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lately my bf has been making lots of new friends that are girls, from all his classes and stuff. its been worrying me. we've talked about it and stuff, and he says he only likes them as friends, but he hangs out with them so much, and talks to them all so much. they r great girls, reallllllly pretty, and i can see how and why he would like them. i just get so worried, and i dont know how 2 be a better girlfriend to show him how much he means to me. im really worried that he could start to like these girls! what should i do? thanks
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i would ask some of your friends who are in the classes with him and these girls if he is just hanging w/ them...or actually flirting! if there is some flirting involved you should look into it more...if not you should just sit back and relax. a strong healthy relationship is built on trust! he will appreciate the fact that u do tryust him! hope i was a little help! good luck!
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Dear Slightly Jealous,
A relationship is nothing if you dont have trust. If you are jealous of your boyfriends female friends then obviously theres something wrong. Has he cheated on you before? Has he given you any reason for you to be suspicious of him? Odds are he hasnt.
Now I have to ask. Do you have male friends? Is he jealous of them? Put yourself in his shoes.
Its very healthy for him to want and have female friends. If you think about it.. it's actually very beneficial for your relationship. He can learn things from these girls to better understand and care for you.
Im sure youre a very lovely girl. Never let anyone intimidate you into thinking you are not good enough for your boyfriend. Keep your head up and the green eyed monster at bay.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
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Talk to him-He could feel the same way about your guy friends- but just chill out and trust him.
Hope I helped!
*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*
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okay i have the same problem. ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months and everything is alright. he has a lot of girls who are friends with him and the day before out 2 month anniversary he told me he liked one of them,. but he wouldnt do anything with her because he loves me and he just thinks she pretty. im just trying to say dont worry about it until he gives you a reason to flip. if he starts geting all touchy with them then kick him in the BALLS! sometimes guys need it. but seriously if he really wants to be with you then he wont be messing around with other girls. you have guy friends right? if you do then just trust him and understand that he nor you should limit yourselves to the same sex as yourselves for friends. alot of the times guys get along better with girls and girls with guys. its human nature. let me know how things go
always yours.
sarah
aim s/n iluvskankyh0es
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talk to him and tell him how you feel...trust him
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Why dont you just talk to him?
just say how much he means to you and that you want him to have loads of friends but sometimes you feel uncomfortable when he is around over girls
roxie
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welL dO or say suttin ... like go and chilL with him and them but always stay close to him and make a move ... hope i helped Love, Maura Ann
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I don't know how old you are, but it is typical for a guy to eventually to make friends that are female. They become his advisors and things like that. At the time being there is nothing to be worried about.
You should see it that he is so comfortable and in love with you that he feels that he can be friends with girls, because he knows that he will be with you. You are probably already a fantastic girlfriend and you are overly concerned about his new friends. If you are concerned, you could ask him about it and express your concerns about it. I wouldn't worry too much though because its not one girl in particular that he spends a lot of time with. He isn't going to go out with a whole group of them in that way. He's with you.
I'm sure that you have guy friends that you like to talk to and seek advice with. He probably is doing the same and may not see that they're pretty etc. He may just see them as girls but he has the prettiest girfriend around. You don't need to do anything to be a better girlfriend. Let him love you and love him in return- and let time bring you closer together.
Best of luck.
Yours,
Arun
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why would he go out with them? then hell have no on to bitch to when you do something stupid. some guys have friends taht are girls (like me) becasue guys are assholes.
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There's really nothing you can do but have faith in him. Jeleousy is a normal thing to experience. Be open with him, and let him know that you are jeleous, but dont be pushy about it or sound angry. Just express to him that you dont like it. It's gotta be his decision to stop talking to them, and it's his job to make you feel better about this. All you can do is let him know how you feel.
if worse comes to worse and he cheats on you... leave him. Don't buy into his appologies or if he comes back and is like "i'm sorry i'll change, blah blah blah" dont buy into it. People don't change, he'll do it again if he gets the opportunity.
I hope things don't go in that direction, and i hope that the 2 of you get this worked out.
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