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Is it ok to be a virgin at an age of 17? (link)
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Yes. It Is Okay. Dont Listen To The StereoTypes Of TV. Virginity Is Still Special.
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bottom line:
he calls or texts me maybe twice a week if im lucky
we hang out once a month
and i only see him at school between classes for two minutes once a day
we have been together almost 3 months
but liked each other for over a year
every time i talk to him about how we arent close he gets mad and tells me to end it
what should i do?
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end it
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you know how your curling iron has different heat settings (tempearature), whats the difference it makes to your hair?
like if its really hot , then how is the curl gonna turn out
if its not tthhhat hot, how is the curl gonna turn out..
those kinda stuff (link)
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It's not so much about the kind of curls. It's about the texture of your hair. If you have coarse, thick, hard to straighten/curl hair, you need a hotter setting. If your hair curls easy and is softer, you shouldn't use a hot setting. You shouldn't use a setting that is too hot for your hair because it will damage it.
The way the curls come out depends on the way you curl it and the thickness of the curler.
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cubic zirconia jewlery.. is that really expensive? (link)
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Nope, it's pretty cheap haha
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Whenevert I pee, I pee, it really hurts after, and I don't know why, maybe we have sex too often but I don't know why that is. Does this mean I got have infectio or something like that? (link)
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I could be wrong but it's most likey a Urinary Tract Infection. Go see a doctor. And for the future, ALWAYS go to the bathroom before and after sex!
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How could I be more interesting. People get bored. And also please only answer if you are actually an interesting person who has alot of friends. I want to be known as like "The Life of the Party." That's kind of what I mean except I just want to be more interesting so when I'm out with my friends, I would be more funn to be with, and maybe if I were more interesting, I may actually have more friends. I, myself am a boring person with a lame sense of humor. It's hard to be entertaining when it's me and one friend, I usually struggle for words to say. When I'm with a few friends, i usually shut up when I can't think of what to speakona topic, exspecially the ones i have no idea about. It's easier with a few friends because I can do that and just come in when I have something. I really want to be the interesting one, the one who my friends talk about, saying how great I am or etc. lol.
I don't know if i justifyed this enough for you to understand what I am asking of, but please give me more than lets say for example: ways to be interesting by wikipedia.com, 1. First impressions count, 2. Body language, 3. Your face. . . etc. I can research stuff myself, I want your opinion and I want to now what you do. (link)
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If you really want to be interesting, first of all, make your life more interesting so people will want to hear about it and you'll have something to talk about...try doing more risky and fascinating tasks. Read up a random book or watch a new movie!
Don't act like you're bored if you don't want your friends to be. If you're hyped, it'll be like a disease and soon they'll get excited too!
Don't try to force it. If you force anything, especially sense of humour, it'll be like forcing a laugh and will only end up sounding fake.
When you come across something worth telling, hold it in your mind and tell it to your friends! I always forget the most worth telling things and I regret it. So don't make that mistake!
Anyways, these are just some ideas. I'm definitely the odd one out in my group, and yeah, naturally I'd get left out on some topics I don't have a clue about. Don't just stay quiet at that. Ask them about it! Say all of the who, what, where, when and why!
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I love to organize. I get this weird little thrill out of it. =]
Are there any careers that you know of out there focused on organizing? Where you could organize rooms and such as an actual job? (link)
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Hey I'm the same! Well...recently I've been thinking the same thing. The two jobs that first come to mind would be architecture and accounting. With architecture as designing and organizing rooms and buildings, and accounting as organizing and analyzing data. I hope that gave you some idea?
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alright so last night i was with this boy i like. we were sitting next to each other in the chair and i was like stretching and put my arms up and he grabbed my boob. he kept doing it and started like rubbing it and stuff, it was kind of awkward haha. i dont know if its just me, but girls do any of you feel like, um okay well what am i suppose to do while he is doing this? i think when guys touch or grab or rub my boobs, its just kind of awkward but i know they like it so its like whatever! but there were other people around, and we were under blankets so nobody else knew what was going on ;) haha. sometimes i would like push his hand away and look at him and smile. but what do you girls do when a guy does this with you? without just having to sit there and feeling awkward!
18/f! (link)
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...id tell him to stop?
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ive never had an ipod, so I want a fairly cheap one that maybe holds, 5000 songs. I dont need to be able to watch videos or movies on my ipod, just a simple one that can have a case, maybe a color. what kind should i ask for? (link)
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Just ask for a Nano. Not one of the video Nanos. The new ones come in all the colors of the rainbow, so you can get any color you want. And they are 1-8 gigs. So you can get your range of songs!
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Why did you part ways from your first love? Your personal stories will help with my issue. Thank you. Please feel free to go into as many details as you want or leave it as vague as you choose. (link)
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We grew apart. Mine was that simple
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Yesterday i got my crushes cell #. so i texted him saying hey its justine! whats up? he never replyed! he sent me a fowarded message text! so technically he didnt reply. then today i sent him another text saying hey whats up? and again he didnt reply!!! i know he has a crush on me because he told my 2 friends and my friend over heard him saying he likes me. so he def without a doubt likes me back. he knows i like him 2 cause my friend told him. so if he likes me y wouldnt he text me back? im kinda depressed that he never did. so yea thats my pathetic problem! lol. i would really like some advice!!! thanks soo much!!! (link)
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I'm sure it's nothing to be worried about...have you tried asking him casually why he didn't text you back? Hang out with him more, face to face!
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Heres my proble im 16 and female Ihope you can help,so to make a long story short i fell for my best guy friend and he lead me on for like 6 months im crazy about him it got to the point where he has become me security blanket. i've been going through a really tough time in my life right now and hes been there for me i'd tell him i loved him and hed say i love too but he wouldnt date me and i asked if him it was okay that im so dependant on him, and he told me yes its fine im here for you etc. and just recently out of the blue he was like you call me too much, I cant be your security balnket anymore plus he met someone and basically he was like here ill give you some space get over me and like now we dont really talk hes ina erlationship with this new girl of his , im so hurt cause he jsut liek left and he promise he'd always be there for me and he promised me alot of things but he did lead me ona nd now hes basically doesnt want anything to do with me and he told me left like he did because he got sick of being my friend and i know that, thats not really the main reason why its because of this new girl and i dont know im still in love with hima nd hes my best guy friend and im so confused and hes said oh im sorry a million itmes but i jsut cant forgive him a part of me wants to hate him so much but i jsut cant because i love him and he was the first guy ive ever fallen for and ive cried so much overhim and i jsut cant let go of him and accpet that he did what he did out of all the people i truey care about he walked out me just like my parents did, How can I get over him i need to so bad all he does is hurt me (link)
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I just went through the exact same thing...except that I was really unwilling to give up on him. So don't worry...if I could survive through it, you could too!!
I guess...the thing that really helped me was talking to my friends...especially guy friends. Remember though...if you talk to them, concentrate on talking to them, don't think about the guy. Concentrate on your tasks; yes it's hard...but no matter what you think, just keep your hands and your body moving. It helps. Soon, your head would follow up to your body and you wouldn't think about him at all.
Ever wonder if you smile because you're happy or you're happy because you're smile?
You could blame him for doing this, for being so cruel as to rip out from you like that. Or you could just accept that he's someone just like you. You need to take care of yourself. Because it'd take a miracle for someone to be with you, and be there for you to depend on all your life. That's why you need to take responsibility for yourself. People can help you...but don't let them do everything for you...
And to be honest...if he says he's sick of being your friend...then don't think of him as your best friend anymore, think of him just as someone you know. Who knows how it'll turn out in the future? Just don't be sad anymore.
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Is a 21-year-old girl too young to be dating a 35-year-old? (link)
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I think at 21 the girl should be able to make her own adult decision on that.
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do all girls masturbate and some just dont admit it? or do many really not do it? (link)
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Both. I know many girls that do and lie about it. But I also know girls that actually dont. But all girls def do not becuase I know that I don't :)
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about bad days?
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I'm loving the songs that were posted! Bad Day by Fuel is also a good one.
Theres also the obvious bad day by Daniel Powter, if you're into that type.
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i want someone to love me. i want someone i can love back. someone i can take care of. someone to run around the city with and to talk with into the early hours of the morning.i want someone who will buy me shiny things and fix my computer. someone who can talk common sense into me when i freak out, and remembers small aniversaries. i want someone who loves me because of my imperfections, not in spite of them. someone who is secure of who he is and isnt afraid to stand up for what he belives. i have so much to give and no one sees me for what i could be to someone.
dear advicenators, is this a totally ridiculous wish? (link)
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It's not a ridiculous wish because I'm sure many women secretly wish that. My advice, though, is to just live your life and not look for that. I didn't meet my guy until I stopped looking and it was almost as if he was right in front of me all along I was just too busy searching and looking to actually notice. If you keep looking for that guy, you'll just find one that you THINK fits but doesnt in reality.
Just live who you are and keep a look out for good men...but don't let it consume you.
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18/f. well i've madeout with like 3 guys. i actually find i quite disgusting haha. but i am attracted to guys thats 100% sure, not like im gay or anything but is it weird that i dont like making out? i will kiss a guy, and i like doing other things but not make out. never really had a boyfriend, maybe because everytime a boy tries to kiss or make out i pull away because i dont want to make out and what do i say, uhm i dont like making out? they would probably think i'm crazy. i dont know what to do! :( i feel like i'm the only person who doesnt like making out haha. (link)
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I don't really like making out either. I LOVE kissing but not making out. I'll do it if things get a little heated but I can never just sit there and make out with someone. Just don't open your mouth too much when kissing someone and they should get that you don't want to do it. And if you really like someone and have day to day conversations with them you can just casually bring it up to them. Ask him how much he likes kissing/making out and let him know that youre not a big fan of the make outs so that if you do end up in that situation with him, he won't be offended
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I'm 14 years old and I have facial hair AND IT'S NOTCIBLE I HATE IT!!! Is there anything i can do to get rid of it...please help (link)
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Waxing, bleaching, threading, theres many ways to deal with it. Just don't shave it! I personally like theading the best..It hurts but very good results! Look into what salons in your area offer it! It's not very expensive either.
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thing is i am happy person but some reason i have my lip close look like i am frowning how i get ride of that? i mean i feel like i have to smaile all the time show i not frowing lol. thanks (link)
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It's just the way your mouth is shaped :) Samantha on the last America's Next Top Model had a mouth like that and the judges absolutly loved it. You can't really do anything about it because it's the shape of your mouth. Unless you want to always force it upwards, learn to accept it because theres really nothing wrong with it :) And people wont think youre always frowning because I'm sure your personalitly shows more about you than your mouth.
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im asking this out of sheer curiosity.
if it is possible for a man to love a woman or a man to love a man or a women, a women. is it possible for a man or a women to not be interested in either?
it would be quite hard to find this i think because of our basic primal instincts to love or lust for another's attention or company.
its one of those things were my mind thinks about it. then agrees with it, then thinks about it again to only get confused. what do you think? i would like to have some very explanitable and scientific answers. Thanks (link)
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I think it's possible. I've read articles about people being "asexual". They're pretty interesting and make sense to me. Try to google them, it's pretty crazy to think that some people really are like that.
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