Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 3:53 pm
ok im really confused about my sexuality (im a 15 year old girl).... i think i might be bisexual but i dont know. I've hooked up with a girl in the past but that was cuz we were drunk and i did it to kinda like impress these guys that we were with. and i do find girls attractive, but i dunno if i'd date a girl. I'd hook up with a girl again but it'd have to be under the same circumstances (not sober and to impress a guy)... does this mean im bi? Give me your thoughts on this.
CrazyGrnEyedGirl55 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 5:06 pm: you may be bi...but that's just who you are and if people wanna give you shit about it fuck em. maybe you are straight but like to experiment? i've kissed girls before and i'm straight and have a boyfriend. IM me vondutchbabi 182 if you need anymore advice! [ CrazyGrnEyedGirl55's advice column | Ask CrazyGrnEyedGirl55 A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 4:42 pm: To be honest, at an age like that you're still experimenting with sexuality and yes, you are going to feel confused about your sexual prefrance and believe it or not there are MANY people, young teens, who are confused. In a couple of years you will start to really know if you are bisexual or not because right now since your still young it's hard to tell. Some people find out earlier about their sexuality because they know <i>exactly</i> how they feel towards the opposite sex. A friend of mine is gay. He knew by 8th grade that he was gay because he would see a guy touch himself, not even in a sexual manner and he'd get aroused. A girl could have shoved her boobs in his face, let him grab them, fuck the girl as hard or as much as he wanted but it woudln't arouse him in any way. He was just attracted to men. For a girl in my school it was the same way for her when she was around other girls. Also, being bi is probably (in my opinion) one of the most difficult things to tell if you are or not. Just wait it out and you'll get things straightened out with your sexuality. You don't need to have things figured out right now. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 4:39 pm: It's ok that your confused about your sexuality. A lot of people are. Try maybe dating a girl, and then if you don't like it or it's awkward, then I'd say you were straight! Good luck!
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~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
zapreth answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 4:24 pm: No, you are not bi. You are young and confused and horney and curious. Don't worry too much about it. You'll be fine, and nothing you've said is suprising or unsual. Again, don't worry so much. One or two encounters with the same sex does not make you bi or gay, just normal. [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
project9 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 4:17 pm: on the nicer side...it doesn't sound like you're bi. But maybe like there's a small sexual attraction? But OBVIOUSLY you can't be bi if you need to be drunk AND have to "impress a guy." and if you're doing that, then that's sad. If you'd hooke up with a girl and not be drunk --> but maybe no one else is around then maybe you are... and that's fine... [ project9's advice column | Ask project9 A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 4:16 pm: I think you might be confused about your sexuality like you think you may be bisexual but then again, you don't! Don't listen to any of these people who are telling you it's wrong! It's you choice and not their's! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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