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looking natural?Boys+girls answer please
The guy I'm kinda seeing likes the "natural look"; no makeup, real breasts, and he prefers I don't shave because it's more natual, things like that. I'm at that point where I haven't quite snagged him as a boyfriend yet, but I'd really like to, so I'm willing to kind of change my style to make myself more attractive to him.Right now, my style would probably be labeled as "emo", and I wear alot of vintage-inspired clothing as well.
So here's my question: how can I achieve the "natural" look with my style, hair, and anything else?
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DONT CHANGE FOR ANYONE.... Just be you. If he doesn't like you for you... Then who cares about him.....
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wow... um, first off, how old are you, and why have you discussed your genitals with this boy?
anyway, as for your style. i've always seen the whole vintage thing as pretty natural in itself.
and for make up, you don't have to not wear makeup, just tone it down. browns and cream colors for eye shadow and stuff
minimal eye shadow
dunno about your hair or anything though, so good luck!
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no hair dye, only netural makeup, and kind of earthy clothes (nothing dark or too out there)
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I'd call myself pretty natural and my bf likes that and all so I'll basically tell you what I do. Clothing doesn't have much to do with looking natural just as long as you don't dress really "slutty" so I would say you don't have to change your wardrobe at all. I don't wear any makeup, never have, and probably never will. My suggestion would be not to wear any makeup, but if you're used to it or like it use it very minimally. A little cover up, unnoticeable lip gloss, brownish eye shadow colors and maybe a little blush would probably be just fine. Don't wear any eye liner or mascara. As for hair, don't highlight it, dye it, or style it. Length doesn't matter at all. Blow drying it is okay, but let it dry on it's own about 1/4 of the way, in other words, don't completely dry it with the blow dryer. You can do something with it, like a basic pony tail, or bun, but nothing too crazy. Just throw it up there or wear it down. It doesn't have to be a mess, but don't put too much effort into it. Now to the shaving bit. If you'd rather not I doubt he's going to break up with you over it. If it's okay with you, then sure go ahead and let it grow, but I would suggest at least keeping it somewhat trimmed. Unless, again, you'd rather not. That's something that should be up to you even though you can base your decision on what he thinks, it is your decision to make. I based my decision on my bf's thoughts, but it was what I wanted and felt comfortable with. A few last thoughts, don't get manicures or pedicures. If you want your nails painted do it yourself, stick to lighter colors, and don't let your nails grow very long. No colored contacts. NO FAKE TANS! I think that's about it. Basically all you need to do is think to yourself, what saves time and money? Good luck! <3
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well first off.. you should change for anyone.
but if you really want this guy you can change it up a little.
for your style wear more earthyer tones. not many bright pinks, or oranges. and wear jeans and a t-shirt some times.
for your hair :
i really cute thing is when your hair is wet, put some gel in it .. then blow dry it so it is a little wavey.
or straighten your hair, but flip on the ends.
and for makes up :
you can just stick to a little blush, or bronzer, then brown eyeliner, and some skin color eyeshadow.
good luck, have fun ♥
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just so you know i don't think you should change yourself for any one be you .but youc could just do what he likes if you want to change yourself to what he wants. don't straiten your hair and stuff. like just brush it I guess. and shave you legs but ya . ok well hope i helped.
Andie
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first of all dont change ur self for nobody just be your self its ok to change a lil bit but dont change a lot and exspecially ur self iight peace
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Of course you might want to tweak a few things here and there, but don't overwhelm yourself with a new wardrobe or anything. You pretty much said it yourself, although I'm not sure you should deprive yourself of makeup. If you like it just wear it so that it creates a natural look. You cannot completely alter your lifestyles according to his wishes. Sure, you may change a little, but don't let him think he controls your life. Especially if your not exclusive yet. As for your hair, don't dye it or use anything unnatural such as hairspray/mousse/gel as long as it's controllable and not overly frizzy or too curly. Although, there is ways of creating natural looks, (if that makes sense...i mean...creating something NATURAL? ;-) ) You might wear your hair in loose curls (curling iron or rollers). Minimal jewelry if any...small pieces of either gold or silver. Solid-colored shirts, specifically white,biege, or black with ripped jeans might make it cute.
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well you could always see what kind of girls he hangs out with. you could leave your hair down.. no products in it.. don;t blow it dry, straighten, or curl it.. dont wear makeup... umm maybe you should shave though otherwise its kinda strange no offense.. but if you really like him go for it. also maybe dress a little more simple- i think he d love it! Good luck <3
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Tight jeans, skirts, tight shirts are not natrual. Sorry to say. Having the natrual look doesn't mean you don't have to wear any make up. It means having less make up. Just like your narual skin tone colors. Like just a bit of eyeliner and mascara and lip gloss. If you wear eyeshadow, golds and light browns are considered the natrial look. For you style, there is no such natrual look. Dress how ever you want to. Natrual look basiclly is all about the make up. ♥
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Yeah actually, being yourself is NATURAL. if he doesn't like who you are, then he isn't worth it in the first place!
^^ PLEASE let me know if I helped or not!
**hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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