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i like these 2 guys and they both like me. great right. no! hah. well i like one guy more than the other, but he doesnt want a gf as he said at the beginning of the year, but im not sure is thats still true, me and him flirt a lot. i love flirting with him, well the other guy i like him too, but hes a lil shy and i dont really like shy guys, but i still like him, he wants to go out with me we will call him chris, but i like the other guy more we will call him john. well my friend got chris the courage to kiss me, while she was talkin to chris i was hanging all over john, yea well me and chris made out twice, while my best friend took john with her, so the guy i lik more doesnt no i kissed the otehr guy. confusin right. haha! well chris called me and asked me waht i was going to do abut the who chris and john thing, i told him i didnt know waht i was going to do. and i told him i was so confused i stressing out about it. well chris said he would wait for me until i didcide, and that makes me feel bad because hes waitn for me to decide if i like him or antoehr guy more, and that amkes me feel lik a bad person and he really likes me, but i like john more, well people have been tellin me that john only wants to get with me to have sex with me. this is all so crzy and im so confused and ive been thinkin aobut this for a week and i still dotn no what to do, no matter what i lie john more than chris and i cant help it, but im not sure is john wants a gf or sumone just to have sex with, help!! i dunno im goin crzy, haha!!!
Well...you like both of thse guys but ui like [john] better. Well if you dont know if he wants a girlfriend then ask him and he'll get the point and ,aybe he'll ask you out. But if he doesn't want a girlfriend then u have to live with that. So then u go to chris and ask him and I'm sure he'll say yes and if your hnot happy together then break up its worth a shot right? Maybe you'll find out that chris is WAY better than john!
I hope this advice helped
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Im going out with this girl and i really love her but my parents don't know about it.Im afraid to tell them or ask them if i can go out on a date.Im 13...but i think there over protective.
Someone help me please
Your 13 ur not in love....U have yto tell ur parents! Even if they don't let you go out with her anymore its better than lieing. If your girlfriend is making you not able to tell than shes not a good person.
I hope my advice helped.
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i was just wondering what people think of glasses. do you find them nerdy or attractive? i have to wear glasses fullo time and i am wondering if contacts are the way to go or should i wear glasses but i dont want to seem like a four eyes freak. any inputs are appreciated.
Dear eyes,
Glasses are awesome. I sometimes have to wear them and all my frinds compliment me. I'm popular so i get nervous when i wear my glasses that i will become a nerd but its not true. Its better to be a nerd than not being able to see. I'm not sayng ur a nerd im sure ur very pretty without glasses or with and dont let anybody tell you different. You can wear contacts if you want but dnt get into the habbit of wearing them 24/7. Wear your glasses sometimes.
If people make fun of you than ignore it because its not true!
Thx for writing I njoyed answering.
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How do I turn off the private settings off of my myspace page? I want to put it in my aim profile. Everytime someone clicks on it, it says that this user has to add you as one of their friends.
So I go into Account Settings then Privacy settings. The only options it gives me under Who Can View My Profile are either My Friends Only or Anyone Under 18 on Myspace.
I want anyone to be able to view my profile..
You have to make your age 16 or above
there is this guy that i really like alot. i think he likes me. but im not sure. we have kissed. it seems like everytime he comes over he always kisses and hugs me before he leaves. when hes on the phone with his sister which is my best friend he almost always tells her to tell me hugs and kisses from him. and the other night he gave me the necklace he was wearing for no reason. he said * merry christmas for me to u* we flirt. and it seems as though he gets flustered around me. he told his sister he thinks im beautiful. and we've had sex once. but does me like me more than a friend? its been so long since ive had to think about this stuff. someone please help!
Well if he thinks you're beautiful, youv'e had sex, you hug and kiss then he prolly likes you more than a friend!
just ne old website!
im sorry you need to be a littlwe bit more specific
i was just wonderin';where can u get ur own website???
what website are you talking about?
okay well like any normal person i wear deoderant =) but the thing is whenever i get to school i've started sweating immeadiately. i have NO CLUE why and its happened just recently. what should i do or whats wrong with me???
Bring deoderent with you yo skool and bring it 2 the bathrrom and put it on
Put more deoderent on in the morning
Well maybe you're sweating because you're nervous about sumthing??
Well you can IM me or email me and talk to me about it more
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13/F I have a BIG problem I have no idea what I want for Christmas. I have a $300 dollar limit and already have this stuff:
Clothes
Make-up
Body Sets (with lotion,shower gel, etc.)
Bed sheets
&
A new digital camera (which is only $30(but I might change that to one with a printer))
Please help me I'll rate you...
Heres a list:
Ipod
Canopy
DVD's/Movies
New Purse
Cell Phone
Thats all i can think of at the moment but IM me or email me and i will probably have more
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Hi. Lately i've seen people THAT i personally became fond of on here (as friends) that quit the site. I know that they have been busy. But i'm just scared that no one will become coloumists and eventually quit this site! I really like this site and i can't help but feel soo..bad, if this site just goes down. How will i know for sure that this site will NOT go down? And what can i do to keep it up? :) I will do anything to keep this site up. I LOVE IT!! (not to sound like a kiss-up!) :) Thank you.
No need to worry. About 100-300 ppl join a day and they aren't just going to quit the very next day. I mean really thats sumthing not to be worried about. Im not going to quit until i get older so you dont have to worry.
ok there is this guys that i like alott and he is about to ask out this girl. anyway before this girl came along he liked me ALOT "he said". Now that i look backhe was giving me signs that he like me but i guess i did not pay attention and i still like him alot what should i do.
Ask him if he still loves you and tell him that you love him. He will never know and he'll ask this girl out and you'll be sad.
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heres the story. me and my ex had dated for only like 5 months. i knew i loved him. he loved me. so for our big 5 i got him a gold chain for 175$. he loved it. well our friends had an anniverary party for us. me and him went to his backyard adn were talkign. then started to make out. then things lead to more. a lot more. we went into his guest house and you know. it was both of our first times. and i loved it. then 2 nites later i hung out with one of my guy friends who was drunk and about to pass out. so i picked him up and he kissed me. ididnt kiss back but still. well ididnt tell bryan cuz i didnt want him to think anything happened. bad choice. my friend was with him the next night and was drunk and told him that i made out with him. so not. bryan believed him.and he broke up with me. i cried for so long. it took a while to get over him. but i kinda did. i found a guy i really liek and he likes me. but he wants to ask me out in person. we hung out and he didnt. he said he forgot. but idk. were both grounded and cant hang out really. and he is in wrestling so that puts a hult on things too. 2nite he asked if i was still in love with bryan and i said no. but i am. but i care alot about this guy too. there is no chance with bryan anymore. but ya. adn i dont wantto date smeoneif i still care aobut bryan. i dont want to say no tho what should i do?
You should tell the guy you like now that you still have feeling for bryan and your not ready to date yet. Or you could tell him that you want to go out with him but you have to think about it. If you want more email or IM me!
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there is this girl that acts like she likes me and askes me over to her house all the time. anyway when ppl make fun of me she will laugh right along with them. Is she a true friend?
She is just trying to get your attention. If i were you you should say no when she asks you over. No she is not a true friend! I hope this advice helped!
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my friend can be really mean sumtimes.like she'll beat me up and then say that i was bugging her,so thats the reason she beat me up.and her mom says that shes a WICKED good sharer but she barely lets me have a snack or sumthing @ her house.she shows off,2.i dont want 2 b friends with her nemore,but sumtimes i do.(does that make sense?)what do i do?
-"friend" of a toxic friend
Dear friend of a toxic friend,
Well did u give her a chance? If you did and she broke it then you shouldn't be her friend. I hope this advice helped
Emily (i know this is anya) lol
OK. well theres this boy josh that i love. and he has a girlfriend named alle but josh bites my neck and like always flirts with me and like hits my show under the table and like acts like hes haveing orgsums just to be stupied LOL. and hes like we shud study so he came to my house and we ran around and i didnt mind alle bc i felt like i was his girlfriend they didnt seem to close. then on friday there were facts that this boy adam was flirting with alle and josh was crying at lunch and HE NEVER CRYS i saw how much he loved her ... and alle told him adam flirted with her.. yah.. but then this whole WEEK hes like not been so much flirty but still iss.. its sooo ODD and he like was showing me this poem he wrote her for there anerversy which was yesterday.. and he iunO! its soo WERID he never ever talked about her before.. but i guess he saw loseing her.. and it made him think.. BUT ITS SO WERID AND ITS LIKE he can go past the line BUT I CANT like he was makeing me throw like sweettarts into his mouth and so i was like opening my mouth and his hand did this like .. OK WAIt no and then he just gave it to me on my desk??? HELLPPPP i needa kno i mean i have liked him for lik 2 months.. and hes been going out with alle sence the begging of school or more??.... Help. vdont make me cry anymore please.
You should tell him that you like him or else he wont know and he might even like you! But you'll keep crying if you keep it in your system! I hope this advicehelped...
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So today I got this message from some random person. I called that number and I found out it was an adult. He started asking me for personal information and I told him fake stuff like my names this and that. Then he started saying I want to start a realationship with you and I just went crazy. I messaged him ssome really rude messages because I want them to leave me alone SO BADLY!!! It really pisses me off to know that I haave stalkers that might.. Who knows what???
Also, I think I know who those guys are. I have a guitar teacher and hes perverted and he loves me. (eew... hes 20 years older then me.)
So I think he gave my number to his friends.. UGh.. What jerks.. Any ideas on how to stop this?? I cant ignore them because they keep on messaging me. I told them that I will call the police if they don't shut up.
Oh and by the way I live in Indonesia where it's really dangerous to just walk outside.
U HAVE TO TELL YOUR PARENTS!! Telll them everything they said...thats exactly what happened to me except it was with my guest book in my buddy pro. So...Tell your parents immedietly! I hope my advice helped!
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I was just wondering what the different between kissing and making out is. Where is the line drawn? What is considered making out and what isn't? Is it something that is determined by you mouth or you hands or. . . ? That's always confused me so somebody please help! Thanks.
Kissing- using lips and sometimes hands
Making out- more private parts
ok..so theirs this guy nd ive liked him forever!! and im friends w/ his cousin nd she said he liked me!! but hes been ignoring me lately..nd he hasnt called in like 3 days..nd he's been flirting w/ this other girl a lot..nd so i get that he prolly doesnt like me anymore..but i like him waaay to much..what do i do about it?!
TELL HIM! He is never going to know if you dont tell him...and you'll keep getting upset about him flirting with that other girl...i hope my advice helped...Please visit my advice column!
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Okay i asked your guy's help once before about my girlfriend. But I have a serious situation, one of my ex-boyfriends called and asked me out. I haven't came out with this yet so nobody knows except my best friend and my gurlfriend and her aunt. I couldn't turn him down cause he's driving three hours just to see me. I wanna go but I don't think he would like the fact that i'm a 15 year old Bisexual and I have a girlfriend. And I don't think me girlfriend would like me going out with some guy!!!!!!!! Should I tell them????????
If you wannna then thats not a problem but tell your girlfriend because she will wondering and then you'll have to lie and then she weill get even more mad. So just tell hger the truth...i hope my advice helped...
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
Its ok if u like her. But you and her could get arrested for doing MINOR things so you miht wanna wait. I hope this advice helped...
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