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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.




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does anyone have any good waitressing advice on what to do to make good tips? thanks so much

I just started waitressing and I found that you make good tips by being as polite and nice as you possibly could be. Keep going back to the table to make sure everything is alright & that they don't need anything, or if they do get it right away. Keeping the customers happy, pays off when they pay ;) Also, joking around with them or answering any questions about the food [whats good, hows it cooked, etc] also makes the tips higher. Remembering faces helps too. If you have regulars that you learn order the same drink and/or food everytime, suprise them with how much you remember & say something like if i'm correct you wanted the ____ right? They'll be pleased to know you can remember them. ♥

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i want to make s cd of songs for my boyfriend. he's 20. he likes ALL types of music as far as I know. Except maybe like scremo, oldies, blues and etc.

i dont want them to be all cute little love songs but id like some in there :)

so we meet at work, he was nervous but he asked me out. we had a good time together. started dating a bit after a couple dates. its only been a month since we've been together. yes we have said i love you. he will be leaving to california for college in september.

^all that i just listed^ because this song
"theres nothing" by sean kingston is one that will be on my cd i give him. and also bc u can have a little idea of songs that might have something to say or do with our relationship.

thanks again everyone!

With You - Chris Brown
Home - Daughtry
Don't Forget About Us - Mariah Carey
I Miss You - Aaliyah [good one for away at college]
Settle Down - Cartel
You Found Me - Kelly Clarkson

Those are pretty good =] Hope they helped. ♥

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16/f

im in love with my bestfriends of 4 years. i would really like some songs about being in love with him without him knowing

something kind of like Teardrops on my guitar by taylor swift and crush by mandy moore

please help me... thank you

It depends on the type of music you like.
But here are some!

With You - Chris Brown
Best Friend - 50 Cent
So Into You - Fabulous
I Want You - Pretty Ricky
Iris - Goo Goo Dolls
Lovers & Friends - Lil Jon
Put It On Me - Ja Rule
Shawty - Plies
You Found Me - Kelly Clarkson
Bleeding Love - Leona Lewis

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15/f

so i started shaving my arms cos they had so much hair on it , it looked gross. but now im getting tired of it and it looks really weird as well. so i thought maybe i can let the hair grow out and bleach it. is that a good idea? and would it harm my skin?

Bleaching the hair isn't necessary. I have dark thick arm hair also, but I just buy blonde hair dye & use that! It works JUST as well and it doesn't burn like bleach would. The only bad thing about shaving your arms, is that while your letting it grow, it's going to be darker, thicker, and it's going to be all prickly growing back until it's fully grown in. If you buy the blonde hair dye, when they get long enough to see, go ahead and do it. Just save the rest of the dye & use it whenever it starts to show dark again! ♥

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ive been on yaz for over 2 years now.. and i was put on antibiotics 2 days ago.. my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex yesterday, what are the chances of me being pregnant?

Well, if you've been on YAZ for over two years, your body is probably really use to it. Suprisingly, because everyone I know, including myself has had problems with YAZ. But, birth control no matter what kind is only 99% effective. I know plenty of people who have gotten pregnant on birth control. If he busted inside of you, then I'd wait & take a test because that is the only way you will know. But there could be a chance but a slim one at that. Also, if you just started the anti-biotics, then you're okay. I know that before they put you on anti-biotics they do make sure your not pregnant because certain ones can cause birth defects. But they make some especially for pregnant women. ♥

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I live in texas
about 8-10 mins. from the water.
Its Hot and Humid over here. The problem
with my hair is not that it frizzes but it flips.
Like my hair will be perfectly straight but as soon
as i get outside it flips. This only happens in the morning though. and the problem with that
is that i ride the bus. So is there anything that will keep my hair straight?

I live in Virginia, so I know EXACTLY what you're talking about! I hated walking to the bus, because my perfectly straight hair would go POOF as soon as I made it halfway out the door. Even though it's hot, I always wore a zip up hoodie & put the hood up until I got on the bus. It kept my hair perfectly straight & I just took it off on the bus. I've tried a lot of straightening creams & different straighteners & that wasn't the problem. It's just our hair types =/ Sorry love. ♥

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okay well its summer and i really want a bellybutton ring because i think it looks cute. i was just wondering does it hurt? what does it feel like? i have my ear cartiledge done and my earlobes done and i was wondering does it hurt more or less? thank you so much

- Scared

I got my belly button pierced in 6th grade & I was so nervous. But it didn't hurt me AT ALL. They clamp your stomach and it's just cold but I didn't even know she was done haha. ♥

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well i really want to start doing some cool things with my hair. i basically always just have it down and straightened which gets boring but im terrible at hair. this summer im determined to get better at hair though. so anyway what im hoping for is some easy but super cool and hott things to try with my hair. like hairstyles and ways of putting it up and stuff. i have thin hair thats to my chest. i have side bangs as well. thank you SO MUCH and i need as many things to try as possible. some i would really like to be unique and orginal because i want to do something different but something that looks really good and pretty. something that stands out a little but in a really good way. thank you again!!!!!! :)

Well for summertime, I've found that the easiest thing I can do to my hair is when I get out of the shower, I towel dry it so it's not soaking wet, and I put some curl gel in it & hairspray and leave it curly. Then I straighten my side bangs.

OR


I normally just throw mine up in a messy bun after I straighten it and leave my side bangs down.

:] ♥

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15/f

So I'm not really overweight but I concider myself to be "BIG" I weigh 155 and I'm 4"11" ugh its so hardd to stick to a weight plan because all I do is eat I eat when I'm depressed/angry/sad/bored its awful and lazy I know ! I just want to loose weight but I want to be able to stick to a weight plan something that will help me focuse on loosing weight ...any suggestions?

It's summertime, so places that are close to you that you would normally get a ride to, walk. Jogging helps a lot TRUST ME! Even if you just jog up and down the street a couple times a day! Also, I'm the same way with food. I just love eating I can't help it ;) But now I am getting bigger, and I started cutting what I normally ate, in half. In the morning, if I ate cereal, I wouldn't pour as much in the bowl. Lunchtime, if I made a sandwhich I'd cut it in half and only eat half. Things like that can really lose weight & it also makes you a lot healthier! Good luck girl! ♥

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16 f

I have stretch marks on my stomach and on my arms and on the back of my leggs the reason is because I once use to be overweight...its really uncomfortable to wear tank tops or skirts/ shorts because my stretch marks are noticible =/ does anyone know of any cream to remove stretch marks? Any home remedes? Sorry if I spelled the word wrong

I've heard from a lot of people that cocoa butter lotion works pretty good! Other than that, all I know is that there are creams in walmart or drug stores especially for stretch marks. Try some & see if they help! Good luck in getting rid of them, I know it's hard to get rid of them =/ ♥

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I'm having trouble eating beef. I need to eat more meat, but I really don't like the way it tastes.

What are some ways I can make this easier? Like certain dishes where you can't take the meat that much?

For instance, I don't like eating roast beef or steak because it's simply just meat all by itself. I want to cover it up with flavor or sauce, like a stir fry or something, but what other dishes are there?

Try hamburger helper, but when you make it just use a half pound of hamburger instead of the full pound it calls for. You can barely taste the meat for all the cheese & noodles! There is a bunch of different kinds too. Or, lasagna. There isn't a lot of meat in it & it's good :] Spaghetti with just a little hamburger & no meatballs! ♥

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this may be a dumb Q but... When a girl does it for the first time she bleeds. right? but when, right after, later, how does that work...if Ima do it...should i bring a pad???


sorry if its a dumb q.

Well, all girls are different. Some girls will bleed & some won't. The bleeding comes from when the guy "pops your cherry" so to speak. Some girls can't do it for long because it hurts their first time, so if that is the case when you do it, you probably won't bleed. When I did it for the first time, I waited like a hour before I went to the bathroom and I noticed it got in my underwear a little bit but not bad at all! Good luck ♥

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hi ive been shaving my arms and i stopped now because i dont feel comfortble due to rashes on my arms. ive tried everything from creams to waxing to shaving and even threadingg!!! there was one similarity beetween all those..my hair grew back spikey!! is there any way to prevent this..please hellp!!!
thxx

Actually, the nair lotion doesn't work. I've tried it before on arms & legs and it just doesn't work. But all hair will grow back thicker & darker & it will feel spikey as it's growing back. The only thing you can do is just let it grow out. If you really don't want it there, all I can say is keep waxing & just make sure you put on moisturizer afterwards. It'll help stop the rash! ♥

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16/f
my bf (let's call him A) and i broke up a few weeks ago. i knew he had been losing interest for awhile but i didn't know it would be this bad. we were very best friends when we were together and went out for a year and a half. the breakup came out of nowhere.
the past week or so he's been a real jerk to me. he keeps bringing other girls up. i've had such a hard time dealing with this and he's not being considerate of my feelings. he used to care so much about me, about a year ago. i really did love him back then. i still do. but over the past year he's changed. things started going downhill a few months ago. i wish i had the old A back- the one that would care about me, even if it's only as a friend. he's not interested in talking or seeing me at all, i can tell. it really hurts me.
i still care about him, very much so as a friend, but he's bringing up these other girls on purpose i think. it hurts so much. i wish he would still care about me as a friend, so we could see each other and still do fun things and be best friends. i just don't see how he went from my best friend/boyfriend to nothing so quickly. he really does want nothing to do with me.
i'm trying to figure out what i'm asking of all of you. maybe just some advice on how to deal with him being a jerk and how to deal with my own life? i know i can't change his interest level in me but he's being a jerk and i'm not going to let him take advantage of my feelings like that.
thanks.

Well, there can be a number of reasons for his behavior. One, he could be bringing other girls up in front of you to see how you react & see if you get upset because to a guy that means you still care about them. Two, sometimes when people are together for so long, they start to get sick of eachother. I've been there. Ya'll could have just spent too much time together & he's just wanting to take a break. If I was you, just go on about it like it doesn't bother you. Show him how it feels to not care. He probably still loves you but he just needed a break from you. Let him go out and try to meet new girls. He'll realize that they probably could never be right for him considering he's known you a whole year & probably knows a lot about you :] ♥

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In my old school i liked a teacher.Is that normal?

Normal as can be =] I, as a girl, have had a few teachers that I thought were sexy lol. But when you feel open & close with a person it's normal to develope feelings for them or even a simple crush ;) ♥

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what do i do? i feel so alone and i'm doing stupid things. i feel like i have no friends. and that everyone hates me. i'm so insecure and i relly hate life right now. i hate being me. i hate who i am, and who i have been.

=/

Everyone goes through this in their life at some point. Sometimes, when you're dealing with these kinds of problems, it's best to figure out what it is thats making you unhappy. If you feel like you have no friends, go meet new people & befriend them! Don't ever hate being you, because everyone is unique in their own way & I'm sure you're a great person that's just going through a hard time right now. I've been this way & I learned that I shouldn't beat myself up inside when half the things I was thinking, wasn't even true. It can take time for you to feel comfortable with yourself, but when you do, it's the greatest feeling in the world. Just remember, even if you don't have a friend in the world you can count on, you'll always have yourself & you should always be happy with who you are! :] ♥

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18 years old.

I usually go on a date with someone "new" about once every two weeks. A few of the people I go on a date with really have a lot in common with me. But there's a good number of people that I just don't hit it off with, and when that happens, I get really depressed. I don't know why.

This guy on myspace added me and we talked online for a long time and finally went on an actual date today. We didn't hit it off like we thought we would, and since it ended, I've felt really bad. Like I didn't measure up to what he expected. I always feel like this after a date that doesn't go smoothly. I never feel like I'm good enough. :(

Is this normal and what do I do?

Aw! Do NOT say that because I'm sure you're a wonderful girl. Sometimes, meeting new people is a good thing. You can get to know a variety of people. Also, not everyone has chemistry. Sometimes it takes a while to meet someone that you just click with. No one is perfect for everyone else. Just keep looking & going on dates. Trust me, you'll find the right person where the feelings are mutual and you'll know their the one. Good luck! ♥

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17/M

name: aaron
favorite music: new wave, electronic, stuff like that
i like playing soccer, skateboarding.

any ideas?

SO ELECTRICCCC
SK8orDIE17
SOCKemSOCCER
SK8BOARDdude

Eh, I hope this gives you somewhat good ideas!
♥

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ok, so where should i start? i kinda met this guy through one of my friends. we had texted a lot and he calls me every night (this has been going on for about two weeks). we have been on a few dates and everytime he presses me to go farther and farther.
the guy is 4 years older than me. i'm in highschool and he's starting college. he lives about 30 mins away and its kinda difficult to see each other. also, he kinda has a gf, but tells me that he never gets to see her...
sometimes he calls me his private stripper. so far i haven't done anything with him, but he keeps on pressuring me to do something with him. i'm a virgin and want to save myself, but its so hard because he always sweet talks me and i'm kinda a sucker for that! lol
is he using me???

Yes ma'am. It sounds like you have a player. He's older and you're younger which makes him think you'll be vulnerable to him. But don't do it. After he gets some, I guarentee you'll never hear from him again. Typical guys. ♥

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my bf is 16 and his penis is bent over to the right hes really insecure about it is this normal?

Actually, this is normal. A lot of guys have "curved" penis' and supposively it's suppose to be a good thing because it enhances your sex life. lol. ♥

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