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14/f
hey ok well i have a sort of huge friendship problem. see i have these two most awesome friends in the world (well more than two but these two are part of the problem here) we will call them x(guy) and z(girl). well x and z and me were really good friends before and me and z have been friends since like we were 5. we met x this summer and he's really great, like i can tell him anything. he doesnt live here, so we don't get to see him all the time but he lives close. well then z and x went out for like a month. i was happy for them but z kept thinking i liked x. and i don't. and i told her that so now its ok. but then they broke up. so now i have to see him w/o her there, cuz it would be weird for them. well to make a long story short i wanna get together with x to like see a movie or something just to see him again. but 1. i dont want z to think of it as a date or to be mad at me 2. i dont want x for some reason to think of it as something different. see we used to get together but there was more of us then, but this time it would just be 2 of us. what should i do to not make it look like a date or crush or anything to anyone???
thanx for reading this it was long! i'll rate for anything that helps!
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well i think that you should explain to z that me and x are gonna go hang out just as friends as i really dont want you to think its anything more. just explain it and if she gets upset, she'll get over it soon. because you cant just forget about your friendship with z. i know its hard to be stuck in the middle, its happen to me a lot. so i hoped i helped some. good luck!!
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if you told 'z' how you felt then she should understand that there's nothing there except friendship. As for 'x' when you ask him to hang out, make sure he knows that it's not a date or anything, it's just to hang out...if you tell him straight up, then there shouldn't be a problem with him, but make sure you tell 'z' before hand and make sure she understands
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invite another guy 2 or something or someone els or tell her inadvace so see has a chance to understand but say don't take this wrong or anything first before you tell her. hope i helped.
Andie
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Dear 14/F,
You are in something u don't really want to be in so, you want to get out right? Well try making them get back together, if you don't like it then make them really good friends!
Signed,
Chantsy
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