about

Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

ok, i'm not ugly, but i'm not exactly beautiful. does anyone know if there's a way to make me look and FEEL prettier? and by "pretty" i dont mean "slutty"

Well to make your self feel better about yourself get your nails done,get highlights,and go SHOPPING!=D just do little stuff that makes u feel better.

♥ashley♥

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Are diet pills safe for me to take if I am only 16 years old? And is their quick results? Thanks!

Well some aren't that safe.Any diet pills that have effedrin are not safe.Talk to your doctor about it.

♥ashley♥

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I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I am fat but im a good friend. Im also trying to lose weight. I have only had two boyfriends in my life, one in second grade, and my last boyfriend lived in Virginia (I live in Missouri) and he didn't know what I looked like. I think im desent looking aside from my weight. I don't have really that many guy friends eaither. I was hoping someone could give me tips on how to get a guy.

~*~Britt~*~

I'm overweight too, but i've never had a problem getting guy friends or whatever.I'm just laid back and I like to laugh and joke around, and people like me for that.Just be yourself, to the best that you can be.Show guys theres more to u than meet sthe eye:-)

♥ashley♥

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last night i called a guy that i have known for about a year he moved this summer and i havn't really talked to him that much. well we were on three way with my friend kate and him. he asked me if i still had feeling for him. what does that mean? like is he interested in me or what?

i have two questions.

my friend kate told me that she liked this guy on the phone can't say his name. i also like him and i told her and now i asked him if he would ever go out with her and he said idk maybe. so last night she said i'll ask him if he likes you and if he says yes then i'll hook yall up, but if he says no then try and hook me and him up. and i don't want to hook her up with him. i have known him longer and he was my first love. so what do i do?

Tell her that you like him, and don't want to hook her up with him.You knew him longer, so u got first dibs=D

♥ashley♥

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My school is doing Aresnic and Old Lace, and I am playing Elaine. We will be doing some "stage-kissing" and I don't know what they mean by that. Could someone explain this technique?

You will probably put your head in a position where it will look like you are really kissing, but your not.

♥ashley♥

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what is an accelerator?

It's the pedal in a car that makes the car move.=D

♥ashley♥

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Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child?

Tell her about all the harm it will do to her baby.Drinking is terrible to begin with, but when you do it while pregnant there is so many things bad that can happen.

♥ashley♥

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i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now.but today was weird cause i got something on my shirt and he wanted me to take it off. and then he put his hand almost all the way up my shirt. what does this mean?! he did that so i pulled on his boxes and i think he liked it. this is definitely flirting i know it!

It means he likes u!Sexual attraction!=)

♥ashley♥

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a couple weeks ago my parents went out of town and me and my sister had the house to ourselve. so we invited some people over. this guy came over and we endin up having sex but he has a gf. i think im startin to like him. what do i do? and do you think his gf should know?

NO that just causes hell.Get over him.he's a loser if he cheated on his girlfriend.

♥ashley♥

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my sister likes a guy and she doesn't know what to say to him. she talks about him constantly. and she never sees him anymore. should i tell her to move on and break her heart, or should i let her go on about him even though it bores me?

I don't think you should tell her to move on if you think it'll hurt her.You're her sister;you're supposed to put up with their annoyingness:-P

♥ashley♥

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I asked this guy out. He said no cuz he can't date till he's 16. So, is there a chance that he likes me, but just can't date. Or is it one of those lines? He flirts with me, and a few people think he likes me, and his sister told me she thinks he does.

Yeah,there is a good chance he likes you.Just see where things go, but find another guy in case it doesn't turn out the way u'd like

♥ashley♥

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HELP! Please! I have a problem...see, I don't get out of the house much. Well let's just say AT ALL! Ever! I have dropped out of school awhile ago, and no job but my mother supports me. I have no friends at all. I try to communicate with them but nobody ever seems to want to hang out with me. And I don't think it's because I've dropped out...I did it a LONG time ago and this is just starting to happen. I never get asked out on a date, and my friends never talk to me. I've basically just become a bum and all I do all day is sit around home on the computer watching tv. I hate it. I know it wont be like this for the rest of my life but can somebody please tell me if this is semi-normal?! I want to know that I'm not a freak of nature.

Our town is really small, and I don't get along with too many of them so socializing is really hard for me. What can I do to make myself feel better about this? Any tips on not being so shy also? Thanks so much!

I think you need to go back to school.You gotta understand without an education you're life isn't going to get any better than that.But you dont have to actually go back into the school building, u can get homeschooled or go to night school=)
♥ashley♥

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See, ive liked this girl for a long time now, but i never got the urge to ask her out yet because i never get to see her much. just recently, i figured out she likes this other guy and shes probably the only girl ive ever liked in a while. yeah, sounds corny and sry for the longness, so now what should i do? it seems that i have nothing else to live for in this life and that im just wasitng space and air and food

Tell her!=)
♥ashley♥

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Do any of you guys know a good picture site? Like where you can store your pictures and then show you'r friends? I already used picturetrail but now it wants be to go to preniem and i dont want to. So please help me find a good picture site! Thankyou!

Fotki.com =)

♥ashley♥

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What do you get a guy thats like obsessed with dirtbikes for valentines day? were going out but im shy around him and i dont think hes getting me anything but i want to get him something, so help please. nothing too cheesy.

Get him some stuff that has pictures of dirtbikes on it, or some xgames stuff.

♥ashley♥

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Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help.

Well, I think if you can handle a long distance relationship go for it!But if you need to be in a relationship where you can be with the person in a physical sense and talking on the phone isn't enough, then you should dump him.

♥ ashley

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I m doing a report on wicca for school, see i know a little about it but i m looking for the history, spells, you know stuff like that. if you know anything or some sites i can go to id really appriciate it.
~sara~

You can go to a book store, like borders books to find books on wicca.Or go to google.com and search Information on Wicca.

&heart;ashley&heart;

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I loathe myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance...My
hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc...I
hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. I think of my self
as stupid, incompetent and worthless. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I
suck at every thing I do. Seeking professional help is not an option for me, and
neither is getting help from a trusted adult. Even if either were an option, I’m
much, much, much to timid to ask for help...I don't think I even deserve to have
people waste there time on me to help me anyway.

Awww don't think that way!You really should go see a counselor, just so you can talk and she can help you focus on your positives more.You are a great girl who deserves the same as everyone else,no ones perfect,but if you search you'll find positive things to love about yourself.

x0x0ashley

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well, i'm into the whole punk-rock scean. the real stuff (anti-flag, bouncing souls ect.) but anyway my friends aren't they think they are so cool because they listen to Jessica Simpson. So i've kinda grown away from my chick friends and started hanging out with guys but i need some chick friends around to help with the boy troubles and what not. But i can't have a conversation with them without them either getting mad at me or judging me. it really pisses me off.

Well, find other girls who have the same interests as you.I'm sure you're not the only girl interested in punk-rock.People grow apart.

x0x0ashley

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This site sucks. The moderators do a crappy job of filtering stupid questions, people reply with asshole answers with no reprecussions, and most of these people give crappy advice. Why cant the mods or anyone make this site worth comming to? Why do most of your guys's answers suck, and why do some of you have to be assholes?

Well I hope you're not talking about me, because i always try to give the best advice I can:-/.no one does that on person i dont think,they just dont know how to give good advice.Just find advice columns you like and just ask them:-)

x0x0 ashley

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