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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]

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is there anyway to take off waterproof mascasa without having make-up remover?

dumb question, but i made a mistake without reading it was water-proof. lol.

Use a cotton swab and tab some baby oil on it, and apply it on your eyelashes. I think that will help. I've tried it before and it worked, but I guess it just depends on the kind of mascara you have.

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mk well i have really thick shoulder length hair that i straighten almost everyday, but since its so bad for your hair im trying to get ideas of how to make it straight withough straightening it! when i dont straighten it its poofy and wavy and uglyyyyy so i would really prefer it straight..any ideas of how? please and thanks youu

I have to straighten my hair every day too, it's a pain in the butt but in my opinion it's totally worth it. I'd suggest getting your hair cut & trimmed every few months so it'll keep it fresh and pretty. After you wash your hair, you could try blow-drying it and then brushing it with a flat brush to see if that helps it make it straighter, 'cause depending on the type of your hair, you could use a blow-dryer to straighten your hair really well. You could also use "Got2Be Straight", which I use everytime I flat iron my hair. There is one kind of hairspray that you put in your hair before flat-ironing it, and another one that you put in after. I use both and it keeps my hair straight without having to re-straighten it. If you have anymore questions, leave one in my inbox.

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ok so theres this thing at my school may 5th and well u like dress up up as a famous person from the present or past i want to be someone pretty ( im a girl with brown hair, i think im getting blonde highlights this weekend to so think about that too)plzzz help all 5s!

Angelina Jolie, like the other person said, Jennifer Garner, Kelly Clarkson, basically anyone you want to be. I remember I did something like that a long time ago and dressed up like someone from one of my favorite books, so maybe you could do that if it's a popular book. Or, if you have a favorite movie character, dress up as that person.

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Does anyone kno any good sites to get myspace layouts?

http://www.whateverlife.com

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well me n this guy just broke up and i still like him and i liked him so much and we went out a lot of times b4 but we never went out this long..and i thought things were good and stuff b ut i guess they werent..and i feel like a retard for believing everything he told me..and now i dont know what to do? help me!!
thanks bye

Don't feel stupid or stressed over a guy, it's not worth it. I know how it feels to have your heart broken, and it's hard when you like a guy so much but you know he's not right for you. Try not to get upset over him, and just keep your minds on other things if you two aren't going out again anytime soon. Guys are so confusing sometimes, but there isn't a lot we can do about it. If it would make you feel better, talk to him about how you feel. If you're too uncomfortable, then don't talk to him and just accept that you two have broken up. It'll be hard at first, but I you'll be fine once you've gotten over him. =]

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I have very oily hair. Thing is I wash it everyday, so I don't know why this is happening. Anybody have any ideas or ideas of products I can use to reduce the grease. Thx in advance & I promise to rate.

I use Pantene Pro-V shampoo every day because it makes my hair so full and fresh, and never greasy. I also heard Dove works really well on hair, and keeps it looking its best for all styles. Also, try not to use a lot of hairspray, gel, whatever you use, or it'll turn up really greasy and gross looking. Something I don't really understand is when girls wet their hair to try to stop frizz, which just makes it look so much worse, so if you do that, please don't. Talk to your hair-stylist about different shampoos and products to use if nothing changes about your greasy hair.

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The girl with loads of confidence seem to have it all. All the gilrs want to be "her" and all the guys want to date her. The girl that gets good grades and a varsity ahlete. My question is how does she reach the level of complete control over her own life-the confidence-likeable personality.Where does it all come from? my goal is to become her but a better version "me" without being completely fake. it woul dmean the worl to me if I had advicenators to help me out. THANKS YOU!

Don't try to be anyone else, it won't get you anywhere, trust me. Be happy for who you are, and keep yourself focused on the things in life that are really important. Just be yourself, but if you have something you think you need to improve in your personality, go for it. Just don't try to change yourself into a whole different person, or wish you were someone else. I use God as my role model, and try to be more like him because I know everything that He stands for is right. I don't know if you believe in God, but I know that God is my role model, but if you don't, use someone else you know as yours if you like. Good luck =)

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I am 15 years old. And I know that I shouldn't be worrying about this, but is it ok to expect to find a guy whose a virgin and wait with me until marriage? Or is that something that I likely won't find today? I'll rate, thank you.

There are a lot of guys out there who would be willing to wait for marriage, so I think you're on the right track. I'm looking for the same thing, and it's not really that hard for me, so it probably won't be as hard for you. I am a Christian though who goes to a Christian school, and most Christians believe sex should ONLY be done after marriage, and no time before that. But don't worry, you'll find the guy you're looking for. =]

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Well, about 3 weeks ago, me and my girl mates met these 4 boys at a fair, and were haning out with them all the time while we were there, they seemed to like us.
The week after we had all arranged to meet in town for lunch and shopping.
Last weekend we went to the cinema with them.
Its good because we're all hanging out together, and beginning to be good mates, it's just I was wondering what else we could do with them? Cos we want to keep hanging out with them and we dont wanna keep on doing the same old same old.
Also, I wondered if we need to hang out with them every weekend to stay mates with them? And i fancy one of them, do you think its good that I hang out with him every weekend?
Or would he prefer it if i played it cool? (guys can answer those last 2 questions please)
If it helps, I'm 13, and my mates (the boys and girls) are 12/13/14.

I think it's fine that you want to hang out with them every weekend, but just keep it down-low and relaxed. You just met them, so you don't have to jump into anything too quickly. Don't worry, if the guys didn't want to hang out with you and your friends, they would make up an exuse not to go every time. Just don't think about it too much, and have fun. =]

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My room is very plain.
let me give yu an idea what it looks like

blue walls, wood floor a larg wodden cabinet for my tv and computor, a pretty good size book shelf. wooden drawers for my cloths and 2 plastic drawers. Also I have a boxing bag. I get really depressed in my room because it seeems so depressing to me

what can I do to my room to make it look nicer and happyer?

I'm sure you get catalogues in the mail, check out those. There are probably so many bedroom decorating catologues, and if that doesn't work, go to Walmart. I used Walmart to re-do some of my bedroom, and I found some really cute things. I got a nice bed-spread, carpet, pillows, etc. Ask one of your parents to bring you shopping, and ask them for some help re-decorating.
If you have anymore questions, leave one in the inbox =)
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any ideas on how to make an outfit not look so boring? i usualy wear jeans and a long sleaved shirt but all my long sleaves are so plain.

I usually wear vintage clothing (tees with brand names on them, jeans, a belt, clunky bracelettes, etc.) and I sometimes wear just comfortable clothing. I'd suggest going to a store that sells mostly every clothing style. Claire's, Old Navy, Fashion Bug, Walmart, soo many good stores are out there that are good-priced.

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Im 15. I think I want to invite my boyfriend over to my house to just hang out, but when we get hungry I want to be able to cook him something special and really delicious?

any ideas / recipes?

Pizza, pasta, soups, whatever you find easy to make (don't stress over making a huge meal). I'd suggest getting takeout, but if you want to cook, then that's fine. To get recipes, find a cookbook or look it up online. Go to google.com and type in "date recipes", I just did and found some good websites. Check it out. =]

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when you use AIM on your cell phone, is there a way to read people's away msgs??

thanks!!

I use AIM on my cell sometimes and I just have to IM the person to see their away message, so just try that.

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I know this girl who asked someone out..but he said no. She got all mad and started telling lies about him. When we asked her why she did that she said she was jk but we all new she was lying. she told almost EVERYONE. None of us no what to do about her..And when we try to talk to her..she ignores us then walks away and doesnt talk to us. what should we doo!??

Well if you all know what she's saying isn't true, then just ignore it until she stops. If she ignores you it's her loss not to be able to talk to you guys about her problem. If you really want to talk to her about it though, tell her she's the one who is wrong for telling everyone a rumor that isn't true so let her deal with what happens in the end of her lying, and she won't have much friends if she keeps this up.

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well when even i pull my pants down(like to go to the bathroom)there is this white gooey stuff in my underware and it kinda smells and i dont think it id yeast infection because they say yeast infection kinda looks like cottage cheese
pleae help me

Don't worry I get that sometimes too, it's just discharge that mostly every girl gets. If it comes out a lot though, and makes a big mess in your underwear, then talk to your mom or another woman in your family you can trust about it so they can see if you should go to the doctor or not.

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Yet, I still find myself caring.

I used to go to language school early last year with this guy I met there and we spoke a bit then I left and we spoke sometimes on MSN. Well tonight we were talking and he basically joked "What's a hot sexy girl like you doing alone" and I asked if he really meant that, and he said then I wasn't hot and sexy at all, and I would be if I wore a bit more makeup. I felt very upset by this comment and got mad at him and called him a whole lot of names, and said I was only nice to him because I felt sorry for him, blah blah blah. I didn't mean a word I said.
Well he just emailed me, not apologizing or anything, but saying he was upset by what I said, and that its true i wasn't the most attractive girl there, everyone else was prettier but he doesn't try and sugarcoat things. Then he went on to say he feels horrible he wasted effort and breath on me when i was only being nice to him because i felt sorry. He said this cut him pretty badly because he thought we could've been friends.

Should I apologize to him? I have absolutely zero interest in him, but I feel guilty now. He did hurt me pretty badly though. I don't take comments about my appearance too well. Then again two wrongs don't make a right. I did insult him pretty badly. So what do I do? Sorry this is so long.

Wow, what a jerk! You don't have to say sorry if you don't want to, because I know I wouldn't. HE had no right to treat you like that, and guys who are like that, don't deserve girls. I was talking to a guy once too, and he said I was mad fat and annoying (psh he hadn't seen me in two years), so I was cursing at him and stuff because of how upset I was. I still haven't said sorry to him, because he was just as mean as I was. He didn't say sorry, but I forgave him though. And if this guy wanted to be friends with you, do you think real friends say things like that to eachother? Tell him how much he hurt you, and how you feel.
I wouldn't suggest being friends with someone like him though.
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theres this guy that i went out with for like a day or something and he just said it wasnt working out so when we broke up and all that stuff i had to sit by him in health class and i was just ignoring him and everything cause i STILL like him but i dont know if i should just get over it or tell him. (I wrote him a note telling him that i still cared for him but it was never heard what he said) what should i do?
in case it helps i am 13 years old and as you can probaly gather i am a girl

Well if he did have feelings back for you, I think he would have wrote back in the note you gave him. I think you should just forget about him being your boyfriend, even though it might be hard, he might just not have the same feelings for you. You two only went out for a day, so just try your best to stop liking him. You don't have to ignore him, but just be friends if that works.

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I'm 14/f and latly I've been wanting a boyfrined soooooo freaking much, I just want someone to make me laugh, hold me, like me for me, protect me, just a guy to be there for me. It's not like my whole school has a boyfriend or girlfriend there only like err...4 mabye 6 couples that have been dating for a while. Also I'll be attracted to this guy and I can't stop thinking about them then like one day I'm like ew wtf was i thinking liking him. I just don't get why I like a guy one momment and then the next not so much and I want a boyfriend soo bad and it seems like my friends are quite as obsesed as I am with guys and wanting a boyfriend so is this normal? Is there any way I can um.. like try to not have my emotions so strong, not wanting a guy soooo much??

WILL RATE

Yeah it's fine, because you know you're a teenager and a lot teenagers who are single ((including me)) really want to have a boyfriend/girlfriend just to experience being in love, and having that comfort. It's perfectly fine to want to have that, but just don't turn desparate is my point basically. I really like this guy too, and he seems basically PERFECT for me, and yeah sometimes I feel like "I wonder why I like him so much, he's so mean to me sometimes," so I just try to keep my eyes open and keep myself happy for who I am and everything that I already have. Don't worry about a thing =)

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I ussually do a lot of exercise but whenever i stop my face seems to get fatter and not my body,weird. Well to let you know how fat i'm 78 kg at the moment and my face is like a face of a 90 kg person and my body is like a 70kg person. Its seem like all the fat tends to move toawrd my face.

So is there anyway that i can do to keep my face in proportion with my body? i prefer my face looking skinnier. THX in advance

Well there isn't really anything you can do about your face, since the place under your chin is just a place where extra body fat is put. I know a lot of thin people who have double chins (you know what I mean, a little bit of fat under their chin) but it's just because that's the way God made them. Don't worry, a lot of people have it and it's normal. Sorry if this wasn't the answer you were looking for =[

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is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13?

Yes, it is. I don't believe anyone should have sex before marriage, but if you absouloutly HAVE to, like what a lot of people think, do it when you're at least eighteen.

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