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I don't really do that well on tests and I try an study an hour the night before tests. What are some things to help me score higher on tests?

Make sure that you pay attention in class and do all your homework. You might need to study more than just an hour the night before the test

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I have a boyfriend who I love sooo very much!! I wouldnt do anything to hurt him! I have a few good guy friends who I ONLY talk to on the internet because my bf doesnt like me hanging out with them. Well, one of my friends asked me to go to a party with him tonight or we could go to the mall another night. I'm not sure I should because I think my boyfriend would be mad! What should I do? And if I shouldnt hang out with him, how do I say no without saying my boyfriend wouldnt want me to. He always says "F*** your stupid boyfriend" :-/ Thanks for the advice!!

Your boyfriend is being to controling. You should be able to hang around with anyone you want. If your boyfriend gets mad then you know hes not the right one for you.

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Get some john frieda frizz-ease creme. It works well. You could also try putting mayonaise in your hair, thats suppose to work.

If you put mayo in ur hair do u wash it out also liek when ur showering or like actually put it in their after ur done showering because then i think ur hair might smell lol because i need ot find somthing for my friend but i was just wondering about the whole mayo thing?

Heres what ive heard, you put the mayo in your hair then like put a towel on it and leave it in for a while then wash it out in the shower. Don't leave it in, lol! It probably would smell =P

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i have this one friend who is so annoying and makes weird noises all the time and she gets on everyone's nerves. i've tried talking to her and she said she would stop but she hasn't yet. what should i do?

-Annoyed-

Maybe get everyone to tell her how annoying she is? If she keeps it up maybe its time to move on without her =\

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How much should a normal teenager weigh and how tall because I know my friend eats n all I see her eating but doesnt gain weight n her parents say theirs something wrong w her but shes onli 14 n I dont think their is she eats normally n eats n doesnt strave herself but neways how tall n how much is she suppose to weigh for a 14 yr old girl? Most 14 yr olds I guess?

You cant say how tall she should be. It varies ALOT from person to person. I would have to know her height and weight to say if she was underweight. If shes eating healthy and not gaining weight it shouldnt be a problem

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How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready?

a month? NO! DONT DO IT! you are not ready, please dont do it! 1 month is not enough time. you should wait for a long relationship, one that you are ready to give up something that important too. I think you should wait tell your married or at least can support a child (things happen you know)

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i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is

You can think what you want. Just dont be rude to people with your opinion, that is not OK.

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I know this person who has really annoying habits on the internet. There are no periods, so it takes forever to try to understand her, and she uses numbers in the middle of words(c u l8er, g2g, etc) . It wouldn't really bother me too much except she goes on forever, and she can't spell. She also capitalizes random words and uses ... or ! after every other word. What can I do to tell her that is annoying me? She is one of my closest friends, but it is driving me crazy!

Tell her you cant understand her and ask her if she could say things more clearly. Or you could just tell her that chatspeak is really annoying.

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okay first of all i dont think im fat at all and i like the way my body looks. however im very health conscious and eat healthy food most of the time. i count calories too. if i didnt eat the daily number calories i think is efficient ill go eat until its exactly the number i want it to be, because i don't want to become too thin. i think about food a lot. i never thought i was fat and i know im not and i love my body. im a cheerleader (a flyer) so i try to remain small. oh yeah and i love cooking and food overall, mostly healthy food. i mean ill choose a grilled chicken sandwich over a big mac you know? could this possibly be anorexia?

No this is not anorexia. If you were anorexic you would be obbsessed with your weight and think you were fat. Eating healthy isnt anorexia! Its good that you have a healthy diet. I would DEFINATLY take a chicken sandwich over a big mac! I hat fatty food and eat healthy but that doesnt make me anorexic. Good job for eating healthy =)

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i have really frizzy hair and i hate it. im going to flordia in 4 days and i was wodering if there was anything u could buy at walmart or something to keep from getting frizzy while im there?

Get some john frieda frizz-ease creme. It works well. You could also try putting mayonaise in your hair, thats suppose to work.

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my love life right now sucks! i cant get ne guy 2 look at me all i want is a really good looking guy to like me for me!
love iLuv2Shop

Let me get this straight, you want a "Good Looking guy" to like you for you. Maybe try liking the guy for who he is instead of just look for a guy whos good looking.

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Only this year..me n my mom have argued soo much. And she started the arguements not me. How do i tell her i dont want to argue nemore without bein a butthole about it?

Just dont argue! Even if she is saying stupid things just agree with her and tell her that your to tired to talk about it.

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im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser?

No, your just not one of those people who start dating way to young. cheers to you.

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im 12 and my parents wont let me go out with guys yet cuz im supposedly too young, but i go out with them secretly and now more guys are starting to ask me out, but they want to actually take me somewhere like dinner or a movie and stuff, but my parents wont let me go anywhere unless they kno my "friends" parents!!!!!!

12 is a little young to start dating. Try just going places as friends. You should stop doing things behind your parents' back. If they say no then you should obey there wishes.

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how do you get a scholarship? Like does the college just give it to you or wut?

To get a scholarship you have to apply. There are many different scholarship oppertunities so find the one for your abbilities.

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HeY ! well im 14 and i weigh 86pOunDz or sumfin liek that .. buh i know its around 80 is that good enuff? im scared that if its not .. then something mite happen . buh u know i eat ALOT !! i just dont gain weight .. and im reeely skinny ;) hehe .. soo yehhh heLp?

xOxox maya xOXx

It all depends on your height, age has nothing to do with it. If you eat alot of food and dont gain weight ( unless you have a medical problem preventing you from gaining weight) then i would say you are fine. Just make sure you are eating a healthy diet.

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muh dad manages the money around the house... my mom used to... my dad i think hez saving ^ 4 sumthin he wantz cuz he does stuff like that. ive told my mom already she thinks the same thing. shez not gunna do anything soon cuz i dont think she wants to handle the money n pay the bills cuz itz to tiring for her. im not getting the stuff i need like new clothes, shoes etc. n even food were like ruffing it on food. this week we went over like a dollar for our money cuz we only have a certain amount according to my dad. wut do i do to solve this? itz oviously a big problem. he acts like the money my mom n he makes is all his n he desides if he wants to give her money to go shopping or sumthing. hope u guys understand n u can help me.

If you arent getting enough food them it could probably count as abuse. Your dad is not providing enough money for your mother and you. Your mom really needs to regain control of the money. Make sure your dad isnt spending it on gambling.

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What does Imao mean? I know what idk means but what does this mean? I try to answer questions but these abrevations get in the way of me understanding sometimes. Could someone tell me? Thanks in advance!
advice~gurl

i assume you meen Lmao. lmao meens laughing my a$$ off =)

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My horse started limping yesterday and I dont know whats wrong with her. She is 23 years old but acts like a young horse. I cant afford to take her to the vet because Im only 13 and I already babysit to get her food. i even got her for free! I would really like to know what is wrong with her.

Check her foot for rocks or other debris. If your horse has been eating alot of grass lately she may have foundered. Foundering is when the pad of the foot becomes to soft.

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I am deaf but i can hear litle and i can talk i have good speech but my voice make me sound like little kid. I want know how to writ songs and how you end it and how come up with ideas of makeing songs any tips

Maybe you could try an instrament? If you want to sing/ write songs you have to know how to read music. I would suggest studying some music and learning basic notes.

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