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I am a Christian who doesn't go to church. I pray every night and believe that Jesus died for our sins and that God exists.
My question is that why do so many other Christians put down other ones that don't go to church? I have a relationship with God, too! Thanks.

Well they believe that you should go to church.. i dont know why they put people down.. just alot of people think if you dont do what they do your WRONG!! but i personally think your not.. i believe in and god and everything too and i dont go to church but i just dont like being around alot of people.. ♥ Dez

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I'm getting a new cell phone (I have a Basic none flip Nokia with T-Mobile to go) Which kind of plan is cheapest?(I hate t-mobile) I want a flip phone what model should I get??

if you get a flip phone i wouldnt get motorola i had three of those this past year and they all broke and they was from t-mobile.. im not too sure about plans cause i share my mintues cause i dont use em that much.. i know they have phone card plans which i think are real bullshit in my opinion.. but you can call t-mobile and find out there plans they usually have some good deals if you tell them how many mintues,texts,picture messages and la da da da all you want.. i think theres a new nokia flip phone which i think nokia's are the best so ask about that.. sometimes they give you the phone for free with a 30 dollar activation and all that stuff.. Sorry i didnt know you didnt want to stay with t-mobile but i dont know what a cheap plan is.. sorry ♥ Dez

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okay this is for girls but hey if your a guy and you know what your talking about go ahead...so i put eyeliner on and like by the time im at school its wearing off and when i get home its gone and like under my eyes..ahh what can i do..

il rate HIGH

well i think maybelle eyeliner is the best but sometimes that dont stay on all day.. id suggest reapplying it atleast twice a day.. ♥ Dez

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i love making brownies and i have a great receipe What do i do with it?

Cook the brownies and send em to my house lol.. ♥ Dez

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How do you find your breast cup size???

pretty much any store can fit you.. they'll measure you.. ♥ Dez

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How much do tanning salons cost to go?? Thanks!!

well like package deals are like 80 dollars.. and for like one day its around 10 dollars.. but id suggest just calling a tannin salon because they all are different.. ♥ Dez

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Ok me and my bf have been going out 4 almost 8 months. It would be 8 months on Saturday. We've been fighting lately and just when I think we're good again he turns around and we're fighting again. I don't think I can put up with it. I love him so much im jsut sick of being confused all the time. I wrote him a breakup note and everything i was so sure of it last nite..but 2day i dont know. I love him so im afraid to lose him but I think we should just take a break 4 awhile...I don't know if he would ever take me back tho. I'm so afraid to do this and I'm gonna miss him so much. I guess my question is am I doing the right thing by taking a break?

well since you argue so much maybe try to have more time apart.. *im not sayin taking a break or breaking up** just give eachother more space.. ask him what he wants out of you.. tell him what you want out of him.. tell him how you feel about your relationship with him and why you want to fix it before you guys are no longer together no more.. if he starts to argue i recommend not doing the same back..**if he starts to argue id just sit quite knowing how hard it is and then when he is done say what you want and tell him your not arguing or yelling..** most of the times when people take breaks they dont get back together so i wouldnt do that.. i think if your completely misrable with him then just end it and try to be friends.. ♥ Dez

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what are sign of pregnacy

well usually the first sign is missing a period.. then you start gettin morning sickness then thats when i think you need to go see a doctor or get a pregnancy test.. get the pregnancy test a week or so later when you missed your period.. ♥ Dez

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I have had started to get pubic hair in like 4th grade and it's been getting bad. I don't know what to do because it like sticks out a little in bathing suits. What should I do??

I'll give 5's for good answers

shaving your bikini line would be the best thing to do.. or you can trim it and shave.. if you need tips on shaving or anything leave it in my inbox.. you can try nair bikini stuff.. that way you dont shave or wax.. ♥ Dez

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Why do females regret losing their virginty when they did? What's the average age that a female loses her virginity? There is no way to get over losing your virginity is there? What if u only did it one time, then u wait like 20 years will it be tight again?

Well in my opinion females regret it because later on they figure out they lost their virginity to a loser who didnt care about them or anything.. i think they regret it also because somebody else better comes along that they probably wished they had sex with.. also some girls lose their virginity the wrong way like rape,being drunk or what not.. from what i can tell an average age a girl looses their virginity is 15/16 years old sometimes younger im not sure.. Lossing your virginity isnt always a bad thing if you loose it with somebody you love and everything.. but if you lost it in a way not choosen or with an asshole most likely you'll never get over it.. after doing one time you still should be pretty tight no matter the size.. so i believe yes in twenty years they'll still be tight.. ♥ Dez

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does anyone know a cool way to paint fingernails so they are decorative without using decals? I am partial to things like dice, letters, runes, etc, but any designs would be cool. any websites with designs would be good too.

playboy bunny's lol cute.. ♥ Dez

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Hey, I need to know some bands that sound like System of the down. Thanks!

disturbed and trapt.. ♥ Dez

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ok so heres the deal i got my upper cartilidge pierced 2 months ago n i never took it out. ive been cleanin it everyday n all but its definetly infected. so i tried takin it out today n i cant. theres a ball on it so i tried spinning it both ways but it wont come off.. anyone have anyideas???

well if you want to keep it in i wouldnt.. i would loosen the earring and stuff so you can clean it a lil bit better.. i dont know what you mean by a ball..? so if you tell me what you mean maybe i could help you better so leave it in my inbox if you'd like.. ♥ Dez

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I think I may have mono. Some girl at school has it and me and her drank from the same drink and I haven't felt so great since. I'm really tired. What are the symptoms? Should I tell my mom? (She'd really flip) What do I do to get rid of it?
I'll rate.

you need to go to the doctor so yes telling your mom is the thing to do.. my boyfriend had this over the summer and from what i could tell it was similar to like a very bad cold.. he had a very sore throat,coughing.. spiting alot of flim.. very hot and high temp.. sometimes your glands are swollen.. there isnt no medicine that cures mono.. and it takes atleast a year or so til its completely out of your system so it can come back.. your also very tired and dont fee like doing much.. they put my boyfriend on steroids cause he was so weak.. ♥ Dez anymore questions ask away..

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I get razor burn ever time i shave... does any one know a good shvegel or a good razor i could used to prevent this?

try venus shaving gel and the razor.. ♥ Dez

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ok this is my 4 or 5 period (don't really remember) and it started on wednesday and on friday night i had like very very very little blood and over night there was none at all so it was 12 hours with no blood and now all of sudden i had kinda alot what the heck!? Please don' tell me "thats the way the body works or your periiod is iiregualr" i wanna why that happened?!

Well yes im going to tell you your period is irregualr.. it always is at first then eventually is should become better.. i cant really explain why its like this im not sure for myself.. sorry if i didnt help much.. ♥ Dez

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When a guy says maybe does it usually mean yes? Like my one friend asked the guy I liked if he'd ever go out with me and he said I don't know maybe. So do you think that means yea since to guys maybe usually means yes?

everybody says maybe might mean yes but to some people they say maybe so they dont hurt somebody's feelings at first.. that way they know the person they said maybe to make em think that they actually thought about it.. i think if this guy gives you a No answer he probably was from the beginning.. if he says yes then he was probably going to give a Yes answer from the beginning.. ♥ Dez

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Hi
I am 23 yrs old and recently started taking Tri-cyclen brand B. C. pills. I know that you are supposed to take them at the same time each day but no one is perfect. My pills are 28 pack and Sunday start.There was one day when I forgot til 2 hours later and another day for a half hour. I read that combination pills are okay to take off your schedule if you forget, as long as it's within 8 hours or something than it's not considered missed. So I should be fine if Tri-cyclen are combination pills. I assume they are from the TRI part but this is the first time I've taken them ever and rather than making another appt just to ask my MD that one question, is there any experienced birth control takers that can answer my question? I know that you should wait 7 days til you have sex unprotected after you take them so we did that. My bf and I only rely on the pill now since we've been together 6 months and he doesn't want to use condoms anymore. We've both been tested for STDS also so we're okay with that. so I want to make sure that I know what I'm doing.
Can someone please help me?

Thanks, I'd really appreciate it.
H

Hey..
Ive been on birth control for almost a year and sometimes i messed up and dint take it at the right time.. you should be fine.. if you want to be positive then dont have sex for seven days but i doubt thats in need.. since you were only two hours off instead of more then eight then that answers your question you should be okay..

**Best of luck to you and your boyfriend always..**

♥ Dez

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Ok so I pierced my ear last Saturday...it swelled up so I took it out on Monday of last week and they said it would be ok to re-do it on Friday...So I go in on friday and they recommended to give it another day. I go back on Saturday (yesterday), and she re-pierces it getting just my cartilage. It swelled up the first time cause they got the very edge of the nerve. So right now, its really red and it looks like its gonna swell up as bad as it did last week. I've been cleaning it as the instructions say, havent been sleeping on it, and it hurts like hell when I put the antiseptic on it. Am I doing something wrong or should I continue and ignore the swelling and pain?? This is the first time i've ever done this so I have no friggin idea what to do so help me out please

Well this happens and it will probably hurt and be like that for a good month or so.. i find it normal cause it happen to me and all my friends who have had it done.. from experience thats the piercing thats really hard to keep clean and keep it from hurting.. if the pain becomes unbearable i would take it out and leave it alone.. ♥ Dez

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I just started birth control to help regulate my period. Well I'm on my 22nd day of my first pack, and I've forgotten to take my pill twice since I've started. I skipped those and just went to the next one. So my question is, since I skipped those pills, what does it mean? I know it doesn't make the pill as effective, but I don't need to worry about that because I am not sexually active. Also, how long does it take for it become just as effective again?

Well when you miss a pill your suppose to take it as soon as you remember even if you have to take two pills in the same day.. i wouldnt worry about it since your not sexually active but eventually you'll be in a routine and be able to remember.. if you have anymore probalems you can ask me or consult a doctor.. ♥ Dez

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