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My best guy friend walked out on me
Heres my proble im 16 and female Ihope you can help,so to make a long story short i fell for my best guy friend and he lead me on for like 6 months im crazy about him it got to the point where he has become me security blanket. i've been going through a really tough time in my life right now and hes been there for me i'd tell him i loved him and hed say i love too but he wouldnt date me and i asked if him it was okay that im so dependant on him, and he told me yes its fine im here for you etc. and just recently out of the blue he was like you call me too much, I cant be your security balnket anymore plus he met someone and basically he was like here ill give you some space get over me and like now we dont really talk hes ina erlationship with this new girl of his , im so hurt cause he jsut liek left and he promise he'd always be there for me and he promised me alot of things but he did lead me ona nd now hes basically doesnt want anything to do with me and he told me left like he did because he got sick of being my friend and i know that, thats not really the main reason why its because of this new girl and i dont know im still in love with hima nd hes my best guy friend and im so confused and hes said oh im sorry a million itmes but i jsut cant forgive him a part of me wants to hate him so much but i jsut cant because i love him and he was the first guy ive ever fallen for and ive cried so much overhim and i jsut cant let go of him and accpet that he did what he did out of all the people i truey care about he walked out me just like my parents did, How can I get over him i need to so bad all he does is hurt me
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I just went through the exact same thing...except that I was really unwilling to give up on him. So don't worry...if I could survive through it, you could too!!
I guess...the thing that really helped me was talking to my friends...especially guy friends. Remember though...if you talk to them, concentrate on talking to them, don't think about the guy. Concentrate on your tasks; yes it's hard...but no matter what you think, just keep your hands and your body moving. It helps. Soon, your head would follow up to your body and you wouldn't think about him at all.
Ever wonder if you smile because you're happy or you're happy because you're smile?
You could blame him for doing this, for being so cruel as to rip out from you like that. Or you could just accept that he's someone just like you. You need to take care of yourself. Because it'd take a miracle for someone to be with you, and be there for you to depend on all your life. That's why you need to take responsibility for yourself. People can help you...but don't let them do everything for you...
And to be honest...if he says he's sick of being your friend...then don't think of him as your best friend anymore, think of him just as someone you know. Who knows how it'll turn out in the future? Just don't be sad anymore.
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