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being pure and what do guys think of that
14/f
ok well i promised to be pure until i get married. a guy at the age of 13 wanted to give up his virginity to me and i flipped so i was like ok i am going to make a chioce. i am going to be pure until marriage.what do guys think my age. will they not like me because of the choice i made? or what.
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hey,
this is a very tough choice many teens go through now a days
As for me, i have made the choice to stay a virgin till im married as well.
Many guys have different opinions, some will be jerks and say your prude... and other will be amazing and have respect..
me (im a freshman) and i look up to the seniors who havent had sex. I think they seem more mature.. and the ones who arent virgins really dissapoint me.
so hold your head up high
:)
xoxo
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congrats to sticking to your morals. some guts will appreciate that your waiting until your committed, and others will just be jerks,
wait till your married<3
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if a guy pressures you to do anything and you dont want to, then theyre not worth your time. if guys dont like you, thats their problem. guys shouldnt like you for what you do or dont do when it comes to this. just do what feels right and dont do anything that you dont want to do or dont feel is right. hope this helps! <3
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If they don't like you because of the choice you amd than you do not want to be around them. They are not worth your time if they won't respect your decision. If they won't like you cause you won't have sex with them then that means all they wanted was sex and it wouldn't of worked out anyway. hope i helped =D
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Alot of guys respect that a girl wants to wait until marriage to lose their virginity. But some guys arent. And those guys are insensitive assholes. Or they just dont have the same beliefs as you. When a guy is 14, obviously he wants to give up his virginity. But faith always rules over what a guy wants. In the end, its YOUR decision. Your body. I think its great you want to wait till marriage if its what you really want to do. It shows you have value. And if a guy really LOVES you, he'll wait!
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if they dont like you then you dont need a guy like that,but alot of people respect that in a girl .
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Its a choice that I agree with.
Good job :)
You are far too young to be doing any such sexual things.
Guys will respect you, because its your decision.
And when you get married, if your partner is a virgin too, you both will feel good.
You wont have to worry about having stds, or anything like that. <33
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you have to choose. if you say no and guys dont like you, its there mistake. i'm sure some guys will like you because of your brave desicion -if you say no-
just dont give up your virginity when your so young -wait, what am i saying, i'm the same age-
CONSIDER IT
♥ Flaggal
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It's you're choice, only you can make it.If they dont respect you're opnion, then they're not really worth and NOT the sort of boys you wanna be with.It's your decion, that's exactly the descion I've been thinking about too.I've also decided that I wont have my first kiss until after I am 16.
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Its your decision and thats that. No one else should have a say in it. Do whatever you think is right.
As for whether guys will like you, it might create a problem later on. However, any guy that is only interested in sex at your age particularly is not worth it. Seriously, if another 14 year old wouldnt want to be your bf bacause you dont have sex, you need to find some other guys to hang around with. Thats no age to start having sex, and certainly no age to be doing it on a regular basis imo.
Anway, good luck, and stick with what you think is right.
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First of all, you're definitely making the right decision--even if you weren't planning on waiting for marriage, 14 is no age to be having sex yet (even though some do). As for what guys will think--does it really matter? It's YOUR body, so the only thing that really matters is what YOU think. And a guy that's decent and actually likes you for who you are will respect the decision you've made, and not try to pressure you into doing anything you're not ready for.
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welllll man i think its an excellent choice you're making i too have made that choice it really hasn't affected me too much in the whole getting a guy department but then again i have been talking to a guy for like a year and a half it hasnt really came up too muchhhh and if a guy really likes you for you then it wouldnt matter to him anywaysss hope i helped and keep your promise it will be worth it in the long runnn
peace and love =)
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