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i am a teen that is push around by a lot but i have personality and i like watching T.V., running,video games. i have been across the us and went to the uk. i like doctor who a program which no one knows about. i run a scif-fantasy club at my school and that's me in the back listening to my Mp3 player.

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I'm 19 and have an extreme fear of driving. I have my license, but everytime I attempt to get over my fear, I end up having a panic attack and not being able to think. I am okay with side streets with no cars, but once I get onto busy streets with traffic, I'm terrified. I don't know exactly what triggers it, but I think it's because I'm afraid I'll blank out while multi-tasking (as in reading road signs/directions & staying aware of other traffic), make a mistake & end up getting into an accident. I'm not ADD, but I don't think I am capable of thinking about everything at once - if that makes any sense. I have to move out in a couple months leaving me with no choice but to drive myself around. I am just wondering what can help me get over my fear of driving with other cars? Thank you.

i have the same fear but to get over it you must think driving not as somthing between life and death but just as a real life video game

i hope i helped

Ben

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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time now and out of nowhere he starting bringing up the fact that we havn't had sex. I mean, it's not like i havn't thought about it because a 15 year old girl with a boyfriend two years older than her is obviously going to think about the possibilities, but I never actually brought it up or anything. Yes, I am a virgin but I have done other things with him. I just don't know if I'm actually ready to have sex with him. Like, I want to but I don't know if it's because he keeps bringing it up and I'll feel guilty if I don't or if it's because I really want to. And I know that if I'm even questioning it that I shouldn't but there is part of me that wants to. I Don't know what to do. Please help.

do what you think is right if you feel really close to him have sex but with comdoms and take the pill don't take any chances with that but besides that have fun! i am still a vergin and i would take the opportunity

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Okay so me and my b/f have been going out since March 1st. and liek I really like him I do. We have only kissed 2 times. But for some reason i'm kinda scared to make out wit him ( no he is NOT my first boyfriend, and i HAVE made out plenty of tiems) But for some reason I am. I'm scared to hang out with him alone. Like I always want a friend with me. I DONT KNOW WHY!!
but can someone help me ??
becuase i dont know how not to be scaredd lol.

i think maybe you really don't want to be close to him or just your scard to hang out with him because your Afraid of what he might do

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