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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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ok so theres these two girls "Nicole" & "Sarah" who dont like me and mi bffs but we dont like them eather cuz they are sluts and stea al r guy friends the thing is im scared that there gunna steal the kid i like who im not sure likes me but w.e wat should i do to keep him away from the SLUTS

tell this guy you like him... ♥ Dez

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If a guy is trying to avoid me should I still try to talk to him?

why would you try to talk to a guy who is avoiding you?? ♥ Dez

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i got 16 speakers in my houce that i have no use for, i was wondering how i could hook em up so they work togather.
what i gota buy to plug em all in? or can i just cut and strip the wires and interconnect em all that way

sorry guys but im to cheap to throw out my huge sonny and bose speakers so i gota do something with em.

Man i could help you out but i really dont know how to explain it.. are you hookin this all up to one reciever??? ♥ Dez

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how do you hook up please what do you do when you are ready go around or in and out what do most people do

What are you askin? if your askin does a guy go in and out of a female then the answer is yes.. but if that wasnt it then leave a question in my inbox with better details.. ♥ Dez

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What are the bases?
i knoe base 1 is making out whats theres?

1.. kissing
2..fingering/hand jobs
3..oral sex.. *eatin a female out/givin a guy head..
4..SEX ♥ Dez

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Is it weird for a girl to practice french kissing on another girl or does that make them lesbian?

No this doesnt make you a lesbian.. alot of girls try kissing with a friend.. and i mean if you like this female more then a friend or actually enjoyed it alot then i would probably say yes you might be but i dont thin thats the case.. ♥ Dez

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what age is normal to have sex im not sure cuz alot of ppl say that they have sex early or late so i need to no an normal age

Well alot of people think its when your 18 somethink its when your married.. well i lost my virginty when i was 16..but see i knew i was ready and knew that this guy loved me and that i loved him.. We were together over a year before actually havin sex.. Well i think if your ready for some consequences that could possibly happen and that you love this person and you know they love you then your ready.. but i wouldnt think your ready if you was at the age of thirteen or fourteen.. ♥ Dez

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im female and i have knew "tom" for a year now and he goes to the same school as me and everything and hes one of my best mates and before summer break his mate asked me if i'd go out with "tom" but i dint say anything because every1 kept changing the subject.this happened twice and one of my other best friends did the same but i dont know if they were jokin but i really like him i cant stop thinkin bout him and id want to go out with him but then he went out with this girl that i never knew he even talked to and she dumped him for his friend a week later.the hard part is that no one knows i like him in that way at all n sry its so long but i dont know what to do!!

Well since you havent told your best friend i think that would be the beginning of maybe gettin things started with this guy Tom.. I would tell her that you like him maybe not put in the whole cant stop thinkin about him tho.. But maybe she can try and hook you guys up or atleast tell this guy you like him.. i thik if these girls are askin do you like him he's probably said something to them about likin you and tryin to find out if its okay to come and ask you out.. I mean thats a possiblity you know? well just try that out.. ♥ Dez

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What could be wrong if you don't have your period after 7 months? and you're definetely not pregnant..

Nothing this happens to girls.. you might need to go see a doctor tho.. they can probably help you out more.. ♥ Dez

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hi, what do most girl/women use during their period to sleep? pad or tampon?

some sleep with a pad some sleep with a tampon.. i would suggest sleeping in a tampon because if you bleed alot while sleeping it'll go everywhere.. ♥ Dez

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What tea bagging it mean or something to that effect cause boys say that in my class and i have no clue what it means!

well think a ten bag goes in a cup.. theyre sayin they'll put their nuts in your mouth.. yea thats pretty disgusting.. ♥ Dez

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there is this guy that i have known for a while and he is hott and everything but he is like a brother to me and he asked me out should i do it or should i just say no?

love ?

Well if you like him as more then a brother then go for it.. if you just think of his as like a brother then i wouldnt go cause that would be akward.. ♥ Dez

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My girlfriend of two years recently lost her father to cancer. That was about two months ago and it was a tough time for her but in the last week she has begun to bounce back and smile agian.
The problem is, we haven't had sex since her father passed. I don't want to sound like an ass or anything, but we used to have a really active sex life and now it feels like there is this wall between us I can't get past.
Anyone know how I could bring this up without offending her? Do you think it's too soon? I miss the sex of course, but I can live without if she's not ready.

i personally think its to soon.. i would wait til she comes onto you.. or id come on to her inm about another month or some.. let her smile and stuff at first then be able to go out and do things like a regualr person then eventually she'll want to have sex.. also maybe try and take her places do more things for her so she knows that you care,..*im not sayin she dont know you care but that way she'll feel okay when she's ready to have sex again* i wouldnt bring this up.. or you can try coming on to her and see how she reacts.. ♥ Dez

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is it wrong to be jelous of your stepfather when he gets expensive presents for his birthday and you dont

Hey i can understand how you feel about this.. my step dad got more clothes for my mom this week then i did and i got to go back to school.. and he wont haver have time to wear these clothes cause he works two jobs seven days a week and has to wear uniform to these jobs so when would he wear those clothes lol?? so i dont think its wrong to be jealous.. ♥ Dez

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I am 15 year old male, gay, and attending High School. In the past year, I've come to terms with who I am and I've come out to 2 of my friends. My huge problem is that nobody my age comes out of the closet so I am going to be single for a while. I am despretely lonely and wanting someone to sweep me off my feet. I just feel so deprest and want to have a boyfriend like all the other straight couples have where you love each other and understand each other and comfort one another. My problem is that there is this guy that I like but he has no clue I exist. I think that he is gay. The signs are that he is in tennis, went to tennis camp and is trying out for the tennis team, is in drama class, his eyebrows look plucked, he looks well made up and his hair is curly and conditioned, he is fit, and all his friends are strangely attractive. I also see the way he looks at guys and can kinda tell. I really want to become friends with him so that I can be around him and be happy and possibly get him to come out to me and maybe even become my boyfriend but I don't know how to go up to him and become his friend. It's like I can't just walk up to him and say hey what's up because we don't know each other so I was thinking of bringing up tennis because I've started taking lessons and stuff and I'm going to try out for the team just so I can be there with him and possibly go to his camp and get closer to him. I just don't know how to become his friend or how to talk to him. What should I do?

Hey i think if you really want to make the time why dont you ask him to help you out with playing or ask him if he'd like to play with you.. you can talk to him a lil bit about the sport and stuff.. i mean when you go like try out or whatever bring this up and be like hey your pretty good want to practice with me one day..

i mean if people find out about this in your school you also could have problems you know that right...? i mean teenagers will do pretty much anything to ruin somebodys highschool rep.. so i would suggest maybe having a reltionship out of school and keeping it between you and this other guy.. im not sayin dont go for this guy you like but just keep it between you guys..

Hope i helped ♥ Dez

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my mom keeps telling me to do chores like take out the trash, do the dishes, and other stuff.but when i ask her to help she says it's not her job. so i ask then what is your job. and she says to be the mom. and so after that she orders me to do the dishs. and i say you do them. and she says you have to earn your keep. and so i say you dont earn your keep you dont even have a job. so i get grounded. why sould i work when my mom dos'nt. i dont think i was put on this planet to do dishes. and im not her robot. but i dont wanna be grounded. should i alpolage and destroy my pride or should i hold my feet down and stay grounded.

sorry it was so long.
i'll rate a 5 no matter what

Hey i have the same problem with my mom but my mom works.. but see my step dad doesnt and dont have to do shit around my house which that pisses me off.. but i think if you want to go out and do things then just half ass things she asks you to do lol thats what my lil sister does.. i do correct cause im like a neat freak but she might just keep those dishes there then end up adding more then you'll have to do them plus extra ones.. so id just do it hun.. ♥ Dez

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I was just wondering, what colors match? I'm like bad at matching clothes haha, so I was j/w what colors go together, and what colors DON'T!

well anything goes with jeans.. just ask somebody in your house.. some people think some clothes match and some dont.. ♥ Dez

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whats the average amount of minutes? 400?..500?..600? because i am getting a plan thats 600 minutes a month is that enough?

Depends how much you talk to people.. if your going to use it like everyday for a few hours or something then you probably need more mintues.. it might also depend on the time of day or day of week you use it.. *most cell phone plans have free weekends and unlimited minutes after a certain time* if you find out more i could probably give you a better answer.. on my cell phone plan i got 300 mintues that i share with my step dad and mom and we never come close to using them all.. and like if you know people with the same plan sometimes they dont charge you to call them cause their on the plan.. hope i helped a lil bit .. ♥ Dez

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=( This has been really bugging me; I really like this guy. I've only known him for 2 weeks, and talked to him a few times, but I can't stop thinking about him. He's such a great guy, and I'm happy for any girl who gets him. But I can't get him off my head.

What's wrong with me? :(

Its lust not love.. you have a crush on this guy.. it doesnt really mean you love him cause you think about him all the time.. thats also very common when you like somebody too.. and nothing is wrong with you.. just what ever you do dont go running to him and say oh baby i love you.. cause some people on this site might actually say you love him but then you might make yourself out to look stupid for believeing them.. ♥ Dez

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ok so i have kissed a boy before but i have never made out with one. i know this might sound stupid but where do you put your hands and know when to stop.

i'm kind of scared incase he thinks i'm rubbish

i'll rate 5's

Well hun when i make out with my boyfriend i put my hands like on the side of his stomach.. i rub the back of his neck a lil bit or just but my arms around him while kissing him.. ♥ Dez

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