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the trouble with love
how do i say goobye to some one i love more than any one in the world with out hurtng him or me? because i have to do thi but i dont no how help me
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it is very hard to say goodbye to anyone especially if you are in love with them. the best thing i can tell you is that it is gonna hurt anyway so tell them how you feel and tell them why you are saying goodbye.talk from your heart and try not to cry because than it will hurt more.
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elcee is right. it doesnt matter how nice or how mean you say it, itz going to hurt both of you guys if you love eachother....what can i tell u? ma im sorry
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It won't matter how you say it - it will hurt. Saying goodbye to someone who means the world to you is probably one of the hardest things to do.
Always offer an explanation no matter how vague it is, don't promise anything you can't follow through on and hold on to the knowledge that it is the right thing to do at this moment in time.
If it helps, try writing a letter explaining the reasons or circumstances that this person can take away with them after you have spoken. It may help you to clarify your thoughts, and it could possible help the other person understand more clearly.
Good luck with what you have to do and if I can help any more please just ask. Take care.
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First of all, why would you want to say goodbye if you love him more than anyone in the world? but you have your reasons. Every goodbyes are gonna hurt. you can't help that hunn. His feelings will be torn either way... cuz you're no longer part of his life. But if he loves you then he'll try to understand whatever reasons you give him. He'll be happy as long as you're happy. Just try to be honest with him and tell him that you don't mean any harm or try to hurt him. its a phase that you're going through and you need some times to yourself. Its not his fault, there's nothin he can do to help other than let you be independence for a while. but you guys can still be friends. those sorta things. I hope it helps a bit.
try it out and see... good luck and hopefully everything works out.
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