is it true that guys are only your friends if they are some what attracted to you .. like theyd only be your friend if they like your of if they think your hot is that true? - 15/f
Vikki27 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 3:26 pm: I don't really think that's true, no. I have male friends who don't fancy me and I don't fancy them but when I see them we have a good laugh.
It's quite commonly believed that men and women can't be just friends because emotions and sex get involved, one ends up fancying the other, etc. I suppose it can be true in a lot of cases but that doens't mean that all guys are so shallow they can't possibly be friends with a girl they're not attracted to.
If you're a good person and you make them laugh, there's no reason they can't be your friend and they don't have to fancy you for that. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
Solemnstar answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 10:18 pm: not to be mean to them, but some of the girls im friends with i think are downright ugly and annoying. though a few i met through my GF so that may be why i put up with them... so i gues the awnser to your question is yes and no, it depends on the guy. [ Solemnstar's advice column | Ask Solemnstar A Question ]
Basketball3846 answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 8:16 pm: no im absolutaly positive thats not true. i have many guy friends and some of which ive dated and theyve broken up with me, and yet were stil friends. if they did like me like that, they woouldnt have broken up with me. yet, theyre still my friends. [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
itsz_JESS answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 7:45 pm: well im not sure but i dont think thats true.. cause i mean some guys are probably like that but some will probably like you for who you are and not by your looks [ itsz_JESS's advice column | Ask itsz_JESS A Question ]
UHOHxOMFG answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 7:34 pm: I dont think so. some guys can be like that but not all. i have tons of guy friends and some of them like other girls or have girlfriends. usually one or the other end up liking the other if its a boy girl friendship but nope i dont believe that one bit. hope i helped <3 [ UHOHxOMFG's advice column | Ask UHOHxOMFG A Question ]
Alin75 answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 7:33 pm: No it isnt. It will hold for some guys but absolutely not all. I have had friends who were girls where there wasnt any form of attraction whatsoever one way or the other.
Typically though guys will be your friend for one of 3 reasons:
1. because they really are your friend
2. because they want something more
3. because they know that by having a girl as a friend they can get access to a lot of other girls (friend's friends).
omgitsjaimee answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 7:04 pm: i doubt it. unless the guy is really prejudice or whatever, they should like you for who you are not how you look. but for a relationship ((like b/f;;g/f)), good looks help.
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