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piercing
ok i want to get my ear lobbs pierced but my parents wont let me any advice on how to make my parents let me. plz help:)
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Tell them the pros & cons about it. If you don't know what they are, research it & do something on it. And have some really good reasons for why you want it done. "It looks cute." and "Everyone else has it done." are not good reasons.
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I have a few (hopefully, helpful) suggestions for you -- I would talk to them both, and ask them why they do not want you get your ears pierced. After, make sure not to be defense, but explain to them your reasoning for getting your ears pierced. I'm sure if you have good reasoning for it, and you can understand the points they're making, you'll probably be able to get them pierced.
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Ask them why, in a calm and clear manner - also explain why you want them pierces. Do you have a valid reason other that I want to, everyone else is, it looks good?
Next, offer to pay for it and have it done at the doctors offer to avoid mistreatment.
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I was like you. My parents didnt allow any piercings on me. But I just went ahead and did it. They nagged a while but they can't un-pierce me.
There really isn't much to talk to your parents cos most of the time they pretty much leave no room for negotiation for such stuff. Just go and find a reliable ear piercing shop and make sure you take good care of your ears. That way, you're already proving to your parents that it is alright to have piercings and that you can handle them.
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