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not a girly girl?
i dont know i guess you could say im not really a girly girl so im kinda tough with the guys and they all think of me as one of the guys but im getting tired of that and i want a boyfriend im always mean to them what are some ways i can be nicer to them
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if you want a bf just dont look desperate and try to be more outgoing and not as shy
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You don't have to be a "girly girl" to be attractive to guys. I'd say that most guys actually find the extreme of this stereotype pretty indimidating and difficult to approach (think about it - what does the average teenage boy have in common with the living version of Barbie who likes ponies, glitter and the colour pink? Not a lot).
Of course, there are no rules to what people find attractive, physically or personality-wise, but the best advice anyone can give is to be yourself. Confidence and naturalness are extremely attactive qualities. If you are happy with yourself and how you behave, other people will see that and like you for it.
Also, don't get into a negative mindset of thinking that people won't be attracted to you, as such beliefs can easily generate into self-fulfilling prophecies, as you become closed and guys assume you aren't interested. Instead, make the decesion to be more open and friendly with guys. Turn your 'meanness' with guys into play-fighting with them. Be you, but a more open, approachable and ssubtly flirtacious version of you. It only takes a few subtle signals from you for guys to register that you are a girl, and though you aren't typically girly, you are open to romance. Wants they move you from the category of "one of the guys" to "a cool female friends" the chances of romance realy open up. Good luck!
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just lighten up, flirt with them, don't treat them how they treat eachother. You don't need to become barbie, just lighten up a little, smile, maybe wear more makeup? Do your hair, something, be a flirt, its really not as hard as it looks once you get started. Hope i helped. -Angel
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be more quiet. dress more girly. wear pink. lol that might shock them but whatever. wear your hair down rather then up. flirt. merry christmas (rate me) trix
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