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What's wrong with me? 17/f
Okay so, I don't know what's wrong with me. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never made out. Lots of boys like me, but for some reason I can't bring myself to go out with them, even if I like them back. It feels like I'm scared, I just don't know why! I'm also nervouse 'cause I've never made out before, and EVERYONE thinks I have..so maybe that's SOME of it, but it can't be ALL of it. Also, when I like a boy, I'll talk to them and then they'll end up liking me..then all of a sudden when we're close to going out I don't like them anymore! I don't get what's wrong with me! I've hurt some boys because of it, and I hate it. I hate that I can't have a boyfriend 'cause I'm so weird about all this stuff. What's wrong?! How do I fix this? I'm so frustraited and nervous about this. It makes me upset. Please help! Any advice at ALL will help!
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Theres nothing wrong with you, your most likely not ready yet to have a boyfriend, and thats perfectly fine. My first boyfriend was when I was 19 and in college.
I remember I used to feel weird too. But thats only because it seemed like everyone around me was dating, and I felt like I should be too. When i met this guy, i was ready to date, and most of the nervousness was gone (i was still nervous, but not like before).
so don't rush yourself into something your still not comfortable doing, you'll eventually be ready. :)
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girl, honestly i go through the same thing. as well as you, i had never had a boyfriend but now i do. itz okay to be nervous, everyone starts out a relationship like that. try being with a guy u really like and trust me, you'll get used to the kissing and everything. good luck!@
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i understand how u feel...i use to be kinda the same. to get over it, you just have to say yes to one of the boys, i mean theres a first time for everything rite! once you have been out with a few boys, you'll feel fine! trust me. Good Luck hope i helped :) xxx
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wheb they want to go out with you try sayng yes,and when iyts time for yur date dont think of it as one,just think about it as time with a friend.and if you two want to date then call him your oyfrend but dont think of him as one.
let me know how it all works out
lots oflove lizzie
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First of all, there's nothing wrong with not yet having a boyfriend at 17. I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend either, and I'm sure that there will be many others who can say the same.
You say you get nervous. Could it be because you try to do too much too quickly? If you want a boyfriend, take it a step at a time. Get to know the boy that you like and be friends. You'll get there. Don't worry about not knowing how to make out. Just go along with what your boyfriend's doing when it happens.
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