heres the story. me and my ex had dated for only like 5 months. i knew i loved him. he loved me. so for our big 5 i got him a gold chain for 175$. he loved it. well our friends had an anniverary party for us. me and him went to his backyard adn were talkign. then started to make out. then things lead to more. a lot more. we went into his guest house and you know. it was both of our first times. and i loved it. then 2 nites later i hung out with one of my guy friends who was drunk and about to pass out. so i picked him up and he kissed me. ididnt kiss back but still. well ididnt tell bryan cuz i didnt want him to think anything happened. bad choice. my friend was with him the next night and was drunk and told him that i made out with him. so not. bryan believed him.and he broke up with me. i cried for so long. it took a while to get over him. but i kinda did. i found a guy i really liek and he likes me. but he wants to ask me out in person. we hung out and he didnt. he said he forgot. but idk. were both grounded and cant hang out really. and he is in wrestling so that puts a hult on things too. 2nite he asked if i was still in love with bryan and i said no. but i am. but i care alot about this guy too. there is no chance with bryan anymore. but ya. adn i dont wantto date smeoneif i still care aobut bryan. i dont want to say no tho what should i do?
IgIvEnGeTaDvIcEtOo answered Sunday November 27 2005, 8:10 pm: you should probably wait for you to be ready to go out with him but you should still only tell him that u want to go out with him if you do and if u make a promise DO NOT BRAKE IT it'll hurt him really bad and he might never like you again well yes i hope this helps [ IgIvEnGeTaDvIcEtOo's advice column | Ask IgIvEnGeTaDvIcEtOo A Question ]
CutUpAngel013 answered Friday November 25 2005, 6:59 pm: ok... it always takes a while to get over your first TRUE love trust me.. i went out with a guy for 8 months and it took me the same amount of time to get over him and move on... yes you may still have feelings for bryan but if you really like this other kid then just tell him the truth.. yes you still have some sort of feelings for bryan but you know it'll never happen again and you really like him and are ready to try and move on...youve got to learn to try and make things happen on your own.. you never know... maybe HES afraid to ask you out.. be the bigger person and ask him before someone else does..!
emilyjessica0x answered Friday November 25 2005, 8:39 am: You should tell the guy you like now that you still have feeling for bryan and your not ready to date yet. Or you could tell him that you want to go out with him but you have to think about it. If you want more email or IM me!
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.