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This girl likes my boyfriend!
Me and my boyfriend are like the best of friends. We met and have dated since then. I can tell him anything, and he can tell me anything. Sounds perfect, right? Well theres this girl whose all over him. I havent said anything, but I made sure that him and her arent together all the time. I talked to him about and he says that he only likes her as a friend, but I can't help being scared that she would steal him from me. I love him more than anything, and he's told me that we were perfect. But that girl, how do I get her to put her feelings about him aside and let me and him be? She even told my boyfriend that she wanted us to break up! She's obviously not hiding her feelings for him! Help!
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Have you talked to your boyfriend about the way that she feels? Let him know what she has been saying about the two of you and you should definately confront her. Let her know that it's pissing you off that she's always hanging out with your boyfriend and you don't mind if she's friends with him but you don't want her to be flirting and doing anything to jeapordize your relationship with him. Tell your boyfriend that it is really bothering you that she is all over him. Ask him if when she starts to get too close, tell her to back off. Tell him exactly how you're feeling. You have to be honest with him about how you're feeling. You have to tell him that you're scared she's going to try to break the two of you up and you have to tell him that he's the one that has to tell her to back of a little if she's not going to be listening to you. You see, guys are kinda "out there" at times and never really notice things that us girlfriends notice. Let him know you care about him alot and you don't want anything to come between between you guys. I hope this helped. Good luck!
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