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First Love
Why did you part ways from your first love? Your personal stories will help with my issue. Thank you. Please feel free to go into as many details as you want or leave it as vague as you choose.
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He fell out of love with me i guess. we dated for about a year and when we had been dating for about 6 months we started argueing frequently. so we took a break(his idea) and he came rushing back into my life about 24 hours later, and like a fool i took him back. then he met another girl, and after liking her for 2 weeks while we dated he left me for her. we had a nasty breakup since we were both in highschool, we said things we didnt mean and he hates me now. hes dating that other girl and has been for a month now. i recently asked him if he was ever in love with me and he claims that he was. i lost my virginity to him, and i don't regret it. good luck with whatever your going through.
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Things in life take us in weird places, Life is a lesson that is learned through many mistakes.
My firt relationship was great for the first few months, I was 17 and he was 19 he lived near the city and we both exsplored things couldn't of been better. Soon within the first year things started to change he became a different person and became abusive mentally and physcially towards me. I eventually realized in time that I needed to focus on myself, It wasn't meant to be and that there is someone out there who is waiting for me. As bad as it was with my first, I wouldn't take it back. I believe that it happened for a reason I became stronger, more independent upon myself and I met my fiance because I moved on. I believe things are a lesson, a challenge and in the long end it only makes you stronger.
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In my opinion, I think most first loves are about experiencing, and experimenting, and testing the waters a little bit. Feeling what a mutual connection actually feels like, and getting to know the type of people you like, and how to handle certain types of situations. I hope this helped you with your issue! :-)
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My first love, lasted for four years, we were never in a proper relationship (14-18) as i wasn't allowed to date till i was 18, haha yes parents orders but it was a relationship without the name. We shared everything a normal relationship would. We started liking each other at 14, and we really liked each other but didn't start seeing each other till we were 16. However by that time he was the most popular boy in school, his ego and friends manipulated his thoughts which ended in the demise of our relationship. To be honest we were on and off for those two years, but the last year of our relationhsip were constantley together. After high school finished for both us (both seniors)i went to travel the states for 2 months (i live in england) and when i came back everything was different, he had missed me but gotten used to life without me(not seeing me 5 days every week), so me leaving for uni wasn't as hard for him. The night before i left for uni he was supposed to come round to my house, he never turned up, i saw him in town 5 days later after coming home for the weekend, and his last words to me were 'i will make it up to you annabelle, but whatever happens i know your going to go so far in life'. To this day i carry those words around with me, i still love him and i am still getting over it, and i know he still cares but life goes on. If it wasn't hom that broke it off, it would have been me just later down the road.
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me and my boyfriend at the time had a lot of drama, the relationship got boring after 10 months, and mostly we just didn't get along. he was finally the one to just break up with me. it was more compplicated all the inbetween of course though.
just a tip--if something isn't meant to be, don't push it. that's one thing i learned.
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We grew apart. Mine was that simple
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to start, i was 14 and he was 17. we were constantly pressured by the "he's too old" comments. after four and a half months the relationship got stale. i just lost interest in him, that plus the pressure from my parents eventually made us call it quits. oh yeah forgot to mention he came to me and told me there was another girl who liked him. so i said "F#&@ it, have fun with her. It's over." or something along those lines.
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wow this is so ironic, i was actually just talking to my friend about this. she is just beginning to try to get over her first love, so i was telling her about how i still felt about mine...
Anyway, I was madly in love with a guy about 2.5 years older than me, my parents did not like the idea of us seeing one another, i snuck around to see him and my parents finally accepted my feelings towards him, we dated for about 4.5 months. I gave myself to him because i had fallen madly in love with him. He introduced me not only to love but heartbreak, one night we were suppose to see each other and he never called me. My friend flipped out and took my phone secretly calling him, i was a mess, i figured wow was he ignoring me because i slept with him? I went to his webpage saw i wasnt even on his top friends (yes sounds ridiculous but it meant something to me given the fact he was talking to his ex) So i sent him a message. The next day he called back complaining about the message i sent him, of course i gave in apologizing, even though i know now i did nothing wrong. Then later he called again accusing me of being with another guy, this broke my heart ( yes there was a guy who liked me, but i love the guy i was with) So he didnt believe me, then he called again saying hey lets forget this ever happened, we made plans to hang out and all so he could actually meet my friends which he never did. He then canceled those plans with me, i asked him what are we, what do you want us to be, he said just friends, I WAS A WRECK. Over the next 2 days we talked online and he said he wanted to see me so i of course wanted to see him, we hang out, him manipulating my thoughts making me think we could work it out saying he still loves me calling me on the phone at night. Then about a week later he calls me after school and says your not going to like this but im dating my ex again, i simply said whatever makes you happy. It's like the world stopped for that moment, everything ended. it was just me standing there like an idiot. We talked for awhile after that he wanted to see me but i didnt see him because i couldnt just be friends with him at least at that point. He would still call on a private number so i would answer, he would send me back emails i sent him about how much i loved him asking if i remembered writing that, i moved past him, it been 2 years, sure to this day yes i still do miss him, yes i still do even love him after all he put me through. He taught me so much and made me stronger, made me stop being naive, helped me shape who i am today, from that experience i matured into a woman, but most of all i thank him for letting me love him and for making me feel loved.
a first love is not something you ever truly get over, they remain with you. "you never stop loving somebody, you just start loving somebody else"
anything i can help you with feel free to ask.
Brittni
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