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my christmas wish


Question Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 8:40 pm

i want someone to love me. i want someone i can love back. someone i can take care of. someone to run around the city with and to talk with into the early hours of the morning.i want someone who will buy me shiny things and fix my computer. someone who can talk common sense into me when i freak out, and remembers small aniversaries. i want someone who loves me because of my imperfections, not in spite of them. someone who is secure of who he is and isnt afraid to stand up for what he belives. i have so much to give and no one sees me for what i could be to someone.

dear advicenators, is this a totally ridiculous wish?


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hotpotato answered Wednesday December 17 2008, 9:19 pm:
That's secretly my wish too..


=] Does this Christmas song sound familiar?



"Santa, Can You Hear Me?"

Ooh yeah
Last night I took a walk in the snow
Couples holding hands, places to go
Seems like everyone but me is in love
Santa, can you hear me?

I sign my letter that I sealed with a kiss
I send it off and just said this
I know exactly what I want this year
Santa, can you hear me?

I want my baby, baby
I want someone to love me someone to hold
Maybe, Maybe
Be all my own in a big red bow
Santa, can you hear me?
I have been so good this year
And all I want is one thing
Tell me my true love is here
He's all I want just for me
Underneath my Christmas tree
I'll be waiting here
Santa that's my only wish this year.

Christmas Eve, I just can't sleep.
Will I be wrong for taking a peek?
Cause that I heard that you're coming to town.
Santa, can you hear me?
I really that hope you're on your way,
with Something special for me in your sleigh.
Ooh please make my wish come true
Santa, can you hear me ?

I want my baby, baby
I want someone to love me someone to hold
Maybe, Maybe
we'll be all alone under the mistletoe
Santa, can you hear me?
I have been so good this year
And all I want is one thing
Tell me my true love is here
He's all I want just for me
Underneath my Christmas tree
I'll be waiting here
Santa that's my only wish this year

I hope my letter reaches you in time
woooo yeah
Bring me a love that I can call all mine
Cause I have been so good this year
Can't be alone under the mistletoe
he's all i want in a big red bow

Santa, can you hear me?
I have been so good this year
And all I want is one thing
Tell me my true love is here
He's all I want, just for me
Underneath my Christmas tree
I'll be waiting here
Santa, that's my only wish this year

Ooh Santa
Can you hear me?
ooh Santa
Well he's all I want just for me
underneath my Christmas tree
I'll be waiting here..
Santa, that's my only wish this year
Santa, that's my only wish this year

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TanDancer answered Wednesday December 17 2008, 12:14 am:
I think that this is an amazing wish. Companionship is a natural desire, and you just want a great companion, and don't worry, you'll find that person! As a side note, though, don't force the issue, or you'll only be disappointed. Keep your mind open, and when you find that person, remember that you have to be these things to them as well. Someone with as much love to give as you is bound to find someone wonderful!

Good luck and much love!

~TD

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GilbertMar answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:58 pm:
I'm going to say that this is a ridiculous wish, only because you should not consider it as a wish. This is what you should expect, even demand, it is what we all should demand. You know that you want this, you also know he is out there, you feel it, don't you? Never give yourself to anything less dear girl, wait for him, he'll come.

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Lynn_lushh answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:46 pm:
its not a ridiculous thing to wish for at all. in fact, thats my same wish:)but life's long, and you have a long time ahead to find love, the sweet, loving guy you're waiting for will come sometime in your life, you just got to wait for it:)

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orphans answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:42 pm:
It's not a ridiculous wish because I'm sure many women secretly wish that. My advice, though, is to just live your life and not look for that. I didn't meet my guy until I stopped looking and it was almost as if he was right in front of me all along I was just too busy searching and looking to actually notice. If you keep looking for that guy, you'll just find one that you THINK fits but doesnt in reality.

Just live who you are and keep a look out for good men...but don't let it consume you.

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Navajo_ghost answered Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:29 pm:
"...is this a totally ridiculous wish?"
No not at all. Just be warned that no one is perfect and no one can every meet your every expectations. Keep your eyes open and Mr. Right/Miss Right will come along soon enough.

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