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umm im 14 years old and i never had my period yet and i have no boobs at all (link)
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I think I may be missing what your question is, however, I'll still try to help you out. Some girls are late bloomers, and nothing is wrong with that. You still have plenty of time to grow, and some don't start their periods until their sixteen. Be thankful.
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where do you all work? (i am looking for suggestions just seeing where everyone else is) (link)
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All of my friends work at...
*Wal-Mart
*KMart
*CVS
*Starbucks
*Fast Food Places
*Hospital (Candystriper/volunteer)
*Restraunts
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if you join a school network, does it tell the other people in that network that you've joined it? (link)
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If your page is private, only your friends will be able to tell by looking at your groups. If your page is not private, anyone who looks at your page, and then looks at your groups can tell.
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is it posibly to like a guy but dont want to like him but cant get over him??? (link)
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Unfortunately, it is very possible. I've been there, almost all of us have been there. Usually, it's only because of one or two reasons, but it's amazing what differences they are though (if they're serious reasons, that is).
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is there anyway to see who has viewed your myspace? i know that there is a counter thing but is there somehting that tells you who? thanks! (link)
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No, there are all kinds of (fake) Myspace Trackers, etc. They're all spam, and sometimes can literally wipe out your computer.
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how do you put music on your column?
and like cursors and stuff? (link)
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Unfortunately, you cannot. Here's the FAQ -- http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=37
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is it wierd to like a guy thats 3 years older than u
for ex
if ur 13 and hese 16 ??
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No, not at all. I say the only thing you have to worry about is if your parents don't approve, then unfortunately, you don't have a choice. Other than that, I think it's fine. I dated a guy that was sixteen when I was thirteen, and everything worked out good.
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my one friend is having a sweet 16 party, like in october. and i mean, i really wanna go, because me and her were really good friends. but like, i dont know any of her friends. and i feel weird. because i dont wanna like follow her around, yano? i guess its pretty big, and alot of people are gonna be there. but its no one i know.
what should i do? (link)
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Try talking to your friend about bringing some of your friends along, see if she'll invite them to her party. Then, you won't feel so awkward and you can have a blast!
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Is Hayley from Paramore married?
Cause i heard that she was, but im not sure if its true...
thanks (link)
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I'm 99.9% positive that she isn't married, I do know that Hunter Lamb left the band to get married, in early 07'.
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Is there a way to delete my internet history? Including deleting all past searches? (link)
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If you have Internet Explorer 7, click on "Tools" and then, "Delete Browsing History." Next, click on "Delete All" and be sure to check the box, when the next window pops up.
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what are symptoms yu get if your pregnant? (link)
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This should help you -- http://www.epigee.org/pregnancy/symptoms.html
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I have problem and my problem is that I had sex a day ago and today my v is hertin and I be need in to pee avery 5mins and its only a little bit and when I do pee it hert in side and this is not the frist time it happend and when it did I got check but they didn't say any was wrong with me , but now am woudering wat should I do cause am worried and don't know wat to d0 cause it hert s0 bad (link)
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If you got it checked out and they don't think anything is wrong, I would trust that for now. Give it about a week and if you're still doing the same thing, go back and let them know that it's still happening. There has to be something they can do, even if there isn't anything wrong, just to help the pain.
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who sings this song.....
this is the story of a girl who cried a whole river and drowned the whole world.
whats the name of it??? (link)
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Story of a Girl by Nine Days.
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ok im like way to tall. im 5'7 and only 15. i hate being tall everyone else is shorter and im taller than everyone. from christmas last year till school was out in may i growed like 3 or 4 inches. some days i will stand next to my mom and i will look shorter. other days i will stand by her and ill be taller. we are on the same level ground and standing the same way and everything. am i going to grow anymore and is there any change of me getting shorter at all?!
thanks. (link)
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Since you're only fifteen, you may grow a couple more inches, though there is no way of you getting any shorter. Listen, I'm the same age as you are and I'm 5'8", I love being tall. I embrace it and use it to my advantage. Don't be ashamed of it, work with what you have. If it makes you feel better, probably the shorter girls and looking at you and wishing they were taller.
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I don't know if I should have sex with my b/f. He's 17 and I'm 15. Usually guys older pressure you to have sex. I dont think he's trying to harm me in any kind of way. I just feel like that's about all he wants is some sex. I'm not ready for sex. I dont want to lose him. I know if he really cares then i wont lose him. But he's tired of waiting . Help??? (link)
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First off, I want to commend you for not giving into him. You know you aren't ready, and if you're not ready -- you should never do it. Especially, when it comes to sex. If he can't wait for you, then he isn't worth it. If he doesn't care enough about you and doesn't respect you enough, he definitely isn't worth it. Please, don't give into him and if he gets mad or upset, tell him to hit the road -- you deserve better.
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I need to get a house key made with a picture on it. Where can I get this done? Home Depot? Anywhere? Thank you! (link)
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Three places I know of that does that is Lowes, Home Depot and Wal-Mart.
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i kind of had sex for the first time 5 days ago with no protection but heres the ting i finnished but obviously he didnt b/c he was thinking of other things so he wouldnt get excited so he didnt even feel close to finnishing on me, but i was supossed to get my period 4 days ago but inever did i still feel cramps adn my boobs r sore but there r all these risks about his penis being in mine even if he didnt finnish im scared please help me out .!!!
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You could be pregnant, there is no way for me to tell you whether you are or are not. However, a pregnancy test can. I recommend you go get one, but wait for about a week and see if you get your period.
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Ughhh! I am 14 and still, no period.
I have discharge, and pubic hair, and all the signs.
Last month the only one of my friends who still didn't have a period, got hers. Im pretty much the only girl in the grade without it.
Well my question is: Are there any other signs of when I will get it, besides the basic ones?
And Please do not tell me I am lucky I don't have it. Because I want it. ANY ADVICE IS APPRECIATED!!
Thanks!! :) (link)
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There isn't anything you can do to speed up the process, or really to tell that you're going to get your period soon. The discharge is a sign, however, it could still means months or years before you start it. And that's about the only sign I can think of.
P.S. I'm sorry, I have to say one thing: When you get your period, you will have a completely different outlook when you feel the dreadful pain. Trust me.
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i was friends with benefits with this guy for a year and just recently he got back together with his ex. they've been going out for 2 weeks and he wants to have phone sex with me already. for me its tempting but i dont want to be the girl he cheats with because i consider phone sex as cheating but he thinks that as long as we're not physical then its not cheating. what do you guys think? (link)
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This is really just about people's opinions, but mine is that it is cheating. Look at it this way: How would you feel if your boyfriend had phone sex, with some other girl? You would call it cheating and probably break it off. So I don't think it's a good idea at all, in fact, to be honest, I think he's just using you for sex. And otherwise, wouldn't want anything to do with you. I don't think you should take any part in this, and I think you should find a good guy, that doesn't have a girlfriend.
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i was watching this tv show and this guy wanted to get "emancipated".. what does it mean exactly and how old do you have to be to do that?
Thanx in advance (link)
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Here you go, this should help you -- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emancipation
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