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name's chelsey.
i'm 16,i'll be 17 in a little over 3 months.
i've been through a lot,and i have a lot of wisdom in different areas.
i'll try my best to help you in any way i can.
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I have a crush who likes me a little bit. I love talking in person sometimes but the phone is harder for me to talk with someone. Especially my crush! Im supposed to call him in about an hour but i have no idea what to talk about im scared that i might have an akward moment and not talk, then what will he think of me? Does anyone have any ideas about what i should say or do if theirs an akward yet scilent moment? Please help and thank you!

In an awkward silence just say something funny to make him laugh or be like "Wow! It got quiet!"
Good Luck!
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lately my bf has been making lots of new friends that are girls, from all his classes and stuff. its been worrying me. we've talked about it and stuff, and he says he only likes them as friends, but he hangs out with them so much, and talks to them all so much. they r great girls, reallllllly pretty, and i can see how and why he would like them. i just get so worried, and i dont know how 2 be a better girlfriend to show him how much he means to me. im really worried that he could start to like these girls! what should i do? thanks

Talk to him-He could feel the same way about your guy friends- but just chill out and trust him.
Hope I helped!
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i want my hair to not poof during the day because it usualy does so i would have to go to the bathroom and put a little water on my hair so it wont poof. i am planning to go out and buy hairspray that will keep my hair stay unpoofy and stay straight for the whole day, anyideas?

If you buy a good straightener your hair won't poof out during the day.The best are the ones with the gold plates. Hope I helped!
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theres this guy.. i'm in grade 8 now and i've known him since grade 3.. hes really great and i like him really much... i started liking him as a crush in grade 6.. buh then i was a gayass in grade 6 so then i acted really immature and he hated me until now.. yet i've heard that he liked me last year but doesn't anymore.. i wanna tell him that i'm sorry and ask him if we can start over.. buh every time i walk up to him no words cum out and i look like an idiot.. i'm scared of how he'd react cuz i'm really sensitive and emotional and i mite start crying infront of him and that'll be embaressing.. its like i'm scared of him and i can't go and talk to him... do you have any advice on how i can get rid of this fear of rejection and maybe have enough courage to express my feelings to him? *excuse the grammer plz*

You should definately tell him how you feel, or else he'll never know and you'll always wonder what could have happened. Just go up to him when he is alone, without a bunch of friends around and tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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i have had my period for quite some time and never have gone throught this! i have used tampons before but today i had it in for two secionds and ir hurt so bad! i took it out and my uterus skin was all over it! it was so gross, i tried again later, and even more skin came off! my blood has been extremely dark lately and my uterus is coming off in strips and omg whatz wrong with me!

Yeah, that sounds kinda serious. You should go to your gyno as soon as possible. Hope it all works out!
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Ok... well here's the problem.... i have no clue wat to do with my hair... I've tried sooo many products... let me tell you my routine so maybe you can help me... i take a shower in the morning... i use both shampoo and conditioner.. i always brush my hair while the conditioner is in... after i do that i put on frizz ease... then i either wrap my head in a towel till it's dry or i have to leave.. in either case i put it in a ponytail... because it always ends up being frizzy... the frizz-ease doesn't work at all.. it always just makes my hair greasy... ((and frizzy))... anywhoo'z i've tried puttin gel in... i've tried so0o many different products... biosilk, tresseme, garnier... etc.. but none of them work... i've also tried the dryer sheets thing too.. that didn't work either... i've tried to alter my routine... maybe by not brushing it.. or not blowdryin it.. i've tried it without conditioner.. i've tried everything.. what else can i do?? sry it's so0o long by the way..
~>Rae

I used to have the same prob and it was exactly like your situation cause I tried all of that stuff too. What I did was, I bought a round sraightener that has a gold plate and I just use that on my hair after I get out of the shower and it works REALLY well. I don't have to put any kind of gel in it anymore. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
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you see,i have a lot of friends i guess. i have one best friend and i dont know...my lifes pretty good, but ive lately wanted a boyfriend.. ive had a few before it just didnt work out that long. but anyways, what do you give a guy for valentines if you dont date but u want to make it sorta clear your interested in them?

You could get him a box of Sweethearts-The heart-shaped candies that say stuff like "Be Mine" and stuff like that. Good Luck!

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I need a lot of money to get a god straightner because my hair is extremely FRIZZY!!! What are some ways to earn $$$? Or some hairstyles for FRIZZY PEOPLE??

Thankx a bunch!

You don't have to get a really expensive straightener to get results. The round straighteners with gold plates work really well and aren't that expensive. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
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i am doing a weight loss program and i told my friend and i think my other friends know and are making fun of me. what sould i do?
how do i know if there my true friends?
HELP ME
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Thanx for your help
always
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Well, you should just confront them about it. They are probably just teasing you because you think your fat. They probably don't think your fat and that's why their doing that. Good Luck with your program!

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how often a week should you do toning (by this i mean situps, crunches, lunges, and squats)? is everyday okay? and if you're doing these things, do you really need to do weights in the gym?

Doing those excersises everyday brings quicker results. Hope that helps.
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can someone who seriously knows about working out tell me why im not getting sore after my workouts? when i bench i do like 5 sets so i kno im working really hard and when i curl im also doing like 5 sets of it and the next day after my workouts im never sore...i want to know why im not getting sore, because i know that when you are sore it means you had a good effective workout
if you know a good amount of stuff about working out please IM me on iliv4hockey7..im always up 4 learning new things..thanks

Well, either you aren't doing the workouts correctly or your just not pushing yourself to do more than what your already used to. Hope I helped!
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what if your not a good reader and you really want to get better what should i do.
tutoring?
help please

You could buy Phonics, or get a tutor. Hope that helps! Good Luck with reading!
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Ok I'm not sure if I should lose weight or not I am 5'2 or 5'3 I'm not exact, and i weigh between 100 and 105, like on and off, but I don't know weather to just stay the way I am or lose weight. help me.

Your not fat at all. You definately shouldn't lose weight!
God Bless!

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?

what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx

Save yourself for marriage.. for you and your husband.

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im so depressed. im 13 and ive never had a bf! most of my friends have. i have golden blonde hair and crystal blue eyes. no guys like me at all. i really want a boyfriend. at this point all i want in a guy is a pulse. my friend, i personally think shes gorgeous(not in a lezboe way) she has a boyfriend i can understand that. what i cant uderstand is that my other friend, not appealling at all, yellow,crooked teeth,chubby. shes had like 3 in 2 years and guys are all over her! i dont get! please help!

You can't make people like you and your love will come when the time is right, but you can put yourself out there and associate with different guys and hopefully the right guy for you will come along. Good luck and God Bless!
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how often a week should u do cardio and for how long at a time?

About 3 days a week for about 30 minutes to an hour. Good luck!

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I feel like my bestfriend likes her other friend more than me. she sits by the other girl at lunch together more often than with me.they do lots of things together, but not with me.How do i get my best friend to like me better?

aloner,

Just start talking to them more and including yourself in the activities that they are in.You might need to talk to yuor friend and let her know how your feeling. Hope I helped, and good luck.

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does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE?

Time heals, but you can also start dating again and flirting. It might make you feel better.
Good Luck!

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(16/f) what do/can you get your b/f for valentines day?

Inexpensive-a box of chocolates or a teddy bear.
Expensive- Maybe a watch or a new shirt.

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Ok im a 14 year old girl that needs help! i cant wear tampons. ever time i try to put one in it doesnt go in all the way or it hurts. I've tried many times and its just not happening. THis is the problem. Spring break is coming up and im going to florida with a bunch of ppl, Just my luck its the same week as my period. I mean i cant wear a pad with a bathing suit! nd plus there are gonna b tons of hot guys. I cant talk to my mom bout this kind of stuff bc i live with my dad and i never see my mom, and i dont have an older sister. pleaseeee help

Go to www.beinggirl.com. I think it actually has instructions for inserting them. Good Luck!

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