Ok i know this guy online and he thinks im rich .I met him because he made this site called y terror and i went to it and ever since then we became good friends.Well to get to the point he is selling ALL his sites that he worked so hard @ to get money for a car and i dont even think he is using it for a car so i LIED i know i feel really bad now .. and i said i would give him the 800 dollors so he wouldnt have to sale his site now he thinks since i promised him i would send him money from western union that he will get it but the truth is when he goes the money wont be there because i dont have it either and when i lied and said ill give it to him he said
Thank you so much your really nice my mom kicked me out ( he is only 17 ) and i live in my buddy's attic and eat mac and cheese every night and then he said now i wont have to eat mac and cheese every night
i really want to be his friend but i cant tell him im not giving him the money so what do i do ??
p.s. he told my sister he wanted to go out with me
Jess5764 answered Monday December 20 2004, 9:10 pm: wow thats really retarded why would you tell him that? and does he really believe someone he just met online is just gonna give him 800 dollars? how do you kno hes not some like 50 year old dude just tellin you that to get some money? [ Jess5764's advice column | Ask Jess5764 A Question ]
Sweetmiss16 answered Monday December 20 2004, 9:08 pm: wow...i guess you could lie to him and say that your parents wouldnt let you send it, or you could tell him the truth..and say that you dont have the money. or lie and say that the money cant be transferred. or, if he doesnt know you personally and you only talked to him online, tell him the truth. or something like that....I hope i helped a little bit!
Shortie8959 answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:14 pm: You could say you tried to send it, but it didn't go through. Or maybe save your money until you have enough. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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PinkLady4863 answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:00 pm: well, you never should of said it but w/e, thatz the past. you don't want to tell him you lied, then he won't like you. just say you tried sending it but they won't let you send that much money. or, your parents got all hissy and told you that you had to pay for college or took away your money and left you broke. you could even say that your parents found out and wouldn't allow you to send it to a person you have never met. there are alot of excuses, just pick one... i know this isn't the best moral advice but if it solves ur problem i'll be happy!
good luck hunnie,
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xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday December 20 2004, 3:56 pm: You need to think about everything you said and you'll realize everything you did wrong. You met the guy on the <b>internet</b> you went to his site and you became good friends with him. You told him you'd lend him <b>800</b> dollars so he wouldn't have to sell the site. He said his mom kicked him out and he's 17 and he lives in his friends attick and eat mac n cheese every night and now he won't have to eat mac n cheese every night from now on? Do you see anything wrong with that? Quoting from I Robot but... ACHOO sorry I'm allergic to <b>BULLSHIT</b> He sounds sooo creepy. You met him over the internet and you're giving the guy 800 dollars. That's not really a smart move. Have you ever really MET him in <i>person</i>? You don't know this guy for all you know he could be some 34 year old pedophile just trying to get your money and rape you. You need to stay far away from people you meet on the internet. You may really think you know him but do you <i>really</i> know him? I honestly suggest you stay away from this guy and not talk to him. He sounds a little messed up in the head. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Monday December 20 2004, 3:26 pm: You need to be honest with him. You risked your friendship with him when you lied to him. You can't let him continue to expect this when it's not coming. You need to come clean and he probably won't want to talk to you anymore, but that is the consequence that you will have to deal with. Sorry that this is not what you want to hear. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
AsKmE135 answered Monday December 20 2004, 3:10 pm: Wow. No offense but this guy sounds REALLY creepy. It sounds like every word coming out of his mouth is a lie. It's probably all just a scam, he is trying to get ur money, and at the same time he is trying to get laid. So if I were you, I would try to lose contact with him. Don't give him ANY of your personal info (last name, phone #, address etc) and block him (if ur using AIM) and don't reply to any of his emails or anything. [ AsKmE135's advice column | Ask AsKmE135 A Question ]
PiEtRuSzEwSkI answered Monday December 20 2004, 2:59 pm: Well for one you may think you know this guy, but in the long run he coudl be some sorta creepo tryignt o get money from you, adn you should never give your money away to someone you dont really really know, even if you do have it, so just tell him you dont have the money, its better to be honest with him, even if it may be hard its the right thing to do, you never know what this guy could really be using teh money for, and im sure he will be jsut fine, dont let it make you feel bad, because its not your fault he's in the situation that he is, so jsut let him know the truth, and it might make you feel a little better. i hope i helped you, and let me know how things worked out! [ PiEtRuSzEwSkI's advice column | Ask PiEtRuSzEwSkI A Question ]
Beccers_boo answered Monday December 20 2004, 12:40 am: i think the only way would be to tell him the truth. If he truly likes you he wont care if your rich or not. i mean you guys sound alot alike. hope i helped [ Beccers_boo's advice column | Ask Beccers_boo A Question ]
xluvinux answered Monday December 20 2004, 12:27 am: Aww hun I'm <b>really</b> sorry about this. But you've gotta do the right thing. He's going to find out sooner or later you're not giving him the money. The sooner you tell him, the better. He's going to be crushed, but you can't change anything now that it's done. If he's a true friend he won't hate you for lying and not giving him the money. He will be sad but he will accept the truth. If he can't deal with it, maybe you should let loose on the friendship until he can handle it (if he ever forgives you.) He sounds like a really nice guy though, so I think you've got hope. I mean he wanted to go out with you, so he must see you for your good qualities.
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funkyfresh answered Monday December 20 2004, 12:25 am: okay.. you arent going to like my answer.. sorry!
answer these questions 1st
1. how do you think that all of these people on tv get killed?
2. do you want to be one of those people?
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anyway... to get to the point you have to tell him the truth u will never regret doing and saying the right thing. you should never lie. this guy doesnt sound like a good person. what do u think he is going to do with all the money? he isnt going to spend it on the car. most likly he is going to spend it on weed and bad things. yall should tell him the truth so you dont end up in a bad position. and him telling your sister he wants to go out with you when he doesnt know you just isnt right. i know that you guys are good friends and stuff but how do you know that he isnt lieing to you? how does he know you arent lieing to him? you guys dont know so in my point of view you must tell him the truth and stop talking to him... i told you, you werent going to like what i had to say but it is only for your safty and im really sorry!
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