyyy i like this guy and i've liked him for a really long time. how can i get him to notice me? sometimes i get really shy around guys.
Well, find out what he likes, and one day walk up to him and talk to him about those interests ex: he plays baseball ask him who's his favorite player/ team that kind of stuff. When you see him in the hallways say hi to him. Don't do it all the time because he might think you're obsessed. Try not to be so shy. Act as if you're talking to one of your friends. If he says something stupid but somewhat funny which all guys do just give him a cute little smile and look at him. I tell everyone this: EVERYONE LOVES A NICE SMILE!!!!! =D Hope this helped! if you need anything just drop one in my box and i'll get back to you.
..::..emily..::..
SORRY IT'S LONG
It it normal to get vaginal discharge even before you have your period?
Like I'm gunna be 14 in a few months, and I've been having discharge, and I've NEVER had my period.
So my questions are, is it normal that I don't have my period?
and is it normal that I'm getting discharge?
What should I do, we don't have any pads around the house, and I'm not a fan of tampons, also I find it really akward to talk to my mom about that kind of thing, so I don't want to like go out and get pads or anything until I actually have my period
What should I do?
Well the whole discharge thing is part of you about to start your period. It's normal. And yes it is normal that you don't have your period yet. It varies with everyone. My suggestion is to talk to your mom even though you feel weird about talking to her and tell her what's going on. You're mom has been through the same thing I promise and she'll let you know exactly what's going on with your body. Hope this helped!
okay i was just wondering if it's normal that i 14 and dont have my period....i was at the doctors and he said that hey will have to investagrate to see wuts wrong if i dont start sooner but then again in my eyes hes a gay doctor and i dont like or will ever listen to him. but from experienced ppl and everything is it normal that i haven't started? i will be 15 soon in january. thank you guys in advance.
Well everyone is different. One of my aunts got her period when she was 21... I'm not joking either she really did! You'll get it. Don't worry =D hope this helped!
I have these really cute pair of jeans that aren't flare. Theyre a little baggy, and they fit prefectly. But, I dont know what type of shirt or shoes to wear with them, because i dont want to look like a guy. lol. but does anyone have any accesorie, shirt n shoes ideas? That would help me alot!! Thanx!!
-Janine-*
Just wear sneakers or shoes like a low heel and a fitted t-shirt in a girly color like pink or w/e! hope this helped!
Ive never smoked weed and I dont plan to.. but why do people do it ? Like what happens when you get high .. whats so good about it ?
I haven't smoked weed or anything for that matter but I know people that have. They say that you get this feeling of calm and as if you have no cares in the world and it makes you feel happy and at ease. but you can do that while taking a nice hot bubble bath! why do something illegal! People are stupid. I'm glad you choose not to do drugs. Good for you.
I really dont know what category to put this under but anyway.... i started my period in July and my boobs aren't big! I mean i atleast want them to be a size B!! I am 13 years old! But do you think they will grow? **help**
P.S.-I rate high! ;)
There is nothing you can do to make them grow, they will grow as you get older. I was in 6th grade when i got my period and now i'm in 9th. I'm a B cup. Calm down they will grow just give it time.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a week now, and I really like him a lot. I've heard stories about him getting stuff from girls then not talking to them but he wasnt going out with them though. All I've done is kiss him so far only because I'm so afraid all he wants from me is sex or something like that and I dont want to bring it up in case he isnt using me. But I was just wonderin if there was anything I could do besides being a prude to see if he really likes me or not. Thanks!
You should still bring up the subject about sex. Talk about how you're not ready to do it yet and if you want to wait until you're older or until marrage or whenever you think you should lose your virginity. If at any point the two of you are making out and he takes his hand and unbuttons your pants or tries to get his hand down there stop him. Then you'll know he's really using you. If he even jokes about you giving him head. Then that would be another sign. Also you really can't believe what other people tell you! People are a$$holes.This has happened to me before. Not fun. Good luck and i hope everything works out for you!
..::..emily..::..
well i want to put conditioner on my hair and then sleep with it on... sounds crazy i no but i think it would help. i mean my hairs not really dried out of anything but it could prob use the shine and moisture. what do u think?
lol thanx
definately don't leave it in over night. it will make your hair greasy. buy a really good conditioner for extra dry hair and leave it on for 5 mintues then put in a leave in conditioner. Infusium 23 works. hope this helped!
ok my homecoming is october 30th. i have a few questions. can anyone tell me a really good selftannig product because its told cold here to go tanning naturally and my mom wont let me go to a tanning bed. so that is my 1st question. my second one is can anyone give me a specific site for hairstyles for homecoming. and my 3rd and last question is what kind of dress should i get what colro and were (things like that for the dress) thank you guys so much! and i rate if it helps!
For the self tanner, use Estee Lauder sunless. For the hair Just stop by your salon and they have books for updos and down dos for your hair and you can pick whichever you want. as for the dress do not go with pink, pink/black. VERY cliche and everyone is wearing it now. My suggestion is go to with your eye color. Blue eyes - any shade of blue dress or a black dress, Green eyes- Red dress or a green dress
Does anybody out there know of any good food recipe sites? I love to cook, but I need a lil help. lol If u know of any, pleeez help me Thanx!!
-Janine-*
Lemon chicken. It's the best!!! you can use as much chicken as you want and season it however you want. You want the chicken to be white though because there are some seasonings that give the chicken color. What you want to do it cook the chicken in butter and oil. After you've done that with all the chicken put it on a dish and squeeze a half a lemon over all of the pieces. Add a little chopped parsley and sesame seeds and make Garlic pasta and you're good to go! for the garlic pasta do whatever type of pasta you want i prefer angle hair. Add 2 table spoons of butter like 2 table spoons of milk a little bit of black pepper, some parsley for color and for the garlic depending how how garlicy you like your food just put as much as you want! hope this helped!
OK im getting my hair n im not sure wut i should do its like 3 or 4 inches past my shoulder... and its like beach blonde... i have tan skin green eyes and braces wut do u think i should do should i get lowlites like undernath or wut tell me any ideas that u think might look good thanks!
You should get layers and low lights and highlights all throughout your head. For the cut, get layers, not too short but short enough so you can put it up in a pony tail. it's easier to work with.
hope i helped!!!
I made my boyfriend cry today. I am such a bad person. What do I do?
Well, i could only help you if you were to tell me HOW you made him cry, like what specifically happened that caused him to cry? Drop it in my box if you want me to answer your question. thanks
Hey, at lunch my friend always eats really junky foods, i mean tons, and i think shes gonna gain tons of wait quite soon. Should i tell her???
luv,
Rachel
If you're really worried about her gaining weight.. then yes talk to her. I mean, you're still all young and shiz, high motabolism, blah blah blah, it will catch up to her if she's not careful.
Would a punk guy like me? im not prep n not ghetto sort of inbetween cuz im white i wear ecko n baby phat n i have a crush on this boy just hes punk n not my type at ALL but i like him anyway hes nice to me,sweet AND cute. I do NOT care how he dresses, do punk guys only like other punks or do they like other type of ppl too?
First off, PLEASEEEEE stop using the term "punk" as if it is a style. it's a genre of music and a LIFEstyle, not a clothing style. Anyways, Just talk to him. Looks aren't everything. Just remember that.