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Driving me crazy!
She is everywhere. Won't let me breathe, all the time we have to be together. Do everything together, all the time! AHG! It's driving me crazy! I've tried telling her, but I couldn't do it, I'm like her only friend! I've given her hints but she's not picking them up or she is just ignoring them. What can I do? I am actually ahsamed of being seen with her! I'm got a good friend, she's really nice and all and she desevres a friend who can give her all she wants but I'm not that friend.....But I still don't want to call it an end to our friendship, seems a bit drastic. And, we hang in the same gang so she's 100% unavoidable!!! She wants to be BFF's and I just can't do that! She's driving be crazy, alll the time she needs to prove to everyone that we are close friends and I'm sick if it because we're not! I really like her and all but it's just way too much! What can I do without huring her feelings?? I have one plan in mind and that is to come drunk to school! yes! That is a good plan! She hates people who drink, and yes, i party from time to time even though "she doesn't approve"...sooo If I came to school drunk, she would stop hanging out with me! Right? Does that sound like a good plan??
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I agree with Depressed poet. Comeing to school drunk could get you in major problems. I think you should let her know you need space. Also ...if you dont wanna be her bbf....find her one that will! Yes that right...i said it. Find her a friend whos just as annoying as she is. Anyone! a cuzin or a friend. Introduce them to eachother...either at a certain place...at school....or on the phone. If she doesnt get the messege that she got someone else. Bring her up to her al the time. Talk about her all the time to her. She'll get into her after a while. If that doesnt work buddy...i think you should go with Depressed poet's advice. It good!!
-MaRii
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Drunk is just a little drastic don't ya think? She must be pretty bad if you're about to come to school drunk! Just maybe bring up the topic about drunks & tell her that they can't help it, & disagree w/ her judging by hating people who drink. If it doesn't work just tell her, the only way you're going to be friends with her is if she gives you some space. Because she sounds very annoying, and who wants to put up with that? Sorry if it's too harsh, but the girl has to hear it at one point or she won't know how to act around her other friends which will hurt her more in the future.
-Depressed_Poet <33 x333
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Whoa, calm down there. Coming to school drunk can fuck up your grades and that would just piss her off. You don't want that or need that apparently. So, in my opinion, sitting her down and telling her that you enjoy being her friend, but lately she's been a little clingy and that you need your space. Tell her that you don't want to ruin the friendship, but you just need some space.
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