ok so there is this guy who is two years older than me. i don't know him that well but he's cute and he reminds me of someone who passed away. i have a crush on him and i really want to know how to talk to him. how do i start a conversation with him? how do i keep a conversation with him? how do i get him to feel conforatble with me? how do i get him to like me back? help me please
Depressed_Poet answered Sunday February 18 2007, 8:35 pm: Walk up to him & say the classic line...
"Hey, how are you? A couple of friends of mine are going to see a movie with me this Saturday. We're seeing the movie ______. So do you wanna go with us? You can bring a friend if you want." It sounds kind of cheesy but a group IMMEDIATELY takes the pressure of one-on-one becoming tongue-tied & nervous. But before you do that, (because you can't just go up to someone and ask them out! It'd be too easy!) So a couple days before then just say "Hey what's up?" When you walk by. Then when you get to the point where you're comfortable with that & wanna take the next step up, ask him out!
After all
"How did you learn to walk when you were a baby? You had to fall. But the important thing is that you got back up. Or else you'd still be crawling today!"-Lauren Cronin
I love that saying, it's my favorite.
Hope that helped
-Depressed_Poet
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Annerszz_101 answered Sunday February 18 2007, 7:42 pm: Ha, shy? Aren't we all. First, walk up to him and say hey, what's up. Weird way to start it, but hey, it works. Then just ask how things are going. For example, "how's life? school? family?". Show him you're interested in how he is feeling. Then ask him if he would like to go out and see a movie, or goto the mall, you know, something of that sort. If he says no, or says he has other plans and doesn't give you a raincheck, you know he's not interested and that you shouldn't push it. Be casual. Don't overdo it and try not to talk fast and be nervous. :] [ Annerszz_101's advice column | Ask Annerszz_101 A Question ]
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