when you have your period can you go in the pool? because like my mom said the cold water stops the flow... even if youre not wearing a pad or tampon?
thats not true.. wear a tampon hun.. ♥ Dez
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me and my friends are each going to be one color for halloween... i am going to be blue. Does anyone here know where i can get like blue fake nails...blue lipstick... and blue fake eye lashes? does target have it?
Yes deff try target or walmart.. ♥ Dez
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I am a 24 year old female. Please tell me how to choose between two 30-something year old men that are both in love with me. One I was engaged to but he had to be put in jail for domestic violence The other lives aproxamately 1,500 miles away. My fiance` and I are required to go to a councelor by the courts,but I am in love with both men at the same time too.( My fiance` was drunk at the time of the incident, he is really sweet when he is sober.) I don't know who to choose. Please send me some good advice on who to keep in my life!
well my mom was married to a guy who was an alcoholic.. im not sure if this is this guys situation or not but you dont want that in a guy.. i seen how it has tooken my mothers trust away and everything else.. he has abused my mom alot and yes she thought things was going to get better and sometimes they did **for a little while** then it alll went back to normal and just got messed up again and sometimes even worse..
Now this over guy that lives far away if there isnt no possible way to be with him as a relationship thenid just stay long idstance friends..
Id take your fiance to a rehab as soon as possible to help before it might get worse.. if alcohol isnt the problem then deff. go to counciling and try and work things out.. ♥ Dez
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what is 69?
69 is a sexual position.. guy on bottom and girl bein on top or the other way around.. so you get the number from the guy and girl facing oposite ways giving eachother oral sex.. ♥ Dez
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So theres this guy,he really seems to care about me. At least I think but how do I know?
Well if he seems to be there for you through thick and thin.. always wants to keep a smile on your face.. pulls you through hard times.. supports you through anything you wish to do.. says things to you **compliments* ♥ Dez
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I meet this kid last summer he was having a terrible night as he walked home. and i ws walking my dog and i said something about my dog to him and made him laugh. ever since that day i thought about this kid. well last monday i was up a community center and i meet him there ago not reconizen him and he brought up what happen i was like that was you well we hang out every day i found out he is a senior and im a freshman i no i "dont know what love is yet" but i really like him alot we have so much in common help me!! i rate high
I think age doesnt matter.. i think you should hang out with him more.. get to know this guy better and see what happens from there.. ♥ Dez
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ok my boyfriend told me that alot of times when guys have sleepovers they dare each other to give each other blow jobs and so like he told me he gave two of his friends bj's and his friend gave him one. A while after he told me that i gave him one but we werent protected and now im freaking out cuz im scared i might have gotten one. but could some one blowing him give him an std, if they didnt have one? we are both virgins also.. so is it possible that i might or he might have one? AND... can a virgin having sex with another virgin give one virgin herpies or somthing?
Ew your boyfriend is a fag get rid of him.. ♥ Dez
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ok well im like one of like 10 black gurls in my city. most of the other oens r mixed though but i still count them as black.well anyways ive lived here for 2 and a half years and the whole time ive only had 2 boyfriends. y is it that white bois dont wanna go out with black gurls? a lot of guy flirt with me and say they wanna do stuff with me but they wont ask me out. what should i do becuase im always sittin around watchin all my other friends hook up with guys and im just left all alone.
love,
lonely black gurl
Hey hun..this is all my opinion sorry if i dont help..
Well okay this is how i look at it.. alot of white guys are real picky from my understanding i mean they are picky even about white girls or maybe thats just around here im not sure.. but alot of white guys want a small petie blonde tanned white girl.. yea a barbie.. and alot of white guys i know are taught to stay in their race for relationships their parents live off what there parents taught them so they wish to continue *what i dont think is right*.. there is guys i know that do date balck females that are white but from what they told me and from what i can tell it has alot to do with the parents.. i mean this isnt just white guys its every race.. you'll find somebody eventually just give it time.. ♥ Dez
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hey im 13/m, i know this is a basic question... but whats sum good ideas for a halloween costume?
i rate 5's for good answers
angel
princess
cat
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my boyfriend broke up with me because i didn't want to go any farther with him. now he seems to regret it and wants to get back together. should i give him another chance?
well if he continues to be an asshole id say fuck it.. talk to him and yes i think maybe give him another chance.. but dont give him what he wants.. ♥ Dez
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i just want to ask everyone a question.
GUYS: do ya'll enjoy watching porn?
GIRLS: do ya'll enjoy watching it either? or being in a porno movie?
i dont think porn does much for anybody except maybe learn things.. but nopers i sure dont like to watch it.. i wouldnt want to have sex in front of video but id take playboy pictures.. ♥ Dez
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for homecoming i cant decide whether to wear myhair down ( past my shoulders length and loose curls) or up in a fancy updo or down w/ just the tiny top pulled back. any ideas in what i cna do? also my dress is strapless and id like my shoulders covered.. should i straighten or curl it?
Curls down.. i think thats so cute on any female.. hey if you get cold get the guys jacket lol.. cuddles... ♥ Dez
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I just found out that my friend is gonna take ecstacy pills or a pill i dont know on saturday is that a drug and what are the effects?
Well this a drug that can possibly kill your friend.. so i think thats enough adivce for you to make a decision and what to say to your friend.. ♥ Dez
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Alright this isn't exactly about school but I didn't know what other category to put it in haha.
So lately I've been bored with nothing to read. I like books that are funny but not completely stupid, good mysteries, and deep stuff that makes you think without being boring.
Suggestions? =)
(15/F)
Tears of a tiger best book ever.. ♥ Dez
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how old do you think you have to be to babysit?
12 or 13.. ♥ Dez
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(im 19 female)Im just asking, there is this guy i like a lot he liked me, soon as i told him i wasnt a virgin he simply lost interest! and he belives that the one he is going to marry should be a virgin.i feel like SHIT! he has told me he is not a virgin - ofcourse its ok for a guy not to be one isnt it! but anyway, then i told him that i was joking and that i didnt quite have sex.i really like this person and i regret loosing my virginity to this ONE bf" overseas, now if i was to get close with this guy could i live a lie and never tell him? or should i tell him? or should i forget him and move on! but i cant! nicest person iv ever met! what do i do!? is it good to keep it to myself and NEVER tell him.- i feel so guilty
Hey..
i think telling him would be the right thing to do.. you know deep down inside yourself it is tho.. i think explaining a little bit of what happened with this guy you lost your virginity would help and i would tell this guy you like how you feel about him judging you about the whole not bein a virgin thing.. deff. dont forget about this guy dont let him go if you like him that much plus who knows he might come around and wont care.. dont hold guilt in.. it isnt the thing to do.. if you need anymore advice please contact me.. ♥ Dez
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hey is it better to have sex for the first time with a virgin or an experienced guy
its better to have sex with somebody you love.. sorry i didnt answer the question..
i dont think it should matter if they are a virgin or not it should matter how you and this person feel for eachother..
Yea a guy who isnt a virgin could be better.. but that doesnt mean anything to me.. a guy that you love should matter.. dont waste you time asking such silly questions.. ♥ Dez
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so you are you saying you work at starbucks? and if so, do you like it, because i need a job. =/ any info would be great!
well i quit so i need to change that out of my profile well i had a shitty boss i think he was racist in my opinon but thats why i pretty much didnt like it plus i hate the smell.. well you have to go through this training to work there basically so you know how to make coffee and all that good stuff no biggy.. i think i would of liked it if i had a better boss but yea its not too hard you get alot of business everybody loves starbucks lol.. ♥ Dez
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Alright, I usually never do anything with my hair but wear it in pig tails, pony tails, straightened, or just flat. But tomorrow I was thinking about wearing a messy bun.
I'm not sure how to do it perfect, because I've tried just putting my hair in a regular bun and messing with it a bit to give it the "messy" look, is there something more to it? Am I not doing it right? Lol, please help. Thanks.
nope you pretty much cover it and do it right.. its pretty easy throwin it up in a bun then messin it up thats why its got the name messy bun.. ♥ Dez
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i straighten my hair and by the time i get to school its kinda poofy and thick.. my question is what can i do so it will stay longer.. put a little gel or moouse in ?
Yea try some real maxium hair spray i'd go with suave.. ♥ Dez
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