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Hi i cant remember what the movie is called its about these teenagers who are getting ready to go to prom and one car of teenagers are drinking and the other isn't and somehow they end up getting into a car accident one girl died and the other in critical condition, and when they go to court the mother of the dead girl says for his sentencing to be to write checks to the girl he killed each week and on the memo he would put her name that way each week he would have to remember what he did. What is that movie called? Thanks a bunch!

is it that Susie Q? i could be wrong and i think i am.. but was it like in the older times sort of? and the girl who died had on a really pretty pink dress? if it was than i'm pretty sure it is.. hope i'm right! lol ♥ http://imdb.com/title/tt0117794/plotsummary if that's not it, you can type whatever you know about the movie into the search bar on that website i just gave you and hopefully it will come up- that site has EVERYTHINGGGG=) good luck!!

do girls fart?
or anything else among those lines?

uh-huh =) lol we're people toooooo and we also have bodily functions just like guys do =) girls just don't usually fart noticeably because it's 'un-ladylike' or 'not cute' or 'gross' but thats just a stereotype =)

i have to find the whole number ratio of
0.04 g-atoms of iron to 0.034375 g-atoms of copper. can someone help me i have no idea how to do this. thank you

i would just multiply them both by 1,000,000 because that gets you to a whole number, and you needed a WHOLE NUMBER ratio. so i did .04 × 1,000,000 and .034375 × 1,000,000 and got 4000 and 34,375. which makes your whole number ratio 4,000:34,375 =)

ok so today me and my boyfriend went to his house and we started doing stuff. he started fingering me and it was kind of hurting, he was fingering far up. after he was done he had blood on his hand and when i got home there was bright red blood in my underwear and i was really embarrassed. Did he pop my cherry or what was it? Am i just starting my period?

he probably just popped your cherry.. either that, or you got your period.. but period blood isn't usually bright red- its darker.. anyway, he probably just popped you, or he scratched you.. if the bleeding doesn't stop in a few days, then you should tlel someone.. but you don't need to see a doctor just yet.. people bleed from getting fingered quite commonly. =) don't worry about a thing [♥]

I havn't started my period.But the thing is i saw a small mark in my undies(like a pen dot).I get wedgies ALL the time so I cant tell if it is blood or poop.I want to know what it looks like.And when I saw the mark and stuff, I havnt changed moods,I havnt had back pains, no stomach pains and no spots and no discoloured discharge.so I dont know.What does it look like, do you feel it more than discharge.Tell me everything THERE IS TO KNOW!

13/F

when you start to get heavy heavy discharge and stomach pains and possibly even mood swings, that when you should begin to expect it. and yes, you will feel it more than discharge =] it will feel really like, wet and yucky. when you get it you should soak your underwear in ccoooolllddd water. and when you get it, it won't show up like a pen dot.. it will probably be bigger.. if you go to the bathroom and see some reddish brown stuff on the paper, that's another sign. good luck, and don't be worried! [♥]

what is vanity?? i was going to join this club called vanity kills coz it sounded cool but whats it mean and is it a good thing to like or join?

the definition it just what "younggrandma" said, btu i think it would be good to join- because it sounds like a club against vanity, since its called "vanity kills" so it's probably against being concieted =)

hey. okay, i miss my boyfriend, but we just got be being like brother and sister. he's going out with another girl, but i cant seem to get over him. it's only been a month since we broke up, and he's all i think about. i keep hinting to him that i still like him alot, but he has a girlfriend. what should i do?!

well hun there's not much you can do if he has another girlfriend, because you don't want to seem like a psycho ex-girlfriend by trying to ruin their relationship.. just get him alone, and talk to him about it. tell him that you're still having feelings and you just don't know what to do. if you're like brother and sister, he should be understanding about it and be willing to talk. who knows- he may still have feelings for you too and maybe hes just going out with that other girl to try to get over you- you'll never know until you ask =) good luck hun!! let me know how everything goes and ask me if you need anything elsee ♥

ps** sorry it took me so long to answer, i had lots of inboxes and softball just started so i haven't had much time.. sorrry again!! [ ♥ ]

I'm 15 female and i'm 130 pounds. if you put my hand under my boob it reaches right to my hip a little bit past. so im all legs, is this a bad weight? because when i sit i get like three rolls on my tummy and its getting bigger and bigger..any way to help me lose weight and not spend money nor make my asthma get worse?

well i can't really tell you if you're 'fat' by just knowing your age and wait.. how tall are you? go to www.toneteen.com and type in your age and weight in their body mass index chart thing and it will tell you there =] sorry i could be more of a help, if you ask the question again and include your height, i can help you for sure!! =] ♥

I really love the advice you give and I was just wondering if you have any advice for lower ab exercises. Thanks alot!!

heyy thankss!!

and haha omg, this is theeee PERFECTTT question for meeee =]

here's an amazinggggggg lower ab workout, that also happens to be my favorite =]

ok so just lay on your back with your hands/arms either behind your head, across your chest, at your sides- whatever you want. and slowly rise both of your legs off of the ground until they're about a foot or so up.. or if you can't get that high, just get them as high as you can. hold there for like 3-5 or even 10 seconds if you can, and repeat in sets of 10 or 20. they're amazing and work ssoooo good. and you can do them while watching tv! lol good luckkkkk ♥

How can I become more motivated to exercise? Please can you give me as many opptions as posible. Because I have tried and i just cant become motivated enough. :[

true motivation comes from within. if you really want to exercise enough, you will. just remember how much you want it. it may take time, but you'll get there.. i have that same problem lol. i'll be sitting on the couch watchin tv.. thinking "wow i really should be exercising.. nahhhhh dont feel like it" but now, i just do it because i know it will benefit me. just think of how badly you want whatever it is that you want! lol thats really all you can do.. or try elimination everything that keeps you from exercising.. like tv or the computer for instance, until you get into habitually exercising. [exercising without thinking, just doing it daily because you're used to doing it] or you could have someone check up on you, like a parent, sibling or friend =] anohter option is to exericse with someone, that way if you don't do it that day, you'll let them down as well as yourself. and you'll obviously not want to do that, do you'll just exericse =] good luck! oh and you should check out www.toneteen.com for exercises and stuff =] ♥

Okay so me and my b/f have been going out since March 1st. and liek I really like him I do. We have only kissed 2 times. But for some reason i'm kinda scared to make out wit him ( no he is NOT my first boyfriend, and i HAVE made out plenty of tiems) But for some reason I am. I'm scared to hang out with him alone. Like I always want a friend with me. I DONT KNOW WHY!!
but can someone help me ??
becuase i dont know how not to be scaredd lol.

maybe you're scared of him.. or you could just like him sooooo much, that you're nervous to do something you regret. maybe you don't trust him? you're probably just not completely comfortable with him yet.. just relax =] i was like that at first with my boyfriend too.. but then i just calmed down and knew that i controlled everything so it was all okay =] just chill, and you'll be fine =]

how do i let the real me out at school.

me at school:
-shy
-quite
-goody
-not alot of friends
-push over

real me:
-loud
-out going
-crazy
-social (with people at... OTHER schools because i couldnt give a fuckkkk what they think but they like me.. atleast the guys =] )
-usually dont take crap

its getting KINDA warmer were i live and i ussauly the SMALLEST bit come out of my shell at school. what can i do.. to let the real me come out.. i mean.. i really need friends.. and bf because rumors are starting.. what can i do to let me come out.

and you think if i did let the "real me" come out.. people would like me.. ?

anything else you have to say about this make sure to tell me!

thankss sooo much.

you should always be yourself no matter where you are or what the circumstances =] just stop caring so much what people think. *and i know you said that the real you doesn't care, but you said "and you think if i did let the "real me" come out.. people would like me.. ?" who cares if people will like you! people would respect you more for being youself rather than you just being someone you're not =] just let loose and stop caring so muchhh. but to answer your question, yes i'm sure that everyone will LOVE you. i love crazy outgoing people =] they're fun. so just relax, and be yourself. because in the end thats all that matters; you're the only person that you'll ALWAYSSSS have. good luck =] ♥

One of my friends has a paper due this Friday. She's done ALL of the research and the two of us watched the two movies that relate to it. She asked me for help writing it and I said sure. She's a year older than me, but I'm pretty good at writing papers minus the mechanics. So if she were to write it, I were to rewrite what she writes and make it sound smarter (possibly cutting out a lot of stuff she writes and adding it stuff that I think would be better), and then she were to fix my mechanical errors, would that be wrong? I know it wouldn't neccessarily be cheating, but in the long run would it be wrong.

In our eyes it just seems like me proofreading and telling her what to fix, but it also kind of seems like I'm screwing her over by not letting her do it all herself. The only reason it feels wrong though is because she offered to pay me - it makes me feel as if I'm writing it even though I'd just be 'smarting it up'. Now I don't plan on accepting the money, so it's not wrong, is it?

i definitely wouldn't consider that cheating! it's more like proofreading =) just make sure that when you change it, you don't take out her style.. because then the teacher might think that someone else actually wrote the paper other than her. but don't worry, it's not cheating.. it's just helping!! ♥

How many sit ups should you do a day and when should you do them (be very specific). And when you do them, do you just do them going up and down really fast or do you bend down and like wait for a few seconds and then get up and repeat?

youuuuu neeeddd tttooo dddooo ttheeemmm ssllloowwwllyyyy. =) no one can tell you how many to do without working with you/seeing you. just do as many as you can until it hurts. do them in sets. start with i don't know, 3 sets of 20 and see how that feels. if you can't do that many, or if it's too easy, change it up. just do them in sets and rest for about a minute or so in between each set. and when you do them, make sure you're not just sticking your neck up, your whole upper body. and don't go all the way up either, only go until where you feel it most, which is a little more than half way up.

for lower abs, a really good exercise to do is if you lay flat on your back with your hands behind your head, across your chest, at your sides- whatever. and put your legs out flat in front of you and lower your legs up and down. this really targets your lower abs and work ssoooo good.

you should check out www.toneteen.com =) they have lots of good exercises and tips! good luck with your crunches! lol ♥

what are some good stores to get really cute bikinis? (price range from around $20-$60) thanks. =]

hmm,

american eagle [ www.ae.com ]
victorias secret [ www.victoriassecret.com ]
pacsun [ www.pacsun.com ]
hollister [ www.hollisterco.com ]
abercrombie [ www.abercrombie.com ]
delias [ www.delias.com ]
aeropostale [ www.aeropostale.com ]

and just look around in department stores and stuff =) good luck ♥

I am absolutly serious about this. Is there any way what-so-ever, to get my period for the first time earlier? I just want to get it over with, and I want it to come. Only serious answers please, I really want/need this.

sadly, you have no say in when it comes =\ and once it comes you'll wish it didnt lol. but right before its about to come, you'll get lots of discharge [that white stuff] in your underwear and you'll probably get stomach aches [which are just cramps] and you'll most likely get sort of bitchy lol. and when that starts happeneing, you should wear a pantiliner to save your underwear =) and something you should know; if you're really nervous about your period coming, it will be late. and if you don't want it to come, it will. it almost has a mind of its own and plays tricks on you haha.. so just sit back, relax, and wait it out =) good luck with everything hun ♥

how do you loose the fat on your face? take a look at this guy's miracle, no surgery (and it's not a scam because he's famous):
http://img73.imageshack.us/img73/3875/jungkyungho6ll.jpg

you can't just lose fat on one part of your body. you can tone certain parts of your body by exercising them, but you can't like do anything to lose just belly fat, or just face fat, etc. you just have to lose body fat all over, and it will all go away in time if you do cardio things like running and such =) if you're interested in exercises, go to www.toneteen.com they have lots of cool charts and exericses =) hope i helped ♥

If a guy says a girl is "Alright" and then says another girl is "Cute". Is one better then the other, or does he basically mean the same thing about both girls?

well it really depends on HOW he says it.. if he says "she's alright.........." then thats not too good. but it he says "she's alright" with a huge smile kind of teasingly, then thats good. and cute always means cute =) but i'd say in most cases, cute is better than alright =) hope i helped lol ♥

I'm going to my first dance. [in highschool]
Should my date and I ..match?

Is the Sadies dance..even formal?
I don't know. :/

Is there any cheap dresses [what stores]? Nothing quite fancy. More of a casual dress..?
Websites?

well you should only match if you want too.. find out at your school if it's a formal dance.. some sadies dances are formal, and some aren't at all. so ask people at your school who would know =) if it's not formal, then you don't need to match; it would probably be silly too. but if it is, and you decide to match, don't overdo it. like lets say your dress is red, he can wear a red tie or maybe even a red shirt. but don't overdo it, cause then thats tacky =) the deb alwaysss has lots of cute, cheap dresses. and department stores like bonton, boscovs, macys, jcpennys, always have alot =) goodluck, and have fun!! ♥ =)

You might remember me from awhile back, I asked a question about my friend Carly and how she went to a party, didn't come home on time, and I told her sister where she really was and she ended up having to break up with her boyfriend.

Anyway, that's not the point. That night, while Carly was at that party, she got really drunk and her boyfriend took advantage of her and had sex with her. Now, her period is really late and she thinks she is pregnant.

I already "bitched out" her ex-boyfriend for taking advantage of her like that. He is a jerk and I can't believe Carly EVER trusted him in the first place.

My question is, though, how can I be supportive of my friend at this time without being harsh and telling her she's stupid for getting herself in this situation? I'm sure she knows she messed up and she's worried enough as it is, so I don't want to make things worse for her than they already are. I told her to go get a pregnancy test and if it comes out positive, then she should make a doctor's appointment (which her ex WILL pay for) to make sure it is correct.

I want to be there for my friend at this difficult time. What else can I do to help her out?

it seems like you're doing everything perfectly right =) be with her when she takes the test, so she knows for sure you're there for her. if you want, you guys should go to planned parenthood.. they have tests there and could help you =) now i'm not sure if you need a parents or not, so just look up your local planned parenthood, and go and talk with them about taking a test.. or just buy one at the grocery store =) also, tell your friend not to worry, because that's what makes your period late.. good luck to the both of you!! [♥]

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