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Why do sometimes questions that say "I rate 5's" or "I rate high" make it through the advinetors security?
I would also like to tell people here that you should give a rating, since someone took the time to reply on your inquiries. I see many answers that remain unrated even though you can tell that the advicenator spent a lot of sweat on it. (link)
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yea baby. I agree
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I dont have a penis but after all this advertising on internet I got interested. Not in having a penis,lol but finding information about it.
Is it dangerous and unhealthy? Does it work or is it a fiasko? Does it have sideeffects?
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whoa..when I first read your question, I thought you were a guy with no penis. Sorrie. Cos the moment I saw the heading of the qn, it registered in my mind that you were a guy.
I think it's hard for people to judge if it's effective or just pure fiasco unless they've really tried the product. My guess is it prolly does enlarge the penis, but maybe over such a long period of time that the person's dead by the time his penis enlarges. Same thing with that whitening effect that deodorants claim to have.
I think there'll certainly be side effects. It might increase the male hormones level and could result in more violence, short-temperedness, higher libido (maybe) and so on.
So i guess it is after all dangerous.
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do you know how to do a hot oil treatment with coconut oil (link)
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No I don't. But I'm flattered that you think I do. Haha.
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so the problem is that I AM A GIRL and i hate other girls. i can't stand them. i think their so weird and discusting. and i am a girl myself. and i only have guy friends. and i only like guys.
seriously i think guys are the only normal creatures in this world. and it makes me so angry hearing girls talking about girl stuff. it's just SO anoying. and when they scream cause they are so excited over something. it always makes me pissed. and seriously i am obsessed with guys. i dress like a guy , i act like a guy a lot , and i only have guy friends , and i am so crazy about guys haha
and i don't get myself.
is this behavior normal? or am i a weird person? (link)
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*shakes hand*
Oh yeas I'm totally like you, except that I still dress like a girl cos I think I suit that style more than the tomboyish look.
Yes! I totally dig what you say. GIRLS SUCK. They laugh over the stupidest shit and they bitch like mad. So don't worry, you're normal cos I'm normal. Bout the dressing like a guy part, its alright. It's just your style of dressing and you like it cos you look good in it.
Guys are cool, guys are funny and they have a much better temper than girls, at least for all of my guy friends. You're normal. You're cool ;)
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I am 20/male in college. I am really shy, and there's this girl in class that I want to talk to. The class is a psychology class and after doing personality tests, we found out that she was the shyest person in class (I thought for sure it would be me). Anyway, I dont know how to approach her or what to say to her. And I'd rather not use the results of the personality test as a conversation topic to start out. What should I do and say? (link)
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Say "Hello, I'm jim. You're from my psyche class right? Do you know what the teacher was talking bout just now? "
Then blah blah blah, and maybe you can say "hey ya! That teacher's crazy! I don't know what the hell is she talking bout! hahah! yeah? so do you? oh yeah great! hahahahahha!"
You can always start off by talking bout school work, then slowly talk bout other non-school related stuff.
DOn't worry, a shy person's normally a very friendly person on the inside but it's just that she's too shy to show it and she needs people to break the ice first.
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please only girls answer.
what types of clothes/outfits do girls like on guys?? Im not interested in things like emo style or goth, no offense to those that are, i just dont like the style. any help would be appriciated. ..thanx.. (link)
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I like shirts that fit just nicely on a guy, or shirts that shows that he has broad shoulders.
For bottoms, I like guys to wear jeans which are a little baggy, but not to the point where it's showing their boxers and they look like they're sweeping the floor wherever they go.
Simple is good.
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Okay, well lets start off with this -- I'm 13 years old, and I'm a girl. I really have a passion for dancing. I've been doing lessons since I was 4.
I sort of have a problem though. When we learn new steps for a song in my dance class, we go over them a few times but I dont seem to understand how to do them at first or I remember the beginning and forget the rest! I practice at home but it makes no difference. It takes me a bit to get the dance steps down, when everyone else in the class is able to do it.
Once I have it, however, I can do the dance really well. I just wish I could learn the dance steps at a quicker pace -- I really am willing to work for this. How can I learn the moves and remember them within a few tries? It usually takes me about 10 times, and mostly everyone else can get it down in about 4-5 times.
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As you're dancing, keep in mind the next dance step. Like for eg, if you're suppose to turn and then bend, while you're turning, tell yourself that the next move is to bend, and as you bend, think of the next move and so on and so forth.
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Alright well my cousin copies me A LOT! I MEAN LIKE ALL THE TIME!
She's a year younger than me...i'm 13/f
-She wears her hair like me all the time
-She's trying to get a cell phone because I got one
-She's getting a perm because my hair is naturally curly
-She tells me im pretty all the time so she tries to look like me
-one time she came up to me and asked me if i liked the song mockingbird by eminem and i was like "no, i hate that song." so she was like "omg me too! it's so annoying." but then my other cousin nick ran up to me and said "she's lying, she told me she LOVED that song!"
It's getting to the point where I don't know her because she's trying to be me! She needs to be her own person but i dont know how to tell her cuz i've tried and it never worked. she's been copying me for years and i've confronted her about it like 3 times...
but i get jealous when she temporarily stops copying me and copies someone else
REALLY JEALOUS!
but whenever i ask her something like..."do you like the song say it right by nelly furtado?" she'll ask me if i like it first shell be like " i don't know do you?" and then if i say yes shes like "me too it's awesome." so then i change my mind a minute later and say "nah maybe not" so she says "Me neither" so i can keep changing my mind and she'll change it with me!
help! i don't know if i want her to stop!
i just need to make up my mind,
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Whoa. This is a damn good question. I've been in that position before. And it's really annoying.
Ask yourself: Which one do I prefer, or which one can I stand more- For her to keep copying me? Or for her to copy someone else?
That's all you need to know. There's no use for me to go on preaching about the goodness of her being unique. Ultimately, you're the one who's gonna make the decision.
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why do people say be yourself? but what if they dont like how you act? its just hard to be yourself in public, because some people doesnt accept you who you are. i dont get life =[
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Yes absolutely. When you're contantly meeting different people in life, it is hard to be the same old self all the time. For eg, if you were to meet someone wacky and crazy, you'll tend to be crazy as well. When you meet mature people, you tend to keep your cool and be more serious.
Yes I get what you mean. I hate it when people always say "be yourself". Quite frankly speaking, I don't know myself. How the heck do I be myself? I have no f***in' idea.
But I think what people are trying to say when they say "be yourself", is to just melt and blend in with everyone else just naturally without trying to change your primary behavior and principles. Say if you're a humourous person, then that humour factor should always be in you, even when you're around serious people. It's just that it may take time for that humourous factor to emerge and come out in full blast. Either way, you'll still remain as that humourous person wont you? I guess that's what it means to be yourself.
I guess the right word should be to "be comfortable" around them, and you'll do fine. I still behave like a monkey and tell jokes around new people. It's just that if I'm with conservative people, i reduce my crappiness and show a quieter side of me.
I just take it that I'm showing a different side of me instead of telling myself that I'm fake whenever I meet new people.
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ok i want to get my ear lobbs pierced but my parents wont let me any advice on how to make my parents let me. plz help:) (link)
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I was like you. My parents didnt allow any piercings on me. But I just went ahead and did it. They nagged a while but they can't un-pierce me.
There really isn't much to talk to your parents cos most of the time they pretty much leave no room for negotiation for such stuff. Just go and find a reliable ear piercing shop and make sure you take good care of your ears. That way, you're already proving to your parents that it is alright to have piercings and that you can handle them.
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she's really upset about her compicated life right now,like her boy issues, and family issues like she has 20 years old guy and shes teeager he dont think she knows that she likes him but i think he kinda liked her and he said hes gonna wait 2 years for her. but she found out that he has a girfriend now and shes really sad and she feels like she doesnt wanna go to school anymore because of guy problem and her family problem and i told her "forget about it" but shes said it doesnt work what should i say to her? she also asked me what can she do to be happier? and she said "what do i do about my guy problems?" please help me what do u think she should do? please be serious i wanna help her out thanks a lot (link)
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It's really nice of you to go all out to help her. If she wants to be happier, the first step is to stop wallowing in depression. She has to step out and all the more she has to go to school. School is a place where he won't be there to distract her. It is where all her friends are and where she can laugh and hang out with them to get out of that rut.
She has to understand that there is really no point in not going to school and staying at home under the blanket all day, thinking and crying over him. Tell me, what good can you get out of staying at home and overwhelming yourself with sadness? If she can name ONE good thing bout it, I'd bend down and kiss my ass from between my knees. He said that he'll wait 2 years for her but what happened? He dropped her for someone else. Then I have to say that it IS a good thing she isnt with him because he isn't a man of his word. The worst thing people can break is their promise.
Tell her that life doesn't just revolve around her problems. I'm sure there are other things for her to look forward to in life. Focus more on those for now. Tell her that she can do it. Each and everyone of us have our own problems and she has to learn how to pick herself up and be positive. As for her family problem, you didnt elaborate much so I can't really help you much there. If she wants to be happy, tell her to do the things she likes. Shopping, playing with her pets, watching tv, etc. You can help her as well by being her companion during this period of time.
I can empathise with her when she said she "can't forget" because it is really easier said than done. Tell her that forgetting bout him is not the only option. She can choose to keep herself so busy that he'll eventually slip her mind. Show her lots of support during this period of time and be very patient with her. Because at this point in time, she's at her most vulnerable and her self esteem may be easily crushed. Tell her to brace herself and be strong, and there will always be people out there who are far worse off than she is.
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I get chappd lips a lot. I use lipgloss/moisturizer.
And lately.. when my lips are dry.. the dried parts ..are kinda purple. It looks like my lips are bruised.
What is with that? (link)
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I think you get purplish lips due to insufficient blood flow to those dried parts. Insufficient blood flow means less nutrients and less water supplied to those parts.
Make sure you drink more water. Keep yourself hydrated and put lip balm constantly.
Stay away from air conditioned rooms as they tend to make not only your lips dry but your face dry as well.
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how come some people like me for instances get a whole bunch of acne and some dont EVER get pimples. I take good care of my skin and dont see why I always break out and some people can not wash there face and will not get one pimple! (link)
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You keep breaking out because
-you have more oil on your face
-its in the genes, babe
-you don't drink enough water
-you eat too much oily stuff like potato chips. Eating oily stuff can cause you to break out more. AND no, chocolate doesn't cause pimples at all. Its been proven
-You don't have enough sleep
-You could be stressing yourself due to some problems.
Wanting to have a good skin is not just restricted to washing your face and all. It requires time and effort and you're lucky if good skin runs in your family
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is there a site where you can like upload a file to? im on my computer and i dont have a printer, so i want to upload some paint files to a site so i can go on my other computer and get the files. is it possible? (link)
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You can email yourself the file or you could save it in your MP3 player. That's what I do usually.
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Alright, I was just in the shower, and I noticed my breast has this green bruise on it. It looks like marker, but it won't come off, and it hurts. I KNOW its a bruise. I don't have a boyfriend, and I haven't been drunk anytime recently. I have no clue what happened, and I don't remember doing anything that could have caused it. Is there a medical condition with green bruising(or any bruising, I've been getting lots of them, with no real reasoning). (link)
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Having bruises could be symptoms of cancer. Do the breast self-exam from this website
http://www.health.com/health/wynks/Breast_CancerWYNK2000-MAL/box1.html
However, I still recommend you to see a doctor just so you know what is happening. A doctor knows more than us.
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you know how if you have like a fat stomach you can suck it in and you could look skinny? i was just wondering if you were pregnant if you could do that. or would it only go in a little bit but stop so you still look pregnant? (link)
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No you can't. Inside is filled with baby and not air. I doubt you can suck it in when you're pregnant.
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Ok, so im not talking about losing a ton of weight or anything like that. I just want to like trim down my size. I'm 16 and i play volleyball, soccer and i occaisonially swim competitvely. I have really muscular legs and yes i know that is important for playing sports but i just really hate it because my legs look HUGE. like for volleyball games, wearing spandex..ahh i just hate it...what are some things i can do do like trim down my muscle i guess (link)
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It is true. Running will only make your calves bigger. Look at all the footballers. They all have a big bulge at their calves.
It's hard to trim down muscles especially if you are athletic. The best is you could reduce those sports which add bulk to your legs.
Try to avoid sports which builds up bulk in your calves such as running and brisk walking. If you want to even out your muscles, you can do swimming or cycling. Do exercises that makes you feel the stretch in your entire legs rather than just in the calves.
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Are piercings in or out right now? If so, what kinds? (Cartlidge, nose, lip, eyebrown, belly button, etc.) (link)
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Cartilages baby. They're the best.
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is it okay for a girl to ask a boy for his cell number (link)
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It is okay. But the crux of the issue lies in whether it is against your principles. I don't believe in making the first direct move to a guy. Because
1) most of the time, the guy will take the girl for granted
2) in every relationship, I feel that either the guy should like the girl more OR they should love each other to the same extent. This may seem really selfish but that's just my opinion. Relationships seldom work out with girls loving the guy more.
Bear in mind you don't have to follow my opinion. Some people might disagree with what I say, but you're free to make your own choice. =)
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i was just wondering.. is there anyone reading this that picks their eyelashes?
well.. it's gross, but i do too.
i want to talk to someone that has the same problem i do.
thankss. (link)
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Why are you picking your eyelashes? Eyelashes are something which you shouldn't pick! It's one of the nicest things bout people's eyes! It's nice to have long, thick eyelashes. Why do you think there is such a thing called mascara? Don't pick 'em. Love 'em. If you're blessed with long and thick eyelashes you should be really really happy.
Having long and thick eyelashes gives depth and a mysterious look to your eyes; it's really pretty. I have long eyelashes too but I don't pick them. It is very rare to see an asian with long and thick eyelashes. I'll cry if I were to drop any eyelashes. Come to my country and the people here will tell you you're mad for picking eyelashes. Girls in my country load their eyes with tons of mascara and they don't even achieve those natural-looking, long eyelashes. There are even people who go for eyelash extension. And some even attach a set of fake eyelashes to their eyes. It looks really fake and gross. THAT is what I call gross.
So hey, love yourself for what you have; your eyelashes are a gift.
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