Ok well i like this kid a year older than me A LOT the problem is he has a gf well one weekend he begged me to come over but i couldnt now he wants me over this weekend well I know his gf and im not a slut so the best choice is to stay home right ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Thursday December 8 2005, 9:09 pm: Well it depends. Does he want you over just to hang out with you as a friend? Or does he think something else is going to happen? I say just hang out with him and if he wants something else to happen, you can always just tell him no and leave. And ask him if his girlfriend knows about this. She should know that you two are hanging out so she doesn't get the wrong idea. Better yet, maybe have her hang out with you two so then you and him can hang out also, but if he thought something was going to happen it can't now because she's there. It's your decision -- if you really feel you have to stay at home, then stay at home. I hope I helped.
CoCorina answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 10:56 pm: well not really. because you dont know if he wants to fuck, or just chill. cause its not the weekend yet. if you go and he just wants to fuck then tell him no. and if he keeps trying. leave.
thats what i would do.
hotrod answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 8:06 pm: i honestly think the best thing you can do is go... just take a friend or two with you. for witnesses that nothing happened. and then while they talk you and him can go alone and talk about his gf. adn tell him that you like him. not too bluntly tho. if he is wanting ou to come over to his house im sure he likes you back. so try it. [ hotrod's advice column | Ask hotrod A Question ]
brokenagain answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 8:05 pm: There is nothing wrong with having guy friends and hanging out with them-but his g/f should know that your there and he shouldnot hide it from her or even try to be with you--if you feel this is why he is asking you to come over then yes i would stay home-the decision is yours nly you know the reason he wants you there and also keep in mind that if you do go over there rumors could start that didnt even happen and you will look bad. there is a lot to consider here good luck [ brokenagain's advice column | Ask brokenagain A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 7:42 pm: Not really. As long as you know you wouldn't do anything wrong even if under pressure. You have to respect his girlfriend. But, there's no problem with hanging out with him as long as your very careful. If somehow he expresses feelings for you, then you need to tell him to do things the right way and break it off with his girlfriend first. But anyway, that might not even be the case, so don't worry yourself. And if he did try to do something to you, you would know he's not a very respectable guy if he tries to cheat on his gf. Anyway your fine. Go for it, and enjoy, just know your limits. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
Kristen03 answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 7:20 pm: Going to a boy's house doesn't mean you have to do anything with him. My bestfriend's ex-boyfriend of 9 months came to my house one time, and she wasn't mad at all. Chances are she MAY get jealous, but if you want to go then go. People shouldn't get mad if nothing happens. If this girl is your friend, then you might not want to go over there. It depends on how well you know the girl. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
Looking4princecharming answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 7:02 pm: Not exactly. Just because you go to a guys house and he has a gf and everything doesn't mean that your a slut. It just means that your really good friends. Plus if you do like this guy a lot well umm its your decision and if you feel like a slut going to his house well then don't go. Just tell me how it goes.
askforanswersfromAndie answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 6:59 pm: honosty wise yes you should stay home but i mean you can always just go over to hange out and stuff like i have guy friends that i hang out with and stuff but also it depends on what you want to do if you think it will get "to far" dependon on were that is for you don't go and like hang out at school or what ever or with him and other people . hope i helped
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