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his ex
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there is something nagging at my brain and that is my boyfriends ex. she started messaging me on facebook saying that they met up over xmas and he told her he doesnt fancy me etc.
i showed him and he seemed a little shaken by it as well and well basically we talked like grown ups about it and i believe i can trust him that she is making it up. it did help that i asked a mutual friend of both of his and his ex and he told me there was nothing to worry about.
however all said and done i am still thinking about whether he has lied to me and i am just a fool for believing him.
can anyone tell me how i should deal with this problem?
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To deal wiht this problem if you want the truth talk to them both on three way or all three of you have a conversation face to face. That is the only way to get to the bottom of it do you really think he would tell you the truth about a girl he slept with if he intended to creep in the first place. Now I don't know how your mutual friend situtaion is but if the guy if he is a guy is a little bit closer to him than you he may back him up because in matters like this guys stick together and if it is a girl she may not want to get involved ( you didn't specify) but I mean don't take his word for it even though the girl should be telling you this just to make you break up with him so first and farmost get some more information for her some details and specifics to see how much she knows and if that is incriminating of him go deeper until you get to the truth. Don't blow it out of porportion righ tnow until you get some more facts.
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well this is a very taugh situation.what i would do is talk to this girl and put her on speakerphone while your boyfriend is i the room,and let them fight about it.or do it yourself one on one with her,and try to catch her in a lie.If your really love your boyfriend you will belive him,and no that he wouldnty lie to you.Maybe,try talking moe to your boyfriend.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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I know where you're coming from. Ask him quietly and calmly again, and if he gets all defensive, you know he's not telling you the entire truth. If he does get defensive, you should let him know that you want to trust him, and that you really like him, but you need him to be completely honest with you. If he's still being defensive, you might want to end it, because he might still have feelings for his ex girlfriend, you never know.
Just try talking to him about it, and see where it goes from there. :]
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