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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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lol, i like this question. it's different. lol. Well, there could be a couple of things that weird you out about oral sex. First of all, maybe it weird you out because you are putting something in your mouth, and he is licking something that is used for pissing out of. lol. And there is the whole taste issue, which resally aint that bad ... i don't know the taste of a girl, maybe you can ask a guy. lol. It could just be a self esteem thing too. With sex it isn't like he's staring at your area, and with oral sex, it is, and that could freak you out a little. It's kinda like going out of the house and your wondering if your make up is okay. lol. weird example. It could be various things.
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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Yeah, it's normal. I didn't bleed my first time either. Your hymen probley broke before you had sex, either by excercise or tampon use, and it's supposed to hurt super bad your first time. Congrats on your first time. lol.
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how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period??? (link)
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I always find that taking deep breaths, drinking water, taking walks, long, hot baths, and using a water bottle works. Tylenol or Advil works great too. Also, sleeping helps a bit.
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper? (link)
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You can still get pregnant hun. pre cum contains sperm as well, and all he has to do it have it right in the outside of you and they could still find their way in.
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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days? (link)
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5 - 7 days, and some girls have it longer or shorter ... it varies
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Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman) (link)
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I think you should date around for awhile. See what type of girl you like. I did it (dated different types of guys) and I ended up meeting the perfect guy for me
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what kinda of sites could i go to and get help about sex and teenage pregnancey? (link)
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www.sex-project.com is the best site
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Okay, this is sick n I really dont talk about it wit anyone cept muh BEST FRIEND cuz we talk bout everything good bad w/e. Alright, well I juss wrote to get advice on a sex issue but now I need advice on DOWN SOUTH on a girl. Our pubic area if I must say haha. Okay it makes me laugh but yeah... I shaved like it down there like all the time but once I do it say for example on a Monday I cant until like maybe thursday b/c if I do anytime before I cut my self a bunch of times down there and it hurts and its still stubby.I mean its sick but I dunno what to do. Is there like somethin I can use besides waxing or somethin I can do to shave it or something? I mean cuz I dont like pubs down there really and I like em gone. but its kinda hard when now I have a b/f and what if like say the Weds. after Monday I shaved and he goes down there or we decide to have sex or somethin? He wont be able to cuz it will be all nasty ...I dunno what to do..its embarressing and a pain in the ass lol.. PLEASEE get me some advice lol (link)
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hey there. go to www.sex-project.com ... they have some info on it there. I used to have the same problem, but after reading the article ... it looked much better (shaving and stuff)
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Hi.Yesterday i went to the doctor for a checkup and discovered im still only 5`3 and a whopping 206 pounds :( I gained about 8 pounds in 7 months. My weight has gone up and down for a few years, but this is the highest its been . I almost broke down crying in the office. Ive played the weight loss game..but in the end i keep losing. I dont want to lose the battle of being overweight.My mom and a couple friends who know my weight tell me I dont look like im 200lbs.
Im very athletic and muscular..but i hAVE to lose weight for good. I play tennis, basketball, softball for the school. Im pretty good at all of them...Im sorry this is long and its asking for a lot..but..im lost, depressed, and i dont know what to do. I dont want this to get out of control. I need to stop it now! Please, anything..i promise to give you the good ratings you guys desserve.
~desperate n depressed~ (link)
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Hey there. I'm 5'4 and 150 and i play sports too. You probley look smaller then that. Muscle mass adds a lot to the scale. but if you want to loose weight, just eat healthier. You have the excercise stuff down, it's just the food issue
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What does it feel like to give head? I was just wondering, because my boyfriend asked me to give him head, but I want to know what it is like first. Please help me out! (link)
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well, a bit nerve racking ... but not bad at all. lol. It depends if you like it or not, your feelings towards it ... some girls say it tastes bad when it doesn't really ... it's something you can't really describe. lol. If you asked a guy what it felt like for him to recieve head, i'll bet he could give you a lost of all the things he was feeling. lol
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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried? (link)
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You can't get HIV/AIDS through kissing .... don't worry. It's only through bodily fluids such as blood and cum ... and it's unlikely that he has HIV
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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it? (link)
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Hey there. From my experience, it's a good idea if your really worried. The first month your on it would be a good idea to be extra safe, but really all you need to do is wear a condom on the first week of your birth control package (when the dosage is the lowest and your ovulating.) But also, if the guy has had sex before, wear a condom just in case of STD's and such
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i have no clue where i should have put this. but heres my question... what do they do when you go to get birth control? (link)
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Well, i just told my doctor that I wanted to go on birth control, and she went to her starage room and got me 3 monthes worth to try it, and told me to come back in 3 monthes and tell her how it's working for you and whatever. The first 3 monthes are free, but after that you have to pay.
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what does it mean when u get fingered? (link)
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when I guy sticks his finger, or fingers, up in you pussy
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I had sex with the same guy as my best friend's sister has. I just didn't know until after I had that she had already been with him. Well.. I talked to the girl he was with a few days later.. and she told me he had an STD. She said he had Herpes in his mouth. She said she was makin out with him.. and he had a sore on his lip and he said it was herpes and not to tell anyone.
She went to a clinic to get checked today. Can u still get herpes from someone if neither of u have open sores in your mouths? And should i get checked? or find out if she has it and then get checked.. I dont want to have to tell my mom i had sex with him, but im still scared i might have it.
Also, my BFF had sex with him the night after i did (eww) and she got checked too.. should I wait see if either of them have it.. or just go ahead and tell my mom and get an appointment at a clinic?
Please only answer if u know something about Herpes... THANKS! (link)
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if your best friend has it, then you need to get checked. I think you should get checked annyways, but you don't want to tell your mom. You don't have to tell your mom to get an appointment. Make one by yourself.
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If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..?? (link)
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Hey there. No, down there is not the best looking thing in the world. guys know that. Do you think their dicks are the prettiest things in the world though ... no .... lol. If your clean down there, it won't smell, but after you have sex or something, it will. and personally, i don't know if it tastes bad or not ... lol .... but if guys want to go down on us, then they must not mind it .... some guys do though ... lol.
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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!
x0x-dani (link)
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Hey there. Well, you pretty much got it figured out. lol. Why don't you make him something. Like, instead of cake, make him a 17 cupcakes, and each one has a letter on it, like "Happy Birthday Baby!" or if you know his favorite desert, make that for him, and put a candle in it (if you can!) Hope I helped. ttyl
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I rub myself down there to make it feel good (14/f) Is there anything new I can do? Is there any websites you know? (link)
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www.sex-project.com is a great site for any advice you need with masterbation, sex, and just a little bit more info about your body.
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ok well this is the same person who asked a/b the sohpmore guy well ok how should i talk to him a/b it? your rigth he is really sweet and i really do like him but im so clueless a/b this kinda things lol
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well, okay, you could write him a note. Always the shy approach to things, but just as nerve racking. You can e-mail him ... call him up and maybe casually just slip it in there ... ask him who he likes? or if he finds you desireable enough to date .. things like that. you guys talk alot so it should be eay to bring up
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Am I bi-sexual, or bi-curious if i fantasize about doing more then making out with some of my girl friends? (link)
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bi-curious i would say
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