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Hey everyone, my name is Kevin. I'm just another guy trying to live this race called life.

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Heeya! Okey, so can anyone on this site name a couple of canadian basketball teams? Or does anyone know a good website with a bunch of canadian basketball teams?
Oh and it would be great if you could tell me which is your favorite too *smiles*
Thank you.

http://www.basketball.ca/

http://www.internationalbasketball.com/canada.html

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I did alot of exercises yesterday.. I mean alot.. and my legs are like sore! I fell going up the stairs cause they were so sore today at school.. they are still sore to i have ball practice everyday and i also have gym how could I get my legs from not being sore?

Just try to relax. Don't do to much physical work. Horse liniment works really good for stuff like that.

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I really need to lose weight in my thighs, the area right above my knees, and my calves. What exercises will slim these? Also what foods should I cut back on, like sugar? ..

Thanks!

Squats should help the area above your knees and running should help your calves.

I think you should cut back on any foods/snacks that are high in fat, salt, and sugar.

The website below should help you a lot.
mypyramid.gov

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well my ex and i went out for about 6 months and i got really attached and then she broke up with me at the valentines day dance. well i still have strong feelings for her, but she has a b/f now and im really missing her. well she says she is missing me back and she says she still loves me, but yet she wont brake up with her current b/f to be with me. im starting to fall in love with one of her friends from soccer but i still love my ex more than her friend bu tim getting the feeling my ex is just making up that she misses me, and i told her if she doesnt brake up with her current b/f for me im gonna ask someone else out, but she doesnt know that its her friend from soccer that i like. idk wut to do. plz help me.

Get over your ex. If she hasn't already broken up with her boyfriend its because her feelings for you aren't as strong as her feelings for her boyfriend.

So try to move on. I'm not sure how her friends and her feel about dating each other's exboyfriends. If they are fine with it then go for it, but if they aren't then watch out.

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i dont have flat abs.. so if i were to just go on a diet and not eat as many fatty foods and not do crunches would that help? because whenever i do crunches it never shows improvement.. even for like a month

Crunches do help. They just take lots of time and effort.

So if you are doing a little bit a day then ofcourse you aren't going to see results.

Eating right will help your body to improve but I don't think that alone will do it. You need a combination of eating healthy and exercising.

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Okay, I like this guy Lewis. Lewis's best friend is Carl. Carl found out that I like Lewis and he's really mad about it.
Carl doesn't like me at all, so I can't really go talk to him, and he is going to tell Lewis.
What do I do!!??

Why does Carl even care about who you like.
I think he is jealous. So who cares what he thinks?

And it doesn't matter if he tell Lewis because either way the turn out could be good.
a)Lewis will know that you like him.
b)Lewis will know that you like him.
c)Lewis will know that you like him.
Do I really need to go on?

It may be embarassing but you should try not to worry about what others think.

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13/m

ok so i've been trying to ask this one girl out at school, but i just can't work up the courage to ask her. . . . i thought about aim or email, but she doesn't have either, so i have to ask her in person, and i'm kind of a coward when it comes to this stuff. . .

thnx

Think about the end results.
If you ask her out then there is a possibility of you going out with her.

So suck it up and ask her out.

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me and my boyfriend went to the movies he did nothing not even a hand on my lap people keep saying slow down wait for him but we went out in the past and wer kissed the the first week we have been going out for 4 weeks know and nothing
am i being to bitchy or do i have a right to be a little mad

If you went out in the past then he is probably thinking that yall went wrong going to fast. So he may be trying not to make the same mistake twice.

If you don't think that yall went to fast in the past then I think you should tell him. So he will know.

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i've been doing curl ups everyday for a year and (i do the side ones, the ones that work out your upper and lower abs) and like im seeing NO improvement...is there a harder curl up to do? becuase im going all the way up slowly and all the way down slowly and i cant see anything!! im doing 200 on the left and 200 on the right...help!!

I raise my legs in the air while I'm doing them.

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I know, I know. Another 'love life' question..sorry.
I started liking this boy. We are good friends and all so it's not like I just met him. I get this impression that he likes me back..
Anyways, I really just want to go for it and kiss him. I know how to kiss so thats not my question. My question is how do I go about it. I know he wouldn't refuse if I did..
Just how do I do it? Just like go for it? When? Where? I usually see him at the ball park..
Thanks so much!

Yep, you just do it.
You can do it where ever and when ever you are comfortable enough to. There is no set time and place for a kiss to happen, it just does.

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So I'm 15. And I'm a female,
is there something wrong with me?
I'm attracted to older guys, I'm sure they dont like me. Or wont ever, but I find myself wanting older guys, like they seem more appealing to me, because like ALL the guys in my grade are so imature. I wish theyd grow up. I dont know though.
I just hope its nto wrong for me to like odler guys? Because I have no interest in any of the guys in my grade =/

No nothing is wrong with that, unless they are illegal.

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sorry i didnt know what category.

okay anyways. i sweat really really bad under my armpits. like i can just be standing there and it starts to feel wet and its soo embarrassing! i wear deoterant all the time. like when i wake up and get ready for school, before & after gym then before i go anywhere after school but it doesnt help. its really gross. what can i do to make it stop?

I heard that Certain Dri deoderant works well.

I know its Doctor recommended.

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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and at school there's these 2 kids that pick on me and talk bad about my mom constantly and iam about to get fed up with it.Today the boy Justin is the worst he took my purse and ran around the classroom with it and he took my soda and shook it up and he told me that my outfit I was wearing looked like a nurses uniform.The girl told me that I was mean becouse I told on them.I feel like fighting both of them what should I do?

Me personally, I would kick each and every one of their a**. But you shouldn't do that because I already got suspended two times this year and you probably don't want to do that.

So I think you should tell someone with authority, that way they get stopped and you don't get in trouble.

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is it true that guys are only your friends if they are some what attracted to you .. like theyd only be your friend if they like your of if they think your hot is that true? - 15/f

No.

Some are jerks and some aren't. It just depends on the guy.

ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT!!!

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Hey everyone!
For some reason I feel like reading I would really apreciate if you people would recommend some of your favorite books and a little bit on what it is about =)
Thanks,

The Giver is a good book. I had to read it for school once and it turned out to be a really good book. It also has a sequel to it.

Below is a website for the summary.

http://www.bookrags.com/notes/giv/SUM.html

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I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.

Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.

I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?

dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.

thanks.

Yep, patience is the answer.

Trust me, speaking from experience it will be well worth the wait when it finally comes.

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Does anyone know any tips for writing history essays? Like, anything that will help me get better marks?

These are all things that you should have.
-thesis statement
-major details
-minor details
-supporting details
-facts
-introduction
-conclusion
-body paragraphs
-elaboration

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Its the holidays and ive been getting a bit bored, whenever i get bored i go on the computer. Its just, i dont want to have spent the whole holiday on the cumputer. Does anyone know any other good boredom busters?

-mall
-movies
-skating
-swimming
-hang out with friends
-play improv
-play pictionary
-play boardgames
-watch movies
-PARTY!!!
-video games
-ride your bicycle
-take a walk
-skateboard
If you really want to waste some time you can play Monopoly with some friends. That game takes FOREVER to finish.

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I know every guy that has a gf has something that they hate about her. I'm trying to be the best gf i can be to my bf. So i want to know what is the thing that you hate most about your gf?

I don't HATE anything about my girlfriend. There are some things that I DISLIKE about her, though.

I would rather not say what they are.

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does anyone have a clue what the heckk a Roman mock sea battle is???

I already googled it and everything but couldn't find what it actually IS.

anyone know??....anyone

Are you sure that you googled it?
Because I found tons of websites.

only search advicenators.com


The first five websites have some good information on them.

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