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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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I'm 14/f and I am having trouble with my skin. I don't have too much acne (a couple pimples now and then.. but thats not my problem). I have very light/fair skin and my cheeks and around my nose are really red and between my eyebrows is covered in little acne dots and is very pale.
Can anyone give me any advice on what kind of makeup to use where?

proactive makes makeup and face wash and stuff it is really good . i use it even thought i don't have that much eather but still you should useit cus he helps al around. hope i helepd
Andie

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a boy liked me. i'm scared of relationship. he loses feelings for me. not his fault. i run away from every guy. i start to like him. he doesnt know. i dont even really know what my question is......IM THAT CONFUSED!!!

talk to this lady she can really help
no1left2understand@yahoo.com

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ok i have a little problem with my family i mean i love them and all its just....they are to much......my brother is way to into himself and never does anything around the house i feel like im his mother and my sister is such a brat i feel like grabing her sometimes and throwing her out the window......they both drive me nuts.......i barely ever see my da my mom just left yesterday to another country for a month (she has her reasons) so its more difficult around the house my sister has been crying about her leaving before she even left (i think she just wants attenion) my brother thinks he is the boss and he is only 3 years older (we r both in high school) i dont know what to do i just cant take it any more............

e-mail this lady she can help no1left2understand@yahoo.com

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Okay im having a party the first week in january and i dont know what to do for invitations i dont want liddle kiddie ones and i've been thinking about making them on my computer.

Also, my two friends their twins and if i invite them they will hook-up with all the guys i like and i really dont want them there.

what should i do ?

13/f

i say yes make them on the comp and the 2 friends well they can do what they want you on ly 13 i am only 14 but any way we have sutch a long time to deel with guys it doesn't even matter cus within a year or 2 MAXUMUM you would stop likeing them any way but ya there jsut guys and really friends ask you r about guys you like before doing anything with t them . hope i helped. ANDIE

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Ok well i like this kid a year older than me A LOT the problem is he has a gf well one weekend he begged me to come over but i couldnt now he wants me over this weekend well I know his gf and im not a slut so the best choice is to stay home right ?

honosty wise yes you should stay home but i mean you can always just go over to hange out and stuff like i have guy friends that i hang out with and stuff but also it depends on what you want to do if you think it will get "to far" dependon on were that is for you don't go and like hang out at school or what ever or with him and other people . hope i helped
Andie

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OK sorry if this is long
My friend is 13 and she is very nice, an A student and is always pretty good, well she went to new Jersey during Thanks Giving and she met a really hot guy there named ****. and well 2 days after she met him they went to a party and she had sex with him. She only did it 4 like 5 minutes then she chickened out and left. he is 14 and she hasnt started her period yet so she cant get pregnant but she feels so bad because it was her 1st time and she wanted to save herself for someone special. Last night we were at my friends party and we were all playing Secrets, and she told us she wasnt a virgin anymore but i am the ONLY one who really knows she isnt because everyone else thought she was joking. and last night we didnt get to sleep til 3 and i woke up to her crying at 4 and we talked for like 2 hours and she said she wished she didnt do that and that if her parents found out, they would literally kill her and that she was really scared because she thinks her cousin might have found out that she did it because she was at the party and everything and she doesnt know what to do and I am really worried about her because she is really good and that she might get into a lot of trouble because of it and I am really worried for her and she said she couldnt stop thinking about him (the guy) and I dont know what to tell her!!!!!! I am afraid she will hurt herself because she said she used to cut!!!!!


Please help me i will rate 5s THANKS!!!

e-mail this person she can help. no1left2understand@yahoo.com

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hey so i like this guy and he lives 2 hrs away from me. and i saw him last weekend and i got nervous when i saw him and didnt know what to say. now he thinks im mad @ him. what should i say to him?? what could i say to him so im not so nervos???

i rate.

thanks

tell him your not mad at him and your sorry you did not say anything last time. and that you wana make sure he is not mad at you.hope i helped.
Andie

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Ok I have brown eyes that have a little bit of green splash to them. Well all my friends say it looks really pretty because its not quite hazel or brown. They usually can't see the green unless they look closely or look at them in the sunlight. I have a lot of eye makeup but I can't find any that will make the hazel show up more in my eyes from far away. Any ideas? thanx. I RATE.

try blues or redish orange hope i helped.
Andie

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The guy I'm kinda seeing likes the "natural look"; no makeup, real breasts, and he prefers I don't shave because it's more natual, things like that. I'm at that point where I haven't quite snagged him as a boyfriend yet, but I'd really like to, so I'm willing to kind of change my style to make myself more attractive to him.Right now, my style would probably be labeled as "emo", and I wear alot of vintage-inspired clothing as well.

So here's my question: how can I achieve the "natural" look with my style, hair, and anything else?

just so you know i don't think you should change yourself for any one be you .but youc could just do what he likes if you want to change yourself to what he wants. don't straiten your hair and stuff. like just brush it I guess. and shave you legs but ya . ok well hope i helped.
Andie

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okay i know girls are suposed to shave down there, but i dont really know how. If i used like Nair, or something will it come off? Anyone know from experience or know someone whos tried it, and it worked?

you can use Nair i guess but personaly i don't think you should because if yo9u get in serten places its gona hurt. so just shave it around the outside. i know this sounds wiered but its true and trim it. hope i helped.

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Okay I'm 13/f and I have liked this one guy scince last year. Me and my one friend talked to him about it. He said that I'm prude and weird to my friend and when I asked him about it he said that He loves me and never would say that. Then he asked if I could give him a hand Job. At first I said sure but I didn't really feel like doing it becuase I was neruves. After that he asked my friend if I would let him eat me out and let him finger me. Then my friend asked me if I would and I said I dunno and she told him IDK[I odn't know] and then he asked if I would give him head[blow job]. I wanna do this stuff to him. Like I've fingured my self before and like I want him to do it. I'm just kinda worried. Would he like it shaved. Would he like me after. Should I do it?
13/f

ok here is the deal. I am 14. and your 13. HONOSTLY WE ARE TO YOUNG to be doin that kind of stuff in my opinion. just a warning . GUYS WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU if you vonerable(sp) any way if you realy want to go threw with this it up to you BE CARFUL have control over the situasion the hole time and about the save thing yes save. and if he will still like you. from what it sound like i don't think so sry but he is useing you. if you need to talk IM me at SuperGir369. i have an e-mail address of some one you can also talk to if you IM me . hope i helped.
Andie

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I'm male, 17, and in high school.

Two of my friends, let's call them Enrique and Polly, went out for about nine months. Enrique is probably my best friend, and during this time, I became good friends with Polly as well. Recently (a few months ago or so), they broke up, and they've both gone through ups and downs, getting back together, breaking up again, dating other people, etc. Finally, it seems that they've really broken it off. I hang out with both of them a lot, but separately, because they feel awkward together. And I'm starting to get the impression that Polly likes me.

Now, the complicated part. I've had a purely physical (f-buddy) relationship with a girl I know, let's call her Edna, for the past month or so. We've made out many times and had sex once, and the tricky part is that we're both emotionally shy, and I'm not sure how she feels about me. She may want something more out of the relationship, and I'm confused as to whether she just wants an open thing going like we already have or if she would care if I dated someone else.

Unfortunately, long story short, Polly and I ended up making out. We got caught up in the moment and a lot of feelings came out, but now I'm in an unusual place. Polly feels that we need to tell Enrique. Enrique is going to be very upset when he hears this. As an added element, I'm worried about what Edna will think, since I'm not sure what she wants out of our relationship. I'm really confused as to what I should do here.

FIRST you ask "edna" what she wants out of the relations ship jsut ask her .then after you find that out you talk to "pollY" then you talk to "enruque". hope i helped if you need any other help my advicecolom is askforanswersfromAndie.
hope i helped
Andie

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Okay, so I'm 14 (female). my friend (15 and female) and I are throwing a christmas/new years party (on new years) and there'll be boys and girls there. We're all 13-15 years old, so no college party stuff. but we dont know what to do. people are bringing b/f's and crushes, all though we dont want to do anything to extreme. does anyone have any good ideas of what to do for the partay???

truth or dare( people may dare some people to kiss and stuff though. you could hang out in your back yard, listen to music eat, play like you know girl games were we take a guys hat or somethin and hit those are fun for people i think . you could plan something with the girls like that, watch a movie, play like twister, or just dance. hope i helped.
Andie
P.S. i am 14

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My boyfriend and I are constantly getting into debates about everything, especially religion and politics. We usually don't get that worked up, but I'm afraid it's going to do our relationship damage in the long-run. Is debating normal? Or should we avoid doing it in case we start fighting and potentially ruin our relationship? Do other people have experience with this...?

16/f

ok i am 14 and me and my bf do the same thing but not religion or politics just views on lovelife stuff and stuff its normal fights are possible to come out of it but thats normal 2 so don't worry every one has diff views on stuff. hope i helped
Andie

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hey ok well i have a sort of huge friendship problem. see i have these two most awesome friends in the world (well more than two but these two are part of the problem here) we will call them x(guy) and z(girl). well x and z and me were really good friends before and me and z have been friends since like we were 5. we met x this summer and he's really great, like i can tell him anything. he doesnt live here, so we don't get to see him all the time but he lives close. well then z and x went out for like a month. i was happy for them but z kept thinking i liked x. and i don't. and i told her that so now its ok. but then they broke up. so now i have to see him w/o her there, cuz it would be weird for them. well to make a long story short i wanna get together with x to like see a movie or something just to see him again. but 1. i dont want z to think of it as a date or to be mad at me 2. i dont want x for some reason to think of it as something different. see we used to get together but there was more of us then, but this time it would just be 2 of us. what should i do to not make it look like a date or crush or anything to anyone???
thanx for reading this it was long! i'll rate for anything that helps!

invite another guy 2 or something or someone els or tell her inadvace so see has a chance to understand but say don't take this wrong or anything first before you tell her. hope i helped.
Andie

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Ok. So i just got six new babie jack russels from my brother's dog. The only problem is I don't know what to name the one we are keeping. It's to young to determine if its a boy or girl so plz give me both! I'lll rate 5's on everyone if you follow the guidline. Here's the Guidline...example names:

Boy names Girl names

Spot Ginger
Bingo Sugar
Grizzly Lady
Flash Lassie


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Thank you so much for all your answers. Plz give at least 2 names for both. I appreciate it greatly!!!!

Jack/Jake : Jane/Jackey
Digger/Jewle(sp)
Buddy/Susie
Bear/cassidy
Hope i heled
Andie

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My birthday is coming up very soon. I know this sounds really stupid, but I want to make cute invitations =) I'm using plain computer paper. My question is, besides who, what, when, and where should go on an invitation?

what you need, what you think you may need but don't, what the plan to do is, how old you will be, what kind of party, your age your going to be. hope i helped alittle.
Andie

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Does anyone knwo where I can find good information on education in the middle ages? I've googled and yahooed and neither gave me good info that I can really use. They all just repeated.

go to mid evil times . its fun and a flash of history . go and get some visuals. its fun.
Hope i helped a little.
Andie

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Does anyone knwo where I can find good information on education in the middle ages? I've googled and yahooed and neither gave me good info that I can really use. They all just repeated.

go to mid evil times . its fun and a flash of history . go and get some visuals. its fun.
Hope i helped a little.
Andie

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I went to visit a guy that I'm friends with at his work. When he saw me his face lit up and he started winking at me. He was talking to another guy who I remembered from a party. I started talking to this guy and called him by his name. Anyways, I new that my friend had to get back to work so I said goodbye to both of them. The guy that I didnt know very well smiled and said goodbye, but then my friend glared at me and said BYE! angrily.
Does this mean that my friend was jealous I was talking to the other guy? He's not my bf so maybe his feelings run deeper for me than I thought? What do you think?

i think you right and i also think you should talk to him. set him strait. so when you do start to date people he is not hart broken. hope i helped.
Andie

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