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so im 14/f and im so called "different" from everyone else. i dont look the same as them because i have my own style and im myself. being a freshman sucks too. anyway i dont have a boyfriend. i mean boys talk to me all the time i guess they just dont like me? This one even walks me to class and sits by me all the time. So does that mean he likes me? How can i tell if they like me?

okk don't get too involved with whether guys like you or not. i'm sure they do...SOMEONE is bound to fall for you. don't stress yourself out looking for "signs" that he likes you. It's not worth it, trust me. keep talking to him, help them with their problems if that's what you're good at and they will come to you.

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ok i know it seems weird soem girls just talk about how horribel it is to have small boobs but i feel insecure about myself becasue i have realy big boobs adn i am only 13 i have a size D cup and i here guys talk about girls who have big boobs liei soem of my friends and say how big boobs are hard to work with and that big boobs are good to a point i dont knwo if i shoudl try to reduce the size of my chest or keep it normal i need help thanxs so much and no stupid remarks pleezzz

keep them! you will grow into them... you're not going to have the same proportions when you get older and 13 is much to young to have reduction done because your body is still growing.

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hey, what do you guys think is a good liquor to drink for new years? I mean i wanna get shit faced but not spend all my money...what u think?

Watermelon Smirnoff .. or any flavor actually. it's 5% alcohol by volume & yes, you can get shit-faced pretty quickly.

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hello my question is that ive been having my period for well over a month now the first two weeks i rarely bled and now its alot of bleeding especially in the morning or when i go to the bathroom before this my period would come on a basis of every 4 or 5 months and at one point it didnt come for 9 months im 21 years of age and im way to scared to go see a doctor please find out whats wrong with me thank you for your cooperation
Dedee

You are 21, therefore you should know that the right thing to is to see a doctor. We can't just give you a link and say this will stop your period.

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I am looking for a school in which I can major in both theater & education. I think I want to go into teaching theatre. I want to stay in the East I think, unless there's some really good school for it. I live in CT and I don't mind being a good few hours away, but I don't really want to be across the country. I am a fairly good student...B+ average. Any ideas for a good school that would offer theatre education specifically?

UC- university of cincinnati in ohio. they have a great college conservatory of music program. my voice teacher got her degree in voice training from there so i don't see why they wouldn't have theatre education.

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I'm 27 years old and my ten year highschool reunion is coming up in the new year. Well I feel that by my age I should have acomplished more than I have.
For one thing, I'm still single and don't own my own home or have children. I thought by now that I'd be married, have either a successful career or be a housewife.
All I have is a ten year old car, a small appartment that I rent, a part time job that doesnt pay that good, and some nice furniture and lots of movies, cds, and large television and computer. Maybe I shouldnt complain, I guess things could be worse. Some people from my class are in jail, or had to move back in with there parents for financial reasons, or became single parents.
How can I feel better about myself so when I do go to the reunion I won't sound like such a loser?

tell yourself how hard you work for everything...those are accomplishments!
get a nice outfit and tell everyone about your "simple but happy" life.

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Can anyone give me a few songs about death, suicide, cutting, anything sad and i mean SAD

It doesnt matter the 'type' of music

Please and thank you

My Immortal-Evanescence
hold on - good charlotte
perfect - simple plan
fade to black - metallica
a lot of 3 doors down songs are sad...
whiskey lullaby - (i foget...its country..)
without you & your eyes & goodbye love- RENT

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Anyone know some really good pop/rock love songs? 5's for good suggestions.

don't wanna miss a thing - aerosmith
it's friday, i'm in love - the cure
artists to look for: kelly clarkson, ashlee & jessica simpson, mandy moore, fall out boy...

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im 14f. i started my period last year and i use pads. i tried using a tampon once and it didnt work out. it felt weird. i like to go swimming and im on my period now nad my best friends b-day party is in 2 days at a holiday inn and we will be swimming. what should i do?!?

try it again...read and understand the directions before you put it in. the first couple times it will be weird but it's worth it... no joke! you can go without but if you really want to enjoy yourself, get a box of them and try and try again.

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so. this was my first year in high school and in public school. i was "shy" and quiet in class. I did make soem friends though. It just feels like in school all the girls look the same and than u have me who has my own style and stuff. People are saying im "weird" and making up rumors just because i stick out. I have brown hair and green eyes and people just think im weird because im not afraid to be myself. Am i doing the right thing?

you're doing the right thing...when youre upperclassmen, people will start to really like your originality.

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I need a list of as many random physical objects you can think of. Try and be interesting if possible (for example- book, clock, picture is indescript, you can get a little more detailed)

Thanks-5's for everyone who tries

a can of yams, a slim fast smoothie from the early 90s, striped leggins, a picture of your grandma, a powerange figure/underwear, a troll, a flower print lamp.

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Is there any possible way to get pregnant from swallowing a guy's cum? I know it sounds stupid, I'm just making absolutely certain that there's like no way it could leak into any body cavity. So no smart ass answers. Thanks.

no theres no way what so ever.

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i got my first period the last day of november. when should i be like preparred to get it again?

it could happen at anytime... just keep supplies with you everywhere you go.

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is there a specail meaning to the song Gasolina i've been wondering this for a long time i know its an old song but what does it mean..because if it doesnt have a meaning its pretty pointless.

ill rate all 5's to people who arnt smart asses.
thanks [ xoxox ]

well i've pondered that for a while...i think its really sexual actually...gasolina being like cum and such but i'm probably wrong...that's just how i took it.

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i noticed that a lot of girls eyeliners stay on for hours at a time w/o applying it more than once. How do they do it? because i always have to apply mine bout every 30 mins. Thanks!!

different kind of eyeliner. try maybeline unstopable or liquid. every 30 mins. is ridiculous. if you need smarter ways of applying it, ask someone by you if they can diagnose the problem.

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Oh. My. Fucking. God. I'm going to an audition for the musical "Phantom" by Maury Yeston and Arthur Kopit (NOT the opera by Andrew Lloyd Webber!) and so to get into the whole Phantom the Opera theme, I chose the song "Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again" from the Andrew Lloyd Webber version. I got it down, but the thing is, I don't know what to do about my body. What should I do with it? I know I can't just stand there. Movement just doesn't come naturally for me.

Thanks

Cheyenne

look up like you are actually wishing (make it really dramatic), take a few steps move away then back to the center...you have to show you are comfortable using the whole stage, be somewhat "hands-y" and put them up like properly at your waist (like holding each other) then the occasional hand on heart thing. i suggest wearing sme kind of necklace... it'll guide you on where to put your hands and such.

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OKAY... please do not anwser this question unless you are 100% sure

Can you get pregnant if you havent had you period yet?!?!

yes you can so be careful.

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ok so you know how when really good singers sing, they do that thing with their voice that makes it go up and down.. it kind of sounds like vibrato (the wrist shaking thing) when your playing a string insturment. does anyone know what that voice thing is called and how to do it? cause i really want to do it when i'm auditioning for this musical!

vibrato...yeah, it doesn't sound natural for most. don't try something new like that for an audition. it's not worth it. when it isnt done right or is excessive...it's annoying. (it pissed off my chorus director when all the sopranos tried to do it...) so just do your thing, it will come later.

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Does anyone know if the boys like the smell of britney spears curious perfume? I just got a box of it and lotion for christmas. So i was just wondering.

i think they do.

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Does anyone know where I can get chanel sunglasses for really cheap?

i just checked the sunglass hut warehouse and they don't have them. (i was interested..i want some too) just thought i'd let you know!

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