|
He doesnt notice me...
I have a crush on this guy that is in my english class. We are total opposites, but i cant help but to like him. I mean, he is popular, and I am just plain normal. I dont know him very well, but i really want to get to know him. Only, I am scared that he is a jerk (most popular kids in my school are). So anyways, any advice on how to make him notice me?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
start off as friends and see if he's a jerk
if not ask him out
CONSIDER IT
♥ Flaggal
]
umm you can speck words cant you?just try talking to him .most popular pople are jerks but you ant judge him because of his riends.It would really suck if you ae toscarexd totalk to him,and he turns ut to be your perfect one.havent you ever heard of opposites attrched ? Well get going .go be a magnet
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizie
]
if he was really a jerk you wouldn't have a crush on him.. so think of it that way. and they say opposites attract :) be yourself and he will want to get to know you better. hope i helped
]
just be yourself. star up a conversation with him. Build up his confindence in you as a friend, and then keep building that up until you can become more than friends. There is no easy road to getting into a relationship with someone, but there definately is one.
]
You should be friends first. That way, you can see if this guy is really worth your time and effort. You probably already knew that, but I just wanted to put the idea out there anyway.
Also, don't automatically assume that he's mean. I've had so many first impressions of people I've liked, and they've usually been wrong.
The best way to get a guy to notice you is to talk to him. If it sounds simple, that's because it really is! There's no secret for getting a guy to notice you. Talk to him about the book you're reading for English, or ask him for the homework assignment. People love compliments, so you could tell him that you like his shirt or something along those lines.
When it comes to body language, be open and nice. Smile. Don't cross your arms or legs. Don't look away from him; Look into his eyes a few times. That automatically makes you seem more open and easier to talk to.
Don't let his "popularity" intimidate you! He's a person, just like we are. Be confident in yourself! Take the risk. If you don't, later on, you'll look back on this and wonder what could have been, and regret not trying to get to know him better.
If he's a jerk, it's his loss, not yours.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
]
First- Don't let the fact that you two are completely different discourage you. All of the guys I have gone out with have been all completely different from me and each other and it works out greatly.
Second- I would say just talk to him. Pretty basic, I know, but that is the first step. Maybe raise your hand a lot and show him how brilliant you are. This may sound corny but ask to borrow a pencil or something.
]
More Questions: |