Q: ok so there is this guy who is two years older than me. i don't know him that well but he's cute and he reminds me of someone who passed away. i have a crush on him and i really want to know how to talk to him. how do i start a conversation with him? how do i keep a conversation with him? how do i get him to feel conforatble with me? how do i get him to like me back? help me please

Q: Alright, I asked this question before, but I don't think I phrased it exactly right.

This is what I posted:

my guy friend asked me out on v-day and it was really cuet and sweet but i just dont like him that way . so i turned him doen. the day after he didnt bother me, i guess he was embarrassed, but now he wont leave me alone! he keeps talking to me alllll the fucking time, more than he used to before he asked me out, and insists on calling me. he told my friends he like loved everyhing about me. its like im in a reallty bad movie, seriously. i feel smothered by him... like he s stalking me or sumthing. i reaally need some help. i want to tell him to go away but i dont know how without hurting his feelings. tx in advance

But I have to add... the guy, who won't stop talking to me, isn't in any of my classes or my lunch, but out of the 8 times we have to walk in the halls to get to either a class or our locker, he found me 6 times! and mos t of the time i didnt see him til he was inmy face. its really creeepy. stalkerrrish help!

Q: okay well as a christmas gift this past christmas my parents got me christina a. concert tickets... well just recently, heather (24 years old, so my mom approve of her responsibility, really nice, etc) mentioned it would be at TON of fun if we went together.. well im sure my mom intended for me and HER to go together but i brought it up anyways. i said to her "hahah yesterday heather was like 'IT WOULD BE AMAZING IF WE WENT TOGETHER, WOULDNT?!!??! ASK YOUR MOM' shes so funny" and my mom said i could bring her cause they were MY christmas gifts... and she seemed kinda sad but she said she didnt mind...

Wellll, i reallyreallyreally want to bring Heather, but i fell terrible. and plus i know that if my mom goes we'll get into a fight... AND she already has a musical planned for us to go to together next month... so is it that big of a deal?

so here are my list of questions...:

-who should i bring? (i want to bring heather but who SHOULD i bring)
-if heather, then how do i tell my mom
-if mom, what should i tell heather.... ):


THANKS AND SORRY IT WAS SO LONGGGGGG. (:
xoxo

Q: 21/f

there is something nagging at my brain and that is my boyfriends ex. she started messaging me on facebook saying that they met up over xmas and he told her he doesnt fancy me etc.

i showed him and he seemed a little shaken by it as well and well basically we talked like grown ups about it and i believe i can trust him that she is making it up. it did help that i asked a mutual friend of both of his and his ex and he told me there was nothing to worry about.

however all said and done i am still thinking about whether he has lied to me and i am just a fool for believing him.
can anyone tell me how i should deal with this problem?

Q: Well i lately have been falling for one of my good friends. Part of me is not sure if i should be because i love the relationship we have as friends. The other half of me wants to, who knows maybe its just my hormones. But i know he is interested bcause he told my one friend mike(im friends with mostly guys)
he was going to hook up with me but this one kid kept getting in the way. I duno i really i am interested, i dont think this will ruin our friendship, but its just different i guess. I am debating if i should just go for it and tell him how i feel if he hasnt already got all the hints ive been passing. Should i just go for it and tell him how i feel?

Q: Well I don't know. You see, i'm 13. This boy has been my best friend for about two years and we've been together for a year. It's nice and everything. We are real close and know almost everything about eachother and everything. He's different from the rest of the guys i've gone out with. Don't think I am a slut or anything but we are both comfortable being naked around eachother. He trusts me and I trust him. No, this is not my first relationship. Anyhow, he's always there when i need him. Well, he's actually a nice boy and won't take advantage of me or anything like that or trying to get me to have sex with him. I know i'm young and yes i am still a virgin. Most of you are probably thinking "teen love dont have sex with him" Of course i'll be on birth control and have a condem and everything but i'm not sure if i should give up my virginity so young. So what do you people out there think about the whole situation?

Q: ok so this week im going to florida. and i found out the guy im going wiht is also!!! and his room is liek right next door to me!!! what do i do to get his attention?? with out like walking outside in my bra? lmao.

Q: so valentines is next week, and by then me and this boy will have been going out for 3 weeks. and, our relationship isnt that serious. we just kinda hang out, we don't act like we're dating. so, should i get him a special gift? and if i do what should i get him? what do guys like on valentines?.. thanks. =]

Q: Ever since i was born i was always the one in the family that didn't fit in. and it's coming close to a year since my mum and dad split..for the past year, i've stuck with my mum and helped her with everything...her divorce sorting out her finances..i've even skipped school to go see her solicitor with her. And whilst that was going on, my brother was doing drugs, smoking, and drinking.
And i guess i can't cope anymore...i try so hard to please my mum, get top grades and help her out, but all she can do is favour my brother over me..my brother practically rules the house, anythings he doesn't agree with has to change and everything he wants to do he does.
So..I'm on the verge on suicide because no-one in my family can give me the time of day and i spend all my day trying to please them.
P.s no matter what happens i am cutting my brother out of my life totally..i don't care about him at all, he's a mirror image of my dad and trust me that isn't a good thing.
Any ideas on what i can do to try and make me stop feeling like this. and don't bloody recommend counselling :|

Q: okay. i'll apologize that this may be long..

i have a wonderful boyfriend. we've been together 10 months. for being freshman, we're doing pretty good. we've only gone as far as fingering/handjob, & hes not a pushy guy at all. the only thing is that he gets really jealous. and i "flirt" a lot. especially with one boy in particular named john. well, john and me are good friends. and john likes me but i've made it clear that i love my boyfriend, and he understands but still says he likes me.

now my boyfriend recently said that it seems like i enjoy talking to john more than i like talking to him & thats not true at all but my boyfriend is convinced that i like john. and i dont ! i just can't get him to believe me

i love my boyfriend. and you may think that im just saying love, but trust me. i mean it more than you guys know. he is amazing. but we always seem to end up fighting over john. it'd just be better if he didn't exist at all. but since that's not going to happen, i need some advice on what to do.
* to get my boyfriend to believe that i dont like john
* to stop "flirting" with guys
* to become a better girlfriend, because right now, i just feel like crap.


please&thanks!

Q: ok so me and boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we both want to have sex but im scared that i will get pregnant i cant let this happen and hes really cool about not doing anything but i want to im jst kinda scared.

Q: well at lunch, my best friend got this boyfriend so i always sit with her at lunch and we sit with his friends, and im friends with the girls hes friends with which is good but the guys are really hott and stuff, well i like my best friends boy friends best friend, and someone told him and his friends and everyone and im not sure what to do becasue they are cool and i dont want them to gang up on me and make fun of me i get embaresed wicked easaly
so what should i say if they say stuff to me
and how do i stop getting so red when they embares me

Q: Okay so, I don't know what's wrong with me. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never made out. Lots of boys like me, but for some reason I can't bring myself to go out with them, even if I like them back. It feels like I'm scared, I just don't know why! I'm also nervouse 'cause I've never made out before, and EVERYONE thinks I have..so maybe that's SOME of it, but it can't be ALL of it. Also, when I like a boy, I'll talk to them and then they'll end up liking me..then all of a sudden when we're close to going out I don't like them anymore! I don't get what's wrong with me! I've hurt some boys because of it, and I hate it. I hate that I can't have a boyfriend 'cause I'm so weird about all this stuff. What's wrong?! How do I fix this? I'm so frustraited and nervous about this. It makes me upset. Please help! Any advice at ALL will help!

Q: I have the best friends ever... but the only problem is they ONLY party, get drunk, and do drugs. I on the other hand dont and dont want too. I know it would be fun to go to a party and get drunk. But my last experience was horrible and i want to party sometime but im afriad i'll have another bad experience and regret it. (also haven't drank any alcohol in over a year) I don't think my friends find me fun because id rather sit home then go out and party. should i try to party a few times or just do what i usually do and spend time home?

Q: Just like my subject, how do I tell a guy that I like him?

I mean I guess saying it to face "I like you" is the best way, because I'd know the answer but I mean how do I paraphrase that or some other way?

Thanks so much

Q: 14/f
ok well i promised to be pure until i get married. a guy at the age of 13 wanted to give up his virginity to me and i flipped so i was like ok i am going to make a chioce. i am going to be pure until marriage.what do guys think my age. will they not like me because of the choice i made? or what.

Q: I have a crush on this guy that is in my english class. We are total opposites, but i cant help but to like him. I mean, he is popular, and I am just plain normal. I dont know him very well, but i really want to get to know him. Only, I am scared that he is a jerk (most popular kids in my school are). So anyways, any advice on how to make him notice me?

Q: So i want to be on some sort of birth control because i don't like condoms much but i smoke and don't really feel like quitting that anytime soon. So that kind of stops me from taking the pill/patch right? but what other birh control things can i use? i know of the shot and the ring and the diaphram (sp) but the other thing is im pretty forgetful, and when me and my boyfriend are together things just tend to lead to another pretty quickly. anybody have any other ideas?

Q: Alright this is the very first time i even discussed the this anywhere either in person or online. so here goes. Im a 38 year old truck driver. I live in Maine. I have trouble speaking to strangers. I drive all week alone by myself and usually spend the weekend home alone. I dont like being alone. but I cant seem to talk myself into going out. I dont believe im looking for sympathy. Im looking for motivation. I dont do well around large crouds of people and starting up conversations is Very uncomfortable for me. Im unmotivated unless it comes to my job. i hardly ever finish anything i start unless it comes to my job. I am a very disorganized person. Personally I think my self esteme is quite low. I know i have problems and issues but it all seems so overwelming that i dont know what to do so I dont do anything and thats not getting me anywhere. Making decisions is very difficult for me. However I feel i am very intelligent. I have tried without success to help myself and am getting nowhere quite rapidly. I have medical insurance but dont know where to go or who to see. Or if thats even covered. Please just help me get going in the right direction.

Q: okay, i am dead in the middle of the classic issue of being in love with your best friend.

lets call him Joe.

joe and i got really close really fast. my friends say "we just click". and i can see it too. when were together we're inseparable and when were apart we talk all the time. he tells me a lot of things he doesnt tell his other friends, even the ones who have been there forever.

but just recently, joe has become more "attractive", much more attractive..and now girls are alll over him..and guys, too. And ive liked him since the first time we hung out..before his grand transformation. and im afraid hes going to end up with someone who only talks to him NOW beacuse of his looks.

i dont know what to do.

i dont want to tell him because im terrified of rejection and i would MUCH rather have him as my best friend than not at all.

but id also like to know, beacuse sometimes it FEELS and LOOKS like he may like me, but other times..it doesnt.

and my feelings get stronger everytime we talk.

any ideas?
thanks a lot :]

15/f

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