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Q: my 16th birthday is dec. 27, and i know it's a little early, but i want 2 have a party but i have no idea what i want to do? does anyone have any suggestions? what did u do on your 16th? thx
im having a dance

Q: Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much?
yeah i had that problem. I just pretty much yelled at her. nobody should steal your identity-trix

Q: what is a birthday suit?
NAKED!! NAKEDNESS!! WOOT!! LIFE IS SHORT SO RUN NAKED :-p! trix

Q: wat are love handles?
they are the things on your waist. some people have troubles with them because they are pudgy. its were a guy holds you when you are dancing.-trix

Q: i'll admit it, i'm cheap. i like good music but i like it free. where can i download some good stuff that i can understand what i'm doing? my kazaa isn't exactly working anymore and i don't need programs that will crash my computer. yes i have antivirus software.
morphius. www.purevolume.com or media player or go to http://launch.yahoo.com/musicvideos/lists/new.asp
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* Merry christmas
* Trix

Q: i dont know i guess you could say im not really a girly girl so im kinda tough with the guys and they all think of me as one of the guys but im getting tired of that and i want a boyfriend im always mean to them what are some ways i can be nicer to them
be more quiet. dress more girly. wear pink. lol that might shock them but whatever. wear your hair down rather then up. flirt. merry christmas (rate me) trix

Q: ok i am 15 do u think that its ok for kids my age to be dieting? is there diets that u've tried and actualy worked becided working out? people tell me im getting fat and i want to drop a few. thanks
Go on the south beach diet-trix

Q: Hey so i had this really really weird dream it went like this:
Me and this person were in the car and hes one of my friends and he said that he just like broke up with his girlfriend { they are still together in real life} right so then like i put my leg on him and we were just like talking and stuff and it was like we liked each other or something, then the dream changed to me and all of my guy friends were like standing in the road and we were just hanging out when one like ran down the road super fast. I have no idea what this all means.
Its just a crazy dream maybe you have feelings for this one guy.. i'd say it's showing that u like the guy, but the dream doesn't necessarily mean anything yet wait and see if something else comes up like this is another dream - merry christmas -trix .. rate me please ..

Q: does anyone know how to make a 746 KB pic into a 600k image? i need help because i guess its too big and it wont load
copy and paste it into word processor, and make the image smaller, save it, then load it merry christmas ))please rate(( trix

Q: I think I'm anorexic. But I might not be because everyone says that the first quality of an anorexic is denial. I don't know. My friends say that I am, because I don't eat much for lunch and most of the time don't eat lunch at all. I never considered myself underweight, but I guess I would be in like, the 10th percentile. What do you guys think?
Well i wouldnt worry about it if you are asking about and if you are not getting comfronted by your parents. If you are truely worried then get checked. My mom noticed me.. she saw my arms and grab my arms and said we are going in. merry christmas -trix (please rate)

Q: I'm a girl, I have 2 good guy friends. I have a promise with one of them that i can't tell anyone.. well the other day me and the other guy friend got into a fight b/c i wouldn't tell him the promise i had. he said true friends have honesty. i figure that promises are deeper than honesty towards another friend. if i tell the secret, i lose the friend i have the promise with. if i don't tell, i lose the other friend. how can i just keep both guys my friends?
Well tell that friend to be put in your other friends spot and you dont want to break trust with anybody and that he needs to understand. You dont want to lose either friend. They both mean alot to you as i can tell by the way you are asking me. I mean just tell him you want the to keep the secret and keep him to. You dont want to risk loosing a friend. Merry christmas! I hope everything works out! ((rate please)) trix

Q: Hey well i have a problem, this guy that i really liked my freshman year(know a senior). He lives with his girlfriend but his girlfriend, but she doesnt give him any sex and he comes to me. How would i know if he is using me or not? Please let me know i am desperate to know, he tells me he loves me and i dont know if i should believe him because he says he says that he will never hurt me. I dont know if he is just using me for sex or not. i need help. i really like him and i like when i have sex with him too but i dont know.
He is using you. You deserve better. Someone that wont use you. Merry christmas!! Rate me plz! Trix!

Q: In peoples columns, i'm seeing these things where you put out all the letters of the alphabet and... umm, well here's an example "Age-15 .......Dream guy (for D)-Johnny depp. etc...
Can you give me all the letters and stuff? i wanna put it in my column.
Thanks!
Yeah i got that in my email. a]ge: [b]estfriends: [c]hoice of meat: [d]ream date: [e]xciting adventure: [f]avorite food: [g]reatest accomplishment: [h]appiest day of your life: [i]nterests: [j]ello: k]ool aid: [l]ove: [m]ost valued: [n]ame: [o]utfit you wore to school today: [p]izza topping: [q]uestion most asked: [r]adio station: [s]port: [t]elevision show: [u]r favorite song: [w]here you live: [x]yz: [y]ear born: [z]odiac sign: .. i think it takes up alot of room but thats just my preference. Take a look at mine. You could do something like that. but i was just bored and did that! merry christmas!! (plz rate)) trix!

Q: I weigh about 131 pounds and I'm 5'4 (I'm a female) I'm kinda curvy, but I would like to weigh around 115. Is this seriously a realistic weight? If so, how should I go about losing the weight in a healthy manner?
well im 5'3 and weigh 116.. and our ideal weight is 118-131 I was just at the GNC. so sense im a inch shorter im thinking your ideal weight is 120-133 or something. But you could go on the south beach diet! That helps alot. Or do crunches! Merry christmas! ((please Rate me)) trix!

Q: I have straight hair already, but it is pretty static and VERY flyawayish...and its kinda bushy sometimes...what is the best hair straightener out there? I've heard ceramic hair straighterners are good??
Cut like 2 inches off the bottom. That would help it out alot but use pantene shampoo and conditioner. Use revlon straightners! Merry christmas! ((please Rate me)) trix!

Q: I am going through a break up because my boyfriend just wants to give up on our relationship all of a sudden. Now this is a big deal because a child is involved. We have worked through everything for years and now all of a sudden when we have a family started he wants to run and give up? I am extremely hurt and I wish I could just be calm and move on with my life and say well, he's just stupid. But I am so angry and I just want to scream at him so bad but I know that could make things worse. How do I be a calm, cool, and collected person so that there is a chance that he may want to work through this? I don't want to be that angry girl with sarcastic comments comming out of my mouth every five minutes...it's really hard to control guys, I am so mad at him for giving up at the worst time. I wish I could do something as simple as smack some sense into him, but I know I can't. He doesn't understand that he's messing up a chance for our child to create family childhood memories and everything. How should I be throughout all of this? I really need advice I am so lost, I have crazy mixed emotions and my anger is so huge. Please please please help!! We can't afford couples counseling either. thanks.
Go to cousoling i heard something for free at youth works.. but they help with it for older people contact them! I mean its important for him to be there exspeacially now like you said. Just talk to him very nicely just remember to breath in and out! merry christmas!! ))rate please(( trix!

Q: Ok i know this kinda sounds wierd but my friend allison has out of body experiences....like she goes to sleep and then like her soul will wander does any one have any thing they know about something like this? I am fifteen year old female and so is she....
Does she study wichka? merry christmas!! ))rate please(( trix!

Q: can anyone tell me a good site to put digital pictures on besides picture trail because thats not working for me!! thank you
buddi4u.com merry christmas!! ))rate please(( trix!

Q: just rating my b
:-P silly! MERRY CHRISTMAHANUKWANSIKAH DUDE! / Merry christmas!! Trix!

Q: hey its me again :)
lets just say if one of my friends comes on to me like.... u kno like make a move... and that we are kinda tight... what should i do?... bc i dont want to effect our friendship... even though i like this girl a lot i dont want like ne wierd things get between us if i let this happen what should i do??
ty
ur friend Ben lol
Well if you think there good be something there between you and your friend then go for it. Unless you are honestly scared of something happaning like bad wise to your friendship then i would let her know that you dont want anything to happan thats why you arent doing it. But like you said you like her.. then i would give it a shot.. i always say the best things happan between to good friends. My best friend Nathan asked me out and its been 8 months for us last tues. so its been awhile. If i were you and your good friend was my good guy friend.. i'd give it a shot so maybe try it!! MERRY CHRISTMAHANUKWANSIKAH!!!!! / Merry christmas!! Trix!

bio
bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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