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Sex


Question Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 2:22 pm

how long should someone wait to have have sex(are b.f. and g.f.)

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everykissbeginswithkay answered Sunday December 18 2005, 1:26 pm:
Hey,
Its different for everyone. Whenever you both (as a couple) feel ready to take that step is when something should be done.

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Kristen03 answered Thursday December 1 2005, 8:42 pm:
There's no limit. You have sex when you feel like you're ready, and when you know the person you're doing it with likes you alot. You don't want to end up crushed by him.

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FullMoonLover08 answered Monday November 28 2005, 11:18 pm:
That depends on the relationship. I mean some people dont even have to date or anything. So really if your ready and he or she is ready than it doenst matter at all. anymore help than ask more or im me

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IgIvEnGeTaDvIcEtOo answered Sunday November 27 2005, 8:29 pm:
well it depends how old are you?

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Arkeal answered Sunday November 27 2005, 8:18 pm:
till your both emotionally and mentally ready

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xOchErrytWistOx answered Sunday November 27 2005, 7:58 pm:
Whenever you are emotionally ready. There's no set time to have sex, its just when you are comfortable enough with the person and ready to move into a more serious sexual aspect of the relationship. A person must also be willing to face all the aspects that come with having sex: pregnancy, STDS, etc. Sex can also change a relationship. Do what you feel comfortable with and ready for.
xoxo
ali

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Prettyblonde234 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 7:46 pm:
probly more then 2 months

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XO_LiZ_69_0X answered Sunday November 27 2005, 6:35 pm:
for one, it depends on how mature you are. If you don`t think that you can handle any of the consequences, then DO NOT DO IT !!! if you think that you can, the go for it, but use protection. You should wait until your atleast 16 maybe ? but pretty much ev1 does it b4 then anyhow these days. I don`t know how old you are, so i can`t tell you much more than that ! And make sure that ur almost in love atleast. or wait until you find sum1 you are in love with.

hope i helped..and please make the right choice.

[ ♥ ] Elizabeth

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kailey answered Sunday November 27 2005, 5:26 pm:
There's no set time period. It depends on the ages, maturity level, & beliefs of the two people involved. If you can't have a mature conversation about it-- who will be responsible for birth control, your fears about it & how it may change your relationship, what you'll do if the girl was to get pregnant-- then it's my personal belief that you shouldn't be having sex.

I wouldn't have sex until I was on birth control & could handle a child if I got pregnant, but that's just me.

Please just be safe & don't be pressured into anything you're not 100% comfortable with.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 5:03 pm:
I personally don`t think theres a time limit.. I think its when they feel ready.. And are ready for possible consequences and stuff.. such as pregnancy,STD`s.. ♥ Dez

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malibubarbiie111 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 4:59 pm:
there isn`t like a rule or anything on how long you have to wait. it`s whenever you guys are ready!!* but i personally think it should be a while. to where you know you are sure. because you shouldn`t do it just to do it. ya know?

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funkymunky817 answered Sunday November 27 2005, 4:58 pm:
id say when every the couple are ready and willing to. most gf and bf start discussing sex 6 months into their relationships but really it doesnt matter as long as the two are ready.

~hope i helped
~plez rate

***funkymunky***

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Sunday November 27 2005, 4:41 pm:
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Well its whenever they are mature and over 100% ready.

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xxoBriannax answered Sunday November 27 2005, 4:03 pm:
When they feel ready. You should never have sex with someone if they ask and you say no and they keep asking and asking. You should wait until you know you are ready and know you shouldn't have to ask when someone should have sex.

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naimee answered Sunday November 27 2005, 3:32 pm:
Until the boyfriend & girlfriend are ready. I'm not waiting until I'm married, I'm just waiting for the perfect guy to come along. My boyfriend & I have been dating for a little bit over a month and he says he's ready, but understands I'm not, and he's willing to wait however long he has to. If you aren't ready, then don't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to. Just wait for that perfect guy to come along that'll wait for you. (: I think you should atleast be together 6 months before you start anything sexual. But that's just my personal opinion. (;

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Teza answered Sunday November 27 2005, 3:21 pm:
If you are Catholic or Christian the thing is don't have sex until you are married. Most people don't do that but still. Whenever you are ready to have sex, go for it. Make sure you really want to and that you woudln't have any regrets on it later. Be safe!

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Xxjackieroxxx answered Sunday November 27 2005, 3:21 pm:
Atleast till you think ur going to get married ;0 imo... but i guess 2-5 years

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CutiePieDri answered Sunday November 27 2005, 3:18 pm:
My mom and Dad say never have sex with someone until you are married....(always listen to your parents:D hehe)


~*+*Adriana*+*~

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jbdreamer answered Sunday November 27 2005, 3:15 pm:
Until you are married.

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