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Okay I'm 13/f and I have liked this one guy scince last year. Me and my one friend talked to him about it. He said that I'm prude and weird to my friend and when I asked him about it he said that He loves me and never would say that. Then he asked if I could give him a hand Job. At first I said sure but I didn't really feel like doing it becuase I was neruves. After that he asked my friend if I would let him eat me out and let him finger me. Then my friend asked me if I would and I said I dunno and she told him IDK[I odn't know] and then he asked if I would give him head[blow job]. I wanna do this stuff to him. Like I've fingured my self before and like I want him to do it. I'm just kinda worried. Would he like it shaved. Would he like me after. Should I do it?
13/f
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I am sorry for what I am about to ssay but hello you are 13 who would lose thier virginity at 13 you are too young your body is not ready.
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Definetly shave. And let him finger you, but just let it happen. Just tell him that he can if he wants to, and when you hang out..It will just happen naturally. Start out by fingering, then when you're ready do the other things. Head and handjobs aren't as scary as you think it may be. It's actually pretty easy and the guy likes it, lol.
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your guy-friend crush thing is using you.
don't do it.
you'll regret it so much later
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im 13 also.
BE CARFUL.
i gave someone a hand job.
and he totally took advantage.
i almost had sex.
but i was smart enough to stop it.
so just be carful.
and shave ew.
and they dont like you ever after.
my guy i was like.
no your going to leave me.
and hes like no i wont.
and im like..
no.
and i left.
i pushed him of.but yeah haha sorry.
but if your guy is really nice,respectful,likes you for you,shows it he most likely wont leave you.
oh and you should do it if your ready.
and if its the right guy.
thats so cute!
lol.
aw.
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i cant believe youre even thinking about doing it. Cant you see thats all he wants you for? Hes gonna use you, thats it hun!! If you wanna make a name for yourself, then go right ahead and be the school slut! If thats all a guy wants a girl for, then he wouldnt be worth my time. A decent guy would never want a girl for his own pleasure at this age! Hes only thinking about himself! He wants to be cool so he can go back to his friends and tell them how easy you are.
If you think by doing that with a guy is gonna make you popular, then by all means do it! It doesnt make you popular, it makes you look naive and slutty!
Youre only 13. Guys at this age just want easy ass! You must have a pretty low self esteem if your even considering letting a guy use you for his own selfishness!
You shouldnt even be thinking about that stuff anyway yet! Your gonna get USED, ABUSED, and spit back out. Then your gonna be crying wondering how he could do that to you. Then hes gonna act like he doesnt even know you after that.
Whats wrong with waiting until high school when your in a committed relationship for a long time.
A guy doesnt care in the least about a girl if all he wants is to do sexual things with her.
Dont say we didnt warn you!
You obviously dont care about your reputation, or wanting a guy to respect you, do you???
Good Luck, i hope you dont make the wrong decision! Its your body and whatever you do, you can never take back!
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ok here is the deal. I am 14. and your 13. HONOSTLY WE ARE TO YOUNG to be doin that kind of stuff in my opinion. just a warning . GUYS WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU if you vonerable(sp) any way if you realy want to go threw with this it up to you BE CARFUL have control over the situasion the hole time and about the save thing yes save. and if he will still like you. from what it sound like i don't think so sry but he is useing you. if you need to talk IM me at SuperGir369. i have an e-mail address of some one you can also talk to if you IM me . hope i helped.
Andie
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You don't sound ready. You're young, don't do something stupid that you'll regret, just enjoy your innocence while it lasts.
If he "loves" you, why aren't you together? If you're comfortable with it, then go for it, but to be perfectly honest, you don't sound ready. Don't rush into these things. Don't do it as a way to try & get him to like you. It never works out & you'll be setting yourself up for heartbreak because chances are, he's not going to like you after-- & really, who would want someone to like them just because they fool around with them? You want him to like you for you, not for what you do to him.
As for the shaving, do what *you're* comfortable with, not what he wants.
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well i was in that same situation and i'm the same age as you so i know how hard it is but i wouldn't do anything with him just yet cause so far from what he said to your friend and from what he said to you their completely different and he may just be using you for his own pleasure. Before you make any more moves towards him find out if he really likes you. Have your friend ask if he really likes you but make sure your near-by when she asks so you can listen to what he says to see if he really does like you or if hes using you. If he says something mean then i'm sorry but you shouldn't do anything with him btu if hes nice and sweet about it and says he does like you then go ahead do what you want to! Go get him if that's the case!
I hope i helped you and good luck
<33 Alishaa
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Your young, so its understandable that you dont understand this yet : THE GUY WILL NOT LIKE YOU AFTER DOING THOSE ACTIVITIES WITH YOU. Just because you hookup and do that stuff (which is major stuff) does not mean he will like you! Sooo sooo many girls make that mistake ..they have sex or go really far with a guy , hoping afterwards he will like her. Sweety im sorry but thats not how it works. The guy wants to do things with you ..and it doesnt sound like it means anything to him at all...all it is ..is pleasure. Dont make the mistake..please listen to what me and everyone else is saying. Save all that stuff for when your a little older and find someone you really care about, trust, can talk to..
-melissa-
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Yuk! No, don't do it! This guy doesn't want you for you, he just wants to get a piece of that. It doesn't matter whether you like him or not. He's using you. You're too young to be doing this stuff anyways. Afterwards, he's not going to like you. And why would you want to be liked by this sleazeball anyway? You'll be labelled as a slut and you'll lose a lot of respect.
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You are doing that for all the wrong reasons. That guy doesn't like you for you. He is using you to get some, and you are letting him! Why wouldn't you believe your friend over him. Obviously they were right. All he does is ask to do stuff to you and you clearly aren't ready. Say no and don't do it unless you feel 100% ready. Don't do it because he thinks you're prude!
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I don't think you should do it because you arent really old enough too yet, you shouldnt have sex or do any of that stuff because like you are supposed to be marry to do that....
~*+*Adriana*+*~
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since you are having questions about "should you do it" then no..you shouldnt. since your having even the slightest doubt, it still shows your just not ready to do that yet.
xoxo helpachick
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