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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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Where is a place where I can buy cute thongs for not alot of money? Thanks. xoxo.
Victoria's Secret, Gap Body, Macy's, Mandee, Fredricks of Hollywood.
ok so, what do you do if you're stuck in this situation:
your dad had an affair for 3 years .. without telling your mom or you or your brothers
sounds bad enough, right?
well .. he's still with the whore and expects me and my brothers to warm up to her... be nice to her .. accept her into the family and what not. oh right, and to add to that: she has a 2 1/2 year old son who is annoying as hell.
she comes with us on vacations, and i know my dad spends the money ...that he needs to 'save' before we're able to buy a BASKETBALL HOOP? ... on her
thats not right.. and i've tried having those long serious chats with him. he thinks i'm just doing what my mother does ... hating her for no reason. she screwed over my whole life, why shouldn't i hate her? ...what should i do? and don't say i should try to like her .. cause thats not happening .. other than that i'm up for any ideas
helllp me
I totaly agree with you. You have EVERY reason not to like her. She fucked up your family. And as for your dad saying that you have no reason NOT to like her, that's bullshit. You have every reason not to. And your mother has every reason not to like her too! She fucked up your parent's marriage and family. Do you live with your dad? I think you should move in with your mother instead of your father because that is messed up that he is making you be near that woman. Tell your brothers to rebel against them. If they want to go on vacation and he wants to bring the whore and her son, don't go. He can't force you to do anything you don't want to do. Sorry if this offends you but you're dad is an asshole. You need to talk to your mom and see if you could possibly live with her instead. That is messed up that you have to deal with that woman.
tomrrow im going to my boyfriends house...i go there all the time and my mom knows him and shes met his parents before...the thing is she trys to get WAY to involved...she wants me to bring cookies over there! she wants to "fix them up a plate of cookies and brownies" and me give them to his family...come on...THATS SO EMBARASSING! shes like oh but it would be so giving...i dont know how to tell her without fighting..hellpp
Actually... I'm on your mom's side. It is very nice to bring something to his house because it shows his parents that you care about them. They will respect you so much more just for the little things like that. I bought my boyfriend's parent's Christmas presents. I got them a bottle of wine and two new wine glasses and they were both very appreciative. Well I didn't buy the wine because I'm under aged but my mom bought it for me and I gave it to his mom. It's good having your boyfriend's parents have that kind of relationship with you because then they won't have a problem bringing you places. My boyfriends parents LOVE me. Whenever there is a special occasion at a relatives house she always wants to bring me so she can introduce me to his family. I've met everyone in his family and they all love me. Trust me, it is in NO way embarassing or stupid to bring something for his parents. They will really appreciate it.
Can I please have suggestions or recipes for some good holiday treats I can bake, but ones that aren't too hard to cook or prepare? Thanks.
You have to make sugar cookies. Here's a site with ingredients and directions: http://www.dltk-holidays.com/valentines/recipes/sugar_cookies.htm Hope this helped.
Does it hurt? It looks like it does...also does that nasty stuff come out of the hole??
and if your a guy--do you like it when girls get it pierced?
thanks
If you can handle pain it doesn't hurt. If you're a pussy and someone pinches you and you think it hurts then yes it is going to hurt. I know guys that love belly rings on girls and I know guys that hate them. I think they're cute if you have a nice shape. And that "nasty stuff" that comes out of it is puss. You need to clean it every day as directed by the guy that pierces it for you. After about 6-8 weeks you can change the ring. Hope this helped.
well, at my school rap is reallllly gay. Everyone is punk or emo which i think is gay. If i tell them that they all hate me and get mad **my friends++ and if i say i like rap they think im a freak. What do I do? Please donttell me to not care about what they think...because i do.
also-- same subject
I like anime. No one does at my school but one or two totally ourkasts. sorry if thats mean but they are. And, no one knows i like anime, but i want to put anime layouts etc on xanga, notebooks, and just draw it. What do i do?/
thanks
Everyone has their own prefrance as to what genre of music they prefer. Some like rap (which I hate) Some like emo (which I hate as well) and some like punk (which I hate). Everyone likes different kinds of music. I know you said not to care what people think but really... why would you get mad if someone called you a freak because of the type of music you listen to? I'm not going to call a person a freak for listening to rap. I don't particularly like that genre of music but I'm not going to be an asshole to someone because they like it. They're just being immature and they think that their way is the right way and don't give a crap about anyone else's way. And if you're friends are calling you a freak because of the music you're listening to... they're really not your friends now are they?
I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!
I don't know if anyone said this so sorry if this has been repeated. Take a comb and rub it on there, it will start circulating the blood and it will fade. Take a spoon and put it in the freezer and then after an hour take it out and leave in on there. I'm sure you've gotten rid of it by now but for future if your boyfriend gives you any more... try that. Hope this helped.
How do I delete my whole account!! I don't want it anymore and no one rates me so I just want out! Please give advice soon, will rate!
http://www.advicenators.com/deletec.php
Click it and fill out everything. Hope this helped.
Me and my boyfriend are like the best of friends. We met and have dated since then. I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything. Sounds perfect, right? Well theres this girl whose all over him. I havent said anything, but I made sure that him and her arent together all the time. I talked to him about and he says that he only likes her as a friend, but I can't help being scared that she would steal him from me. I love him more than anything, and he's told me that we were perfect. But that girl, how do I get her to put her feelings about him aside and let me and him be? She even told my boyfriend that she wanted us to break up! She's obviously not hiding her feelings for him! Help!
Have you talked to your boyfriend about the way that she feels? Let him know what she has been saying about the two of you and you should definately confront her. Let her know that it's pissing you off that she's always hanging out with your boyfriend and you don't mind if she's friends with him but you don't want her to be flirting and doing anything to jeapordize your relationship with him. Tell your boyfriend that it is really bothering you that she is all over him. Ask him if when she starts to get too close, tell her to back off. Tell him exactly how you're feeling. You have to be honest with him about how you're feeling. You have to tell him that you're scared she's going to try to break the two of you up and you have to tell him that he's the one that has to tell her to back of a little if she's not going to be listening to you. You see, guys are kinda "out there" at times and never really notice things that us girlfriends notice. Let him know you care about him alot and you don't want anything to come between between you guys. I hope this helped. Good luck!
ok im really confused about my sexuality (im a 15 year old girl).... i think i might be bisexual but i dont know. I've hooked up with a girl in the past but that was cuz we were drunk and i did it to kinda like impress these guys that we were with. and i do find girls attractive, but i dunno if i'd date a girl. I'd hook up with a girl again but it'd have to be under the same circumstances (not sober and to impress a guy)... does this mean im bi? Give me your thoughts on this.
To be honest, at an age like that you're still experimenting with sexuality and yes, you are going to feel confused about your sexual prefrance and believe it or not there are MANY people, young teens, who are confused. In a couple of years you will start to really know if you are bisexual or not because right now since your still young it's hard to tell. Some people find out earlier about their sexuality because they know exactly how they feel towards the opposite sex. A friend of mine is gay. He knew by 8th grade that he was gay because he would see a guy touch himself, not even in a sexual manner and he'd get aroused. A girl could have shoved her boobs in his face, let him grab them, fuck the girl as hard or as much as he wanted but it woudln't arouse him in any way. He was just attracted to men. For a girl in my school it was the same way for her when she was around other girls. Also, being bi is probably (in my opinion) one of the most difficult things to tell if you are or not. Just wait it out and you'll get things straightened out with your sexuality. You don't need to have things figured out right now.
Does anyone know how to lose like 10 pounds realllllllllly fast!!?? and how to get a six pack? my BF wants me to get a six pack but does it look right on girls? HELP! AND FAST PLEEEEEEASE!
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You're boyfriend wants you to get a 6 pack? If you're boyfriend is telling you what to do or anything like that then he's an asshole. Why would your boyfriend want you to have a six pack? Honestly. If he didn't like the way that you looked when you first started dating him then why'd he ask you out? That's pretty shallow that he wants you to look a certain way. But besides from what I think about how your boyfriend is an asshole, here's how to lose a couple pounds: For a month, no sweets or fatty foods ie: potatoe chips, chocolate, sugar, etc. Every night 40-50 crunches (whichever you'd like to do) and 20 situps. Eat 3 full meals a day and if you have the urge to eat something, eat something healthy: fruits and veggies. And you asked if six packs looked weird on girls, in my opinion, yes they do. A girl can be skinny but not have a six pack. 6 packs are for the guys. Does your boyfriend have a 6 pack? If not tell him to get his lazy ass off the couch, stop bossing you around about losing weight and tell him to get a 6 pack himself.
okay.. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for like two weeks now. and i just got my period. my boyfriend told my older sister that i'm not a virgin anymore. my sister has been telling on me for stupid shit lately. my mom walks into my room and she's like "you know you can get pregnant while on your period, right?" i was like "yeah" and she's like "you don't have sex right?" and im like "no i don't" and shes like "uh-huh" and walks out of my room. what do i do?! i'm scared to shit?!
First of all, why the hell would your boyfriend tell your sister something so personal like that? You having sex is no ones business but you and the other person's. Now, if you're underaged and you get pregnant then obviously it's your parents problem. You're sister has no right to be telling on you for stupid crap like that. Talk to your sister and have her not say anything to your mom. Also, tell your boyfriend not to EVER share that kind of information with your sister anymore. If I was in your position I would dump the boyfriend and tell your sister that what he said wasn't true. Your sister has no right to be sharing that kind of information with your mother. You really need to talk to your boyfriend and your sister. You need to tell your boyfriend that he's a moron for saying anything to your sister because it's none of her business. As for your sister, just ask her not to say anything to your mom and if she has said something tell her to tell your mom that it wasn't true and that she was just mad at you. That's seriously the meanest thing a sister can even do. I have a brother and yeah we have our fights but he would never share that kind of secret with my parents. You're obviously not pregnant because you got your period so you have nothing to worry about there but you shouldn't have sex while you're on your period. Statistics show that you are least likely to get pregnant any time that is 18 days before your next period. Always use a condom as well though. You just need to talk to your boyfriend because he was a fucking moron to say anything to your sister (sorry if that was rude or anything but he really is an idiot for saying anything to your sister because your personal life is none of her business) Hope this helped.
ive been looking at porn and i wanna know how to erase the search engines of all the things that ive put in it.....HELP PLEASE. i dont want my parents to find out....HELP i RATE REALLY HIGH!!!!!
jimi smith
You need to go to "Tools" Inernet options, then click on clear history. It's the first tab that says "General" It's towards the bottom. Click that and all the pages will be erased! Hope this helped. Oh, and calm down. Be sure to check again and make sure all the sites are gone.
hey i'm just wondering if it's wrong to go out with someone whos 2 years younger than you? like if i'm 13 [going to be 14 in march] and he's 11 [going to be 12 in july]... but i like REALLY like him, but idk if it's not right or anything.
Thanks a bunch
You want an honest opinion so here it is: I don't agree with a girl dating a guy younger than her. You're at an okay age to be dating but I think that he is wayyy too young to be dating. I'm not telling you how to live your life but all I can say is that if you really like him and he likes you then go for it. So you know, you are going to be hearing alot of things from other people about it. You need to do what you want to do. Don't listen to what anyone else wants you to do.
Dear Advicenators,
One and a half years ago my brother *Henry* was diagnosed with hemophilia, which means that his blood does not clot normally. If he gets a cut, it's really hard to stop the bleeding. If he loses too much blood, he could die if the blood is not replenished.
Henry and I always liked to spend time together (he's two years older than me). We'd ride bikes to the park and shoot basketball hoops. He couldn't be too active, but he was my best friend and I felt safe around him.
Anyway, he lost a lot of blood one day, and was taken to the doctor for another blood injection. The horrible part was, that the person who had donated that blood was carrying the AIDS virus. The doctor proclaimed that Henry now had AIDS.
Henry is 15 years old, is in diapers, and must be fed through an IV or a tube. He has about 4 months left to live. My entire family is sad, and angry about it. My parents must monitor him all the time, so I always have to get a ride to my volleyball games. All three of us never have extra time, because we are always there for Henry and when he must be hospitalized. I had to drop out of volleyball for him.
Henry has been the butt of the jokes from the kids at school lately. They make fun of the fact that he has been in diapers. They are unaware of the fact that his brain is slowly being devoured, and he can't feed himself. The AIDS is tearing the whole family apart. But luckily, my friends are there to console me, but I always feel resentment towards the cruel kids at school. Can I please have some suggestions on what to do about that?
Anyway, as I am spending my last Christmas with my brother, I have no idea what present to give to him. Could I please have some ideas? I want it to be special and something he'll remember when he goes to Heaven.
Also, how can I comfort / cheer up my parents? They have been having lots of mood swings lately and have been very stressed.
Any input and prayer would be great. Sorry about the length.
That is a very very sad story. I am normally not all that religeous but I will make sure that I pray for your brother. When my cousin was born, he was born prematurely and needed an emergency blood transfusion. Unfortunately, the blood that he got had AIDS in it as well and he slowly began to become weak. I was very young when he died and I can hardly remember anything that happened when he was alive. I only have one memory of him: It was Thanksgiving and he sat me on his lap and my aunt was taking pictures of us and I only remember him saying "Emily, you need to smile nice and big for the camera." And that was my only memory of him. My whole family always told me that I was his favorite cousin. I was 4 when he died and he was 10. He'd be 20 years old now. That was one of the hugest losses for our family. Everyone told my aunt that she should sue the hospital because of the contaminated blood but she replied "No amout of money is going to bring my son back." You just need to be there for your family, never turn your back on your family. I think that a good present for your brother could be a picture of you and him in a nice picture frame or even many pictures of you guys in a photo album. I can understand why you've been stressed. Losing a loved one is hard. I've been there. My grandpa died when I was 9 and I remember that day as if it was yesterday. So you know, if you ever feel like breaking down at all or you're depressed and just need to get your feelings out and need someone to respond to you, I'm here for you. I know what you're going through. It is going to be a huge loss in your family but you need to know that when your brother does leave this world, he'll be in a better place where he no longer has to suffer. And in regards to the kids that are making fun of him, ignore them. They are ignorant assholes and shouldn't be saying anything because they don't know. I hope you'll be okay. I'll pray for your family and your brother. I promised my aunt when my cousin died that if I ever had a little boy I'd name him Steven Keith after my cousin. I think that would be a great way to in a way give life to your brother. When you get married and have your children, you're first son, name him after your brother. I'm sure he'll appreciate it so much. I hope this helped. Be strong, and if you need anything know that I'm here for you.
I live in an apartment building. I wanted to do laundry last night, but all 6 of the washers were being used. Two were no longer running so I decided to come back 20 minutes later.
When I did, the machines were still full of clothes. A little mad I decided I would come back in a while. When I came back, all the machines were off, but full of clothes, including the same two that had been off for almost an hour. And the dryers were open, so it is not like they couldn't use them. I got so fustrated, I just decided to not to do the laundry. This has happend before as well.
Is it acceptable to just remove other peoples clothes from the machines? And if so how long should I wait before removing them? I know it's kinda rude, but so is hogging the washing machine.
I kind of have the same problem but not really. I have a brother (a lazy 16 year old brother). He'll put his clothes in the washing machine and then in the dryer but then he wont take them out. I say "Michael, take your clothes out of the dryer" He says okay okay I will but he doesn't. So what I do is I take his clothes out of the dryer, put mine in, take mine out and then I just leave his on the floor to get dirty. It sounds mean but it's a reminder for him to take his damn clothes out of the dryer. You should take the clothes out and put them in the dryer and also leave a note saying "Please remember to take your clothes out." I hate it when everyone in my house forgets to take things out of either the washing machine or the dryer. I swear, I feel like Cinderella having to do everything. I don't want to be touching anyone's clothes. It creeps me out! You should leave them a note saying for them to remember to take their things out. Hope this helped.
Ok i know this guy online and he thinks im rich .I met him because he made this site called y terror and i went to it and ever since then we became good friends.Well to get to the point he is selling ALL his sites that he worked so hard @ to get money for a car and i dont even think he is using it for a car so i LIED i know i feel really bad now .. and i said i would give him the 800 dollors so he wouldnt have to sale his site now he thinks since i promised him i would send him money from western union that he will get it but the truth is when he goes the money wont be there because i dont have it either and when i lied and said ill give it to him he said
Thank you so much your really nice my mom kicked me out ( he is only 17 ) and i live in my buddy's attic and eat mac and cheese every night and then he said now i wont have to eat mac and cheese every night
i really want to be his friend but i cant tell him im not giving him the money so what do i do ??
p.s. he told my sister he wanted to go out with me
You need to think about everything you said and you'll realize everything you did wrong. You met the guy on the internet you went to his site and you became good friends with him. You told him you'd lend him 800 dollars so he wouldn't have to sell the site. He said his mom kicked him out and he's 17 and he lives in his friends attick and eat mac n cheese every night and now he won't have to eat mac n cheese every night from now on? Do you see anything wrong with that? Quoting from I Robot but... ACHOO sorry I'm allergic to BULLSHIT He sounds sooo creepy. You met him over the internet and you're giving the guy 800 dollars. That's not really a smart move. Have you ever really MET him in person? You don't know this guy for all you know he could be some 34 year old pedophile just trying to get your money and rape you. You need to stay far away from people you meet on the internet. You may really think you know him but do you really know him? I honestly suggest you stay away from this guy and not talk to him. He sounds a little messed up in the head.
My house smells really bad.. like dogs. How do i get the smell to go away? I've tried air fresheners like NeutraAir and Febreeze and Oust but none of them seem to work. Is there an INEXPENSIVE way to get my house clean- and fresh-smelling? I'll rate 5's for everyone who tries 2 answer!
I can't believe Febreeze doesn't work! I have two dogs and my house smells kinda funky sometimes so I use febreeze and it works great for me. You should get The Febreeze stuff you spray in the air and the stuff you spray on the furniture. Don't use it like once a week you have to use it every day. Hope this helped.
So I've been preparing fish a lot lately...but haven't ever had to thaw it. Now I've got to thaw it...and I can't remember the best way to do it. Sound silly? It is. I won't use the microwave...because I just wont. I know my mom usually thaws chicken in a tub of luke-warm water...but does that work effectively with fish? So how should I thaw this thing? Thanks.
A couple hours before you prepare the fish, take it out of the freezer and leave it in a bowl of warm almost hot water. When it comes time to preparing it, it should be completely thawed out! That's what everyone in my family usually does. Hope this helped!
I just put a picture of me in my column, and when I went to my column to see how it looked, all that was there was a red X. I tried clicking on it, but nothing happened? Can everyone else see or is it just me? And what can I do?
Thx in advance!
~*Erin*~
What is your column name? The picture probably didn't load because the file size was too big. Or if there was bigger box with the red X in the corner, right click it and click on show image.