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kinda scared.
Okay so me and my b/f have been going out since March 1st. and liek I really like him I do. We have only kissed 2 times. But for some reason i'm kinda scared to make out wit him ( no he is NOT my first boyfriend, and i HAVE made out plenty of tiems) But for some reason I am. I'm scared to hang out with him alone. Like I always want a friend with me. I DONT KNOW WHY!!
but can someone help me ??
becuase i dont know how not to be scaredd lol.
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i think maybe you really don't want to be close to him or just your scard to hang out with him because your Afraid of what he might do
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maybe you're scared of him.. or you could just like him sooooo much, that you're nervous to do something you regret. maybe you don't trust him? you're probably just not completely comfortable with him yet.. just relax =] i was like that at first with my boyfriend too.. but then i just calmed down and knew that i controlled everything so it was all okay =] just chill, and you'll be fine =]
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There is a difference between like someone and actually knowing them. It sounds to me like you just need to get to know your boyfriend. After all, you two just started dating. The first month or so should be spent getting to know each other, not making out.
Instead of sitting around at home alone with him, go out bowling, to the movies, putt putt golfing, out to dinner, anything fun! Having fun together is the best way to get to know someone.
As soon as you two start doing those things together and making some wonderful memories, I guarantee 100% that you'll be ready to be a bit more intimate and make out.
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you either REALLLLLY like him alot, or dont like him at all. Figure out which it is first.
If you really like him, as much as you THINK you do, then you should get over your fear. If you're still scared, its not right. If theres any fear in your mind whatsoever, its not right.
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