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his idea of cheating
i was friends with benefits with this guy for a year and just recently he got back together with his ex. they've been going out for 2 weeks and he wants to have phone sex with me already. for me its tempting but i dont want to be the girl he cheats with because i consider phone sex as cheating but he thinks that as long as we're not physical then its not cheating. what do you guys think?
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Block him on the computer, ignore his calls and never give him the time of day again.
You are right and he is drastically and horribly wrong. Do this with him and you will be the "Girl he cheats with" as far as anyone with half a brain is concerned.
Phone sex is most certainly cheating unless he and his new girlfriend have agreed otherwise and I can't imagine for a moment that she has given him the go ahead to have phone sex with others.
He has just proven himself to be the lowest kind of player and manipulator. That isn't acceptable in any kind of friend. A friend with benefits arrangement is rather high risk, they can get you sick, you could end up pregnant or you could just end up hurt. So friends with benefits NEED to be sensible and respectful people or you are going to be caused endless pain by them.
This guy is a moronic, lying, cheater. He is no friend. Cut him out of your life.
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Its not physical cheating but its emotional cheating. He's doing things behind his gf's back; if that's not cheating then wat would u call it?
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This is really just about people's opinions, but mine is that it is cheating. Look at it this way: How would you feel if your boyfriend had phone sex, with some other girl? You would call it cheating and probably break it off. So I don't think it's a good idea at all, in fact, to be honest, I think he's just using you for sex. And otherwise, wouldn't want anything to do with you. I don't think you should take any part in this, and I think you should find a good guy, that doesn't have a girlfriend.
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Its not technically cheating, but if his current girlfriend finds out she'd still be really hurt and probably angry with you. Imagine yourself in her position..and don't encourage that kind of behaviour. We don't want guys to think they can get away with whatever they want, just because they have certain ways to rationalize it.
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