Question Posted Wednesday December 17 2008, 8:59 pm
13/m
ok so last night i had a dream about a girl i went out with for a few months last year
now....im a believer in the things what people say like, dreams are the key to our subconscious and things like that.
so i cant remember the whole dream but the bit i do remember is that i saved her from something im not sure what(because i cant remember) and then we are sitting down talking about something and she kissed me(not pashed/french kissed,just normal what kids do) really pashonately and then she hugged me real tight.
and now i cant stop thinking about that girl
she has been the only girl i've ever really loved(or at least thats what i thought it was)
i broke off the relationship because we were getting to be not talking to each other much and stuff like that but i dont want to go into details
so what could this dream mean?
p.s sorry the question was so long
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? ManintheMoon answered Thursday December 18 2008, 11:40 pm: Hmm, another question to ask is "if you have been thinking about her lately, consciously"? Because even the slightest bit of a memory can leak into the subconscious, or if you haven't and its surpressed- then its another way.
It could mean a few things,
1 - EITHER! she is a symbol for what you love and you are aching (subconsciously desiring) to feel that way again-
2 - Again, deep down you truly miss the way things were, the talking etc- because u said u did talk in your dream..
3 - IF your still seeing her every now and then, maybe in school, you've noticed she still likes you or wants your attention so your subconscious is trying to tell you something that you haven't been aware of while awake.
4 - OR it could just be nothing but a fantasy, and she is just a place holder. Dreams are funny that way, though you probably believe like I do -its a problem solver.
Just please be aware that your dream girl.. is not the same girl in reality- its very hard to decipher, because when your awake , you're making the effort or BLINDLY letting yourself be led to the assumption that this girl you've known, is now this dream girl- thats false.
So don't go back to her because of this dream, its not fair to her- or even yourself for the delusion.
I hope this has helped! Theres so much to think about when it comes to dreams. If it happens again, try to remember more.. and hey, if it happens again where you haven't been talking man- just.. freshly start a conversation, though im sure, other little significant details are attached.
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